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AgricultureRe: Fenced Farmland Needed From Elerangbe To Epe For Lease by ollyboy900(m): 12:24pm On May 17
Have one in Oyo town, 6 acer, completely fenced with farm house. No poultry house or anything. Indicate your interest and offer per annum.
FamilyRe: His Wife & Children Mistreated Him. He Secretly Sold His House & Left Them by ollyboy900(m): 12:35pm On May 07
My kind of man, weldone baba.
FamilyRe: How Do You Tell Your Children The Truth Without Destroying Their Mother? by ollyboy900(m): 1:53pm On May 06
I am doing what my own father did and handed down, he record the true events of happenings in his diary and handed us the diary to read when we grew up. No blame-game, Just real acceptance of rights and wrongs.

So i am writing down my life events as well, to be handed down to my kids. They can do whatever they like with what is written there-in.
PoliticsRe: My Plans For Nigeria From My First Day In Office — Peter Obi Explains by ollyboy900(m): 6:45pm On Apr 18
Obi would be worst president than Tinubu... Sentiment aside, every successive government is worst than the previous since 1999.

Our political, economic and moral foundation has been wrong since 1960. Brace up for a tough future as a Nigerian irrespective of who is elected the next president.
CelebritiesRe: Estate Of Late Ras Kimono Issues Warning Over Fraudulent Sale Of Property by ollyboy900(m): 6:22pm On Apr 07
OlujobaSamuel:
Hello, pls are you a lawyer??
I've been seeking for something like this for a while, can you pls make a thread on it, if yes, kindly do and tag me.
Thanks
Seconded,
@Olujobasamuel, kind enlighten us more on this. You can make it a thead.
PoliticsRe: 12 APC Senators, Who Are Lining Up For The Governor's Seat In Their States by ollyboy900(m): 9:46am On Mar 05
nihinlade:
This Yayi of a guy, like distributing things to people. But governance is not about distributing this and that. I hope he will do well infrastructurally. Lagos needs technocrats as governor not another core politician. Check Lagos' history, those that performed were all technocrats not politicians.
Yayi is currently representing Ogun west district. He is from Yewa. The best man for the job as the next ogun state governor if you ask me. He has learnt from the Lagos blueprint and i believe that no candidate stand close to him for the next APC primary in ogun state right now.
PoliticsRe: Ozonna Soludo Flaunts New Look, Hairstyle (photos) by ollyboy900(m): 4:17pm On Mar 04
Not looking so good.
Why facing camera with this look?
Foreign AffairsRe: China Has Helped Iran Neutralize American Power (Shocking) by ollyboy900(m): 1:56pm On Mar 04
Hallucinations are allowed, we shall be here in the coming days to see if your assertion is true.

But in the meantime, make yourself happy.
FamilyRe: Lady Shares Strategy That Kept Her Marriage Strong For 5 Years (Video) by ollyboy900(m): 4:55pm On Mar 03
Keep going with your strategy sister...
Don't listen to them feminist ooo
PoliticsRe: Governor Of Zamfara State Lawan Dauda To Join APC by ollyboy900(m): 11:05am On Feb 28
iwaeda:
Tinubu is still not beyond 2027. grin grin grin grin
That's a joke right? Not with what we are seeing on ground.
PoliticsRe: Fintiri Set To Defect As Speaker, 13 Assembly Members Dump PDP by ollyboy900(m): 2:46pm On Feb 26
2027 election will be interesting.
Uncle BAT is already carrying the opposition a 2:0 handicap even before election starts.

What is now the hope of common man hoping and begging for change to our awful condition as a nation?
FamilyRe: How Divorce Affects Children In The North (video) by ollyboy900(m): 5:16pm On Feb 24
This nearly makes me cry, no soul deserves to endure the cruelty of life like this.
PoliticsRe: FCT Election: My Experience At Dutse Alhaji Polling Unit, Bwari by ollyboy900(m): 9:29pm On Feb 21
Do not rejoice yet.
No be this government? Like a devil, giving with one hand and taking with the other.
RomanceRe: The Wahala and Chaos Of Female Nature by ollyboy900(m): 7:25pm On Feb 19
Dizzyyish:
An interesting comment:

Women don't leave unless you're crushed. They'll leave u if you're feeling worse than they are(crushed in spirit) Whether life has u down & depressed or they themselves have torn you down,(a fight for example) they will leave once they have brought u lower than them. Like a finishing move, witnessing her enemies'  complete destruction.
Psychotic, yes. But it's how emotional they are. If ur not strong enough to deal with them (& their crap) then ur not strong enough to keep them and make them look up to ur as "their man." Put it this way: "Women don't leave UNTIL you're crushed."


Women's minds are wired differently than ours & they have certain perceptions about men, and if we break those perceptions then we break whatever makes them want to be with us.
If a woman thinks a guy doesn't need her, then she is more likely to stick around. But if you ever say something to a woman like "I can't live without you", then that is the beginning of the end and she'll eventually leave. They always have to think that you can live without them. Women will forgive a guy that hits them, long before they forgive a guy who is weak.
All hail the prof. (Dizzyyish), professor of women behavioral pattern studies.
This is a very interesting read bro, only men who have see women shege would understand the hidden knowledge in this write ups. Permit me to archive this for the future.

Abeg where be your location bro? Make i send you one bush meat make you take do pepper soup.
RomanceRe: Man Marries 3 Women On Same Day In Ilorin, Kwara State (video) by ollyboy900(m): 1:07pm On Feb 18
Odogwu 👍

The man wan dey chop egusi, ogbono and vegetable soups at the same time.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 12:15pm On Feb 11
pansophist:
odiegwu shocked shocked

Your story reminds me of my uncle that is currently divorced and refused to remarry. He has four kids, and the wife disappeared with them, for over five years.

But due to the love he has for his children, he keeps sending money and paying their school fee, even if he doesnt know where they study.

Until one day, his first son about 15 years old, who understands what is happening, got his father's number through his mums phone and called him secretly, giving him intel about their location.

Then he arranged and travelled all the way to Anambra from lagos to pick them all up, sadly, he could retrieve only three out of his four kids. The fourth child was with the mum when he came.

The first son now acts like a woman. Having a sissy character, and so petty. Woman character don enter him body. The lack of masculine figure in the boys life really messed them up.

I am saying this because you have two boys, and boys must grow with men. A woman cannot raise a man. masculinity is forged, and being male doesnt make one masculine.

If your sons grow up in such a feminized home, chances are, they will grow to be individuals that are the opposite of what you want your son to be.

For your boys to be listening to women conversations, under their sole control, which carries the risk of being indoctrinated to hate you is a bad recipe. It doesnt always ends well.

Please take this serious, I do not know how you will do it, but you must have influence over the upbringing of your sons.
Thank you for your good observations bro, my children would not be left to her care for long bro. I will pick them up in 2yrs time. Then, my last son would have been 6yrs old and i can legally claim their custody.

Meanwhile, i am using this 2yrs window to plan things that will make their lives comfortable. Court will always be after the welfare of the children, and the partner who has the best to give the children always wins custody (No sentiment). I also have an advantage that they are boys so it will be a plus to my argument for their custody along side better welfare.

However, that is if they have not voluntarily dropped the kids for me before the 2yrs. They voluntarily returned the kids of their last born to her husband after taken care of them for a year plus, they were tired of their expenses so i can only hope they will do the same for me.

Last time i was at my children school for their birthday, my first born was reporting that his mummy was suggesting whether the kids would like to be going to school where their father lives. That tells me something.
EducationRe: Should I Travel To UK For Msc Or Start A Business In Nigeria? by ollyboy900(m): 11:36am On Feb 09
samuelson06:
You can't work and pay your remaining school fees. You'll certainly be broken beyond repair. In fact, your plan will collapse. Don't forget, you are only allowed to work 20 hrs weekly. Also, there are no jobs to easily walk in and start working. At the end of the month, you may not be able to save up to £500. Keep in mind there'll be no post-study visa for you in the UK. That means you'll likely migrate to another country after your studies. In fact, don't consider UK. Look elsewhere. If possible, find scholarship opportunities.

I think that another factor you should consider is the influence of AI five years from now. Already, people are struggling with getting jobs. AI is seriously displacing lots of people from their jobs—NOT just IT jobs. Right now, no one is regulating its development and in few years, its influence on the labor market is going to be massive—negatively though. Organizations would always prefer to make more money, replacing people with machines where possible. As the AI continues to create unemployment, countries will begin to focus only on their citizens for jobs. You'll be forced to come back home, or remain a slave over there. You won't be able to make any serious money and you'll pay house rent all your life. Don't forget, you will likely have dependence/family given five years from now. Think!

Coming back to Nigeria, I'd say the country isn't encouraging right now but it's our country nonetheless. You can always find a way around sh!t here than over there. I'd encourage you invest that money here. Take some and buy a land, use the remaining to go into production, especially in the area of agriculture. Do your thing little by little and keep growing. Get a supportive woman to join you and keep growing. The world is growing wild and if you're not from money, it'll be very hard for you to become so rich. However, you can create a stable life that'll ultimately shield your family from lack. That's better than thinking your children would always get a job where you live because there'll always be jobs. Look, a time is coming that even football won't be profitable.

Start building for yourself and unborn family today, forget about this idea of looking for a job. The insecurity crisis in Nigeria is a government thing. Once the government changes, it will go with them.
May the oil of wisdom on your head never run dry.
Wish i can buy you a bottle of chilled stout.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 11:32pm On Feb 02
Oldhead:
Big bros, this your experience ehn, really choke.
The red flag has always been there , maybe you didn’t notice it, or maybe you did and thought you could handle it in the long run. Perhaps your first mistake. I’ve always told my guys, even if you just met a lady today, and you spot a red flag, no matter how beautiful she is, cut her off immediately. The mistake that we men mostly make is wanting to prove that we are men and can handle women’s bs and form maturity , Then it spirals beyond something that we can contain as time progresses, then we lose our frame and become emasculated.

Second mistake is over looking the power dynamics at play at the home your wife grew up, seems to me like the mother was in control and ran it like a military camp. women like that always want to raise thier daughters to be like them in marriage. And the foolish daughters always think all her ill advices comes from a place of motherly love , not knowing that the agenda here is to make sure that thier own marriage too is not as successful because misery love company. How can three daughters , previously married , end up living with thier mother ? Coincidence? or a crazy pattern?. Just glad to see that you’re optimistic and looking foward to a great future
Honestly, i look for red flags in our courting years but i couldn't find any on her part. She was my coursemate in the university and we got together from the 100L so i had all the time to study her.
She was sweeter then, understanding and caring. She was even the churchy type, she would occasionally call me Omo Eshu (Devils child 😀), because, you know now, boys no get time for church stuff. How the care disappeared after marriage is what i couldn't fathom.

However, you were right about your second paragraph. Because the woman runs the house, she is obviously richer that her husband. But i was never opportuned to study them. I lived in oyo state at the time and they are based in Lagos. So even during holidays, i really never visited this babe in their home until we were ready for introduction.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 11:21pm On Feb 02
JoeEeL:
U are an example of what it means for a man to waste his life in marriage. Imagine u were never married and kept reinvesting in ur businesses, u will be able to fund trips to beaches and resorts in other african countries, date their girls or even take any 9ja babe with u just for temporary fun.

If too costly, u can take trips to resorts or nice hotels and restaurants in nigeria here. And ur money would be really passive. In fact u could partly retire in ur early 40's while those doing marriage and yeye love will have to keep working their finger to the bones even to their 60's and 70's. Blind emotion is what makes men fall into this obvious trap where the odds are grossly against them!

U are a prime example why I have declined to marry. I know this is my end if I marry. That need, that primordial need men simply have to just put woman for house is not very logical. And if u cant do without it, postpone it to ur late 30's or early 40's when u don balance well, and toss them around and change them like the tissues they are. They never come into the life of a man to build him anyway... so whats the fuss about them?
Truth well told bro, you see why i refer to myself as "a big foo*l" in my write up. Man just got himself entangle just to proof to the society that he's responsible. Not anymore, now i live for myself and my children. I still plan to retire at 40 or 42 from active hustle bro, travel round the world, write my will or put my worth in trust for my boys.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 11:12pm On Feb 02
Kennatic:
There's nothing as painful as being in a marriage and still feel lonely. I'm sorry for everything you went through, I cringed reading your story cos I don't think I have that kind of energy, I would have long abandoned the marriage and ran. I have decided that in this short life of ours, one thing I cannot allow anyone tamper with is MY " PEACE of MIND" cos a lack of it can make a man age quicker or lose himself.

I am very new in the marriage venture, 3 years in it, a son and another baby on the way dropping any time soon. As a matter of fact I have learnt in these 3 years what can last me a lifetime. She's a great friend, a wonderful woman and wife and understands my personality to the last, so she knows how to act around me and I treat her well too with lots of love and respect. The only thing I just need is plenty of God's blessings and uncommon favour. At the moment things are not so good like I'd want but it's a phase that'll pass.

In all my peace of mind is 1000% intact, in fact she overdoses me with it. If there's anything to go wrong it would come from me and she knows that.

My personal opinion is that we knew what these women are even before we married them, just that at the early stages it's all butterflies so decision making tends to be a bit emotional and then in marriage the real nature of everyone comes to light. A good woman who listens to you, understands you, values you becomes even better and so it is for a good man.

I wish your boys a happy birthday and my Guuuuuuuy Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee enjoy your peace cos you deserve it after the shege you endured, Me?, I go don run sinceeeee cos I no get extra strength, I dey conserve my energy.


In marriage we learn DATING AND MARRIAGE aren't the same, it's about sacrifices from both parties and a return of energy.

I wish you the very best Gee
Things will be better for you shortly bro, rough patches in life are inevitable. We've all been there and the more wins we record, the rougher the next patches becomes.
But if you are lucky with a good woman like your wife, a woman who urges you to keep moving, then the world is yours to conquer.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 9:30am On Feb 02
kushme:
Mehn, this your experience carry too much weight, we can't lift it. From what you wrote, classism was at play.
The mother said she would never come to mainland(reason, it is far). The fact is, she never wanted you to marry her daughter, part of why they gave you unreasonable wedding list. If it was a weathy family who are based in Abj the daughter got married into, Abj wouldn't be that far from momma's house on the Lagos island.

I think it is sad to say this; your enstranged weekend wifey never loved you in the first place. It was about the wedding to her, not the marriage. She couldn't cook for you when you were sick, never cared to ask you for once, how are you doing". Well, even the sisters who stayed back on the island close to mama are all back home to mama like your weekend wifey. So, the pattern speaks for itself. It would be very questionable to blame all three sons in-law for the return of three sisters back home. The controlled and the uncontrolled all lost their wivies to momma, simple.

If they truly accepted you from the beginning, the renting of apartment on the island or mainland wouldn't be an issue.
You are welcome bro, vent oh, sometimes it is needed. Eh dey ease burden on mind. And Happy bithday to your kids.
Hoooo mheen, everything you said is true bro. If the mother inlaw wants her daughters out of wedlock, who am i to stick to the marriage, knowing fully that it's a battle i can't win.
Sometimes being a good man is not enough, some elements of luck dey inside this marriage stuff. For now, my life and peace of mind matters than pleasing the society and old on to a bad marriage.
And Thanks you for wishing my boys Happy Birthday, God bless you.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 3:18pm On Feb 01
fyneboi79:
we have a son together and I let her keep him though with regular unrestricted visits and I have a daughter on the way via surrogacy.

I don't feel any loneliness only trouble is being around people.
That's good bro, i can only visit mine in school because their mum stay with her parent. Looking forward to settling the custody issue shortly.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 3:14pm On Feb 01
kushme:
Bros, tell your experience.
Bro i tried. My estranged woman family is the type that do not want their daughters (children in short including their only son) to live even a mile away from them. The story long

When we were preparing for wedding, they wanted to force me to rent a N1m flat on the Lagos Island (Omo, after all the wedding expenses and their unreasonable traditional wedding list) , my capacity was a N450k 2 bedroom flat at the time (2018), on the Mainland.

This caused friction for more than 2year as her mother said she would never come to our house because it's far. I sensed her hanger was because she couldn't control me perhaps like she's doing two her other two son inlaws

Her mother built on the island so she was obviously trying to make us stay close to her. Her other two daughters; one lives on the same street with her hubby, the other lives in her mother's building with her hubby (Chaii that cannot be me). They are obviously well to do than my family but i no send them, i get good job, i have ambition and i know my strength.

I got the shocker after the wedding, we conceived my first son just 2 weeks after the wedding (Yes, na my son no worries. DNA is done) and sorry i forgot to mention that my estranged madam works on the island, so her office is closer to her mother's home. That how she told me that she would be staying in her mother's house from Monday till Friday, she will come home on friday then leave again on Monday just to avoid traffic stress to and fro daily,

We have agreed before wedding that she would seek job at ikeja, closer to home after wedding but she seems not interested in that anymore.
When i explained my disapproval of her decision to her family, they obviously backed their daughter and that showed me that it was orchestrated by them.

Bro, that's how i lived for 7.5yrs in that marriage ooo, partly married, weekend wife. We were blessed with two handsome boys. But just like a poster said up there, mostly men must act the fool for the marriage to work (what a big fool i was 😀).

When it comes to the home, i pay 99.99% of the expenses, from children schools fees, house rent, kids upkip, food stuff, all kitchen gadgets that mostly reasonable women would get themselves (except all plates, spoons and cups we use in the house despite that madam is working). Compound cleaner was the least monthly expense i paid, just N1500. Madam didn't pay a single one for all the period of marriage, even when i sat her down to reason, she wouldn't change.
Even if expenses is choking me (You know those time when house rent expires children resumes a new section, family car broke down all at once?), when i get them sorted out, she will never bother to ask me how i did.

But what broke the camels's back happened last year 2025. September 2024, i paid for her professional exam, i encouraged her to start so that when she becomes chattered, she would be able to get good job closer to home (ikeja been the target), she did her her first diet in November, result should be out in max a month time, but she never tell me her results, i kept asking but she said she hasn't check. I noticed she may be having cold feet about the result, but i told her not to worry. It is unlikely you pass all your papers at once, i am the one paying, just read.

I later heard from an outsider that she passed one out of four papers, she never told me. Towards the end of December 2024, i bought a lithium battery to ensure we have steady light at home so she can read in the midnight. Unfortunately, that battery exploded on Wednesday 8th January while charging it, alot of properties were destroyed, it was around 8pm, thank God she was away with my kids and thank God it wasn't when i was sleeping. Neighbors rose to my help and we quench the fire but the damage was much.

I informed madam the second morning and told her not to worry that I'm safe, know fully that she will be home on friday. When she return she never said anything, never bothered how i survived, never greeted me. I had electrician working (because all the 6 prepaid meter in our compound were burnt) painters working, aluminum man changing all the broken windows etc. But nothing like "How is it going" from madam or her family members (i overheard her telling telling her that about the situation over the phone later that day)

That day i knew i married my enemy and i was the only one in that marriage, she doesn't care.
I felt pained, rejected and lonely but i left it behind for my kids' sake. I tried to find out from her if i offended her in anyway or why she couldn't be stone hearted towards me like that, but she said "nothing". For the first time in 7yrs, i reported her to her father but i see no changes or even feedback from her father.

But the decision to leave happened in june last year to October, i was sick to the point of no return. Millions of Naira gone finding my health, but madam was never there, she didn't even take a one day leave to stay by me. Her parent was informed on my condition but never bother to call or even pay a visit.
Then my siblings started coming to my house to take care of me, each of them stays a month before next one comes (i always inform her of their coming so she doesn't feel off). Even when she comes home in the weekend and i insist that she should be the one to make my food, she won't, she will say my family members is around and should make my food afterall they do it when she's not around.
I had to leave home early in September because my siblings also left their lives to take care of my out of love (thank God i am good to all of the; so the love was massive), one of them, kid sister lives in ibadan and not married yet, so i moved to stay with her and continue my search for healing. I decided not inform her to see if she would be worried of my wereabout. For 3 months sept-Nov, she didn't bother to call any of my family member to find out about me or where i could be, her parent? the same. She still comes home every weekend without the kids, (perhaps because of her studies), i do see her from the CCTV.

Then, i knew i had to leave. Then i packed my load outa the house towards November ending (still had 5 months rent when i packed), got an apartment in another state and living my life. Thank God for the investments here and there cause i couldn't work (I run my own business) throughout the period and medical bills was much, i still took care of all the home and kids financial needs. Madam's contribution was on N10k throughout the ordeal, and that's on the day i was run rushed to General hospital cos i hadn't been sleeping for 14days straight. My car was out of fuel and i was out of cash.

Now she is fully back to her parents' house, are other 2 sisters are back too (their husbands don carry the children and left). Her only brother is 34, unmarried, still staying with the mother. Father and mother are no divorced but haven't been living together for like 15yrs. Now their family pastors are the one calling me and my siblings up and down preaching "what God has join together" bulls**hit.

She was a good girl before marriage, but trust me, this gender sabi hide their true color. I never cheated on her (infact I've never had intimacy with 2 woman in my life), not that i can't but it doesn't just align with my moral value, i provide, i made her my best friend but it wasn't enough. No one should tell me about "marry right" because no relationship feels wrong before you say i do. There is a reason why apostles paul admonished men in the bible not to marry if not to fall into adultry, marriage is trouble. If yours hasn't come, congrats. Enjoy it while it last, early or later, you must regret something about it. And if your marriage is below 5yrs, abeg don't think you have a good home yet, time will test your marriage

So now my brother, i must thank you for allowing me to vent this off, can't believe i wrote this epistle. My focus now is to build my empire so my boys can be proud of me cos i plan to give them the world. I will go see them in school tomorrow to celebrate their birthday ( Cake, biscuit, sweet parcel, everything is ready 🤫🤫).

I still thank God all these challenges surfaced while I'm still young. At 37, i still have greater things ahead of me, women may not be one of them though.
RomanceRe: My Married Guy Advised Me Not To Get Married by ollyboy900(m): 6:20pm On Jan 31
Biggest regret ever, i had rather adopt an homeless dog than enrolling in that institution again.
HealthRe: Why Your Body Reacts Differently To Food As You Get Older by ollyboy900(m): 10:46am On Jan 27
From the day we were born, human body has started breaking down. We are a machine, created with flaws and bound to breakdown irrespective of what we eat.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Church Attendance Cannot Take You To Heaven by ollyboy900(m): 11:46am On Jan 18
jazzman7711:
You do not need religion to 'go to heaven'.

What you people call 'heaven' is what our people historically call THE LAND OF THE ANCESTORS.

The 'spirit world'.

That place looks like Earth, but a perfect version. As in....perfect.

It's not faraway. It's here. Just a different dimension or frequency.

People there live in beautiful houses they create simply by THOUGHT.

Some houses sit in the sky, in the clouds. Some on the ground. Your choice.

THAT is our REAL HOME, where we ALL came from, and to where we shall ALL return.

You do NOT need to ''believe in'' anything or anybody to return Home.

You don't even need to ''believe in God'' to return Home.

Why should He punish you ''in hellfire forever and ever'' when He knows that you will simply return home from your earthly sojourn and remember everything again? A 'veil of forgetting' was put on you before you decided to incarnate as a human, so as to not jeopardise your life mission on earth.

Soul development needs a clean slate with no memory of the soul's great power, to experience Earth fully.

This is why we say that foreign religion has twisted your heads, and you don't know things that your pre-colonial African ancestors who INVENTED RELIGION over 100,000 years before whites and arabs existed, knew from AGE 3 - that we are ALL powerful immortal beings temporarily living a human existence for purposes of soul development.

You even CHOSE YOUR OWN PARENTS.

You sat down with your Personal Guide (what Igbos call 'Chi') and decided the path of your current Earth life. You chose your parents and your region or country to be born in, that suited your soul's agenda for this lifetime.

Today, we have the evidence.

Millions of people have had near-death experiences that confirm EVERYTHING our ancestors believed about survival of death.

When you 'die' you remain ALIVE AND AWARE, but invisible in this dimension.

You assume an Etheral Body, and regain your sharp awareness, and be able to see your front, your side, and behind you at the same time.

You will stand nearby and be looking at people crying over your extinguished physical body.

You will be looking at it as if it was just a coat or jacket.

You can walk, fly, float, or simply think ''I want to be in Bleep place'' and you're there. Immediately.

You can change your appearance at will. Most people there choose to look like late 20s, early 30s.

You can also appear as a child or elderly fellow. All up to you.

You communicate with others by telepathy or speech. Your choice. Most just choose telepathy. Easy, quick and efficient communication.

THAT'S THE REAL YOU. Powerful. Immortal. And a glorious aspect of God.

You are droplets from the same River you call God.
Hey buddy, your write up captivated me. I always like to connect with people of esoteric knowledge of existence like you. Kindly accord me a privilege of being your distant friend so i can tap from your knowledge.

ollyboy09@gmail.com is my email... will be glad if you say me Hi bro. 🙏
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Bunmi Akinnaanu 'Omije Ojumi' Seeking Prayers, Healing Before Her Death by ollyboy900(m): 1:24pm On Jan 14
Tenses:
The day I would be diagnosed of a terminal disease I'd consider myself most fortunate. I'd made peace with my God and myself and wait for the day I'd die.

I will not seek for healing because I know the longer I live the more regret I compile.

I know of a man that was diagnosed of a terminal illness. He was asked to seek medical attention in India. To do so he must sell his landed properties. His children were already seeking for buyers when he told them that he's not selling any of his land. The said "these lands are yours my children. I will not sell my property to get back my health and then leave nothing for you my children. He died after some few months.

One of his son is my friend now in London. Without the land apportion to him by his late father, he won't be in London today. This friend of my now has lands greater than his father's.
This guy right here is speaking from the multiverse.
FamilyRe: How Do You Cope ? Do You Feel Depressed � by ollyboy900(m): 1:27pm On Jan 03
People have given an intelligent contributions to this topic. @OP, pls take their advise.

You see, this life is incomprehensible. Your current situation is someone else prayer point at the moment just like how you are looking and aspiring other people's situation. Be content but also ambitious.

You divine the life you want, if you want to live the lives of those people you talked above, you must be ready to do what they have done or even do more.
You can't restrict yourself to a minimum wage single source of income and desire a life of financial independence.

Go out there (out of your comfort zone), try your hands on new skill, new trade and making new connections especially with people beyond your radar. Ask yourself how you can add value to other people's lives and you can monitize that later on.

If you are still under 40, do not be ashamed of getting your hands dirty legally with consistency and focus on your goals, you will achieve the life you desire.
CelebritiesRe: Anda Damisa (Lazywrita) Dies By Suicide? by ollyboy900(m): 12:21pm On Dec 30, 2025
There is no true honor in taking your own life. The true honor is in facing your challenges or struggles head-on. If you win, you'll still die but a victorius one. If you lose the battle, you'll still die, but the Supreme creator will welcome you home with open arms, know fully well that you did your best to learn the lessons he wanted you to learn in this material world.

No parents welcome home a child that quit school because of its difficulties.

May his sould rest.
PoliticsRe: I Am Confident State Police Will Be Created To Improve Security - Tinubu by ollyboy900(m): 10:27am On Dec 19, 2025
This is long overdue, we don't need more promises. We need immediate actions to actualize this. Innocent lives are dieing in thousands.
AgricultureRe: Investment: Between Oil Palm And Coconut, Which Is More Profitable? by ollyboy900(m): 3:10pm On Dec 17, 2025
Aside looking at these two crops emotionally or from the point of what many people say. I feel like current prices analysis and yield of this crops will give a better insight to which crop is profitably better than the other. Let's note the value addition involved before all the products of Palm tree (kernel, nut, oil, wine (Although you will sacrifice the palm treet nut yield capacity if you are tapping the wine; a case of you can't eat your cake and have it) can be effective monitized. Compare to coconut, once you dehusk it, it is ready for market.

PALM TREE:
A mature good breed of palm tree will yield between 40 to 75liters of palm oil per annum. Retail price of palm oil per liter today is around N2500, we can assume that from the farm ( wholesale), it will be N2000. Therefore, let's take the max yield for calculation.

75Liters oil x N2000 = N150k per tree x 125 trees (per hectare at a spacing of 9meters) = N18.750million (Production expenses inclusive)

COCONUT TREE:
A mature hybrid coconut yields between 120 to 150 fruits per annum. Retail price of big coconut fruit in the market today ranges between N2000 to N2500 depends on location. Let us take and averag =e of N1000 for a big fruit as an off taking price while also using max yield of 150 fruits as assumed fo the palm tree.

150Fruits x N1000 = N150k x 180 trees (per hectare at a spacing of 7.5m) = N27million (Cost of harvesting and dehusking inclusive).

Although we may argue that palm tree has other by products from wich money can be derived. I think their profitability in today's market is quiet close. Taking into consideration the operational and labour cost of milling and refining palm tree compare to that of coconut which doesn't require much labour before readiness for market.

Corrections and suggestions can be added to this by others, we are all here to learn.
PoliticsRe: Atiku To Tinubu: Nigerians Need Protection, Not Fairy Tales By Moonlight by ollyboy900(m): 11:21am On Nov 26, 2025
The president has fail Nigerians no doubt. In a saner clime, his resignation will be in order. But Atiku would have been worse, he should stop this appeal to emotions of Nigerians.

In 2027, may Nigerians make better choices.

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