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Have one in Oyo town, 6 acer, completely fenced with farm house. No poultry house or anything. Indicate your interest and offer per annum. |
My kind of man, weldone baba. |
I am doing what my own father did and handed down, he record the true events of happenings in his diary and handed us the diary to read when we grew up. No blame-game, Just real acceptance of rights and wrongs. So i am writing down my life events as well, to be handed down to my kids. They can do whatever they like with what is written there-in. |
Obi would be worst president than Tinubu... Sentiment aside, every successive government is worst than the previous since 1999. Our political, economic and moral foundation has been wrong since 1960. Brace up for a tough future as a Nigerian irrespective of who is elected the next president. |
OlujobaSamuel:Seconded, @Olujobasamuel, kind enlighten us more on this. You can make it a thead. |
nihinlade:Yayi is currently representing Ogun west district. He is from Yewa. The best man for the job as the next ogun state governor if you ask me. He has learnt from the Lagos blueprint and i believe that no candidate stand close to him for the next APC primary in ogun state right now. |
Not looking so good. Why facing camera with this look? |
Hallucinations are allowed, we shall be here in the coming days to see if your assertion is true. But in the meantime, make yourself happy. |
Keep going with your strategy sister... Don't listen to them feminist ooo |
iwaeda:That's a joke right? Not with what we are seeing on ground. |
2027 election will be interesting. Uncle BAT is already carrying the opposition a 2:0 handicap even before election starts. What is now the hope of common man hoping and begging for change to our awful condition as a nation? |
This nearly makes me cry, no soul deserves to endure the cruelty of life like this. |
Do not rejoice yet. No be this government? Like a devil, giving with one hand and taking with the other. |
Dizzyyish:All hail the prof. (Dizzyyish), professor of women behavioral pattern studies. This is a very interesting read bro, only men who have see women shege would understand the hidden knowledge in this write ups. Permit me to archive this for the future. Abeg where be your location bro? Make i send you one bush meat make you take do pepper soup. |
Odogwu 👍 The man wan dey chop egusi, ogbono and vegetable soups at the same time. |
pansophist:Thank you for your good observations bro, my children would not be left to her care for long bro. I will pick them up in 2yrs time. Then, my last son would have been 6yrs old and i can legally claim their custody. Meanwhile, i am using this 2yrs window to plan things that will make their lives comfortable. Court will always be after the welfare of the children, and the partner who has the best to give the children always wins custody (No sentiment). I also have an advantage that they are boys so it will be a plus to my argument for their custody along side better welfare. However, that is if they have not voluntarily dropped the kids for me before the 2yrs. They voluntarily returned the kids of their last born to her husband after taken care of them for a year plus, they were tired of their expenses so i can only hope they will do the same for me. Last time i was at my children school for their birthday, my first born was reporting that his mummy was suggesting whether the kids would like to be going to school where their father lives. That tells me something. |
samuelson06:May the oil of wisdom on your head never run dry. Wish i can buy you a bottle of chilled stout. |
Oldhead:Honestly, i look for red flags in our courting years but i couldn't find any on her part. She was my coursemate in the university and we got together from the 100L so i had all the time to study her. She was sweeter then, understanding and caring. She was even the churchy type, she would occasionally call me Omo Eshu (Devils child 😀), because, you know now, boys no get time for church stuff. How the care disappeared after marriage is what i couldn't fathom. However, you were right about your second paragraph. Because the woman runs the house, she is obviously richer that her husband. But i was never opportuned to study them. I lived in oyo state at the time and they are based in Lagos. So even during holidays, i really never visited this babe in their home until we were ready for introduction. |
JoeEeL:Truth well told bro, you see why i refer to myself as "a big foo*l" in my write up. Man just got himself entangle just to proof to the society that he's responsible. Not anymore, now i live for myself and my children. I still plan to retire at 40 or 42 from active hustle bro, travel round the world, write my will or put my worth in trust for my boys. |
Kennatic:Things will be better for you shortly bro, rough patches in life are inevitable. We've all been there and the more wins we record, the rougher the next patches becomes. But if you are lucky with a good woman like your wife, a woman who urges you to keep moving, then the world is yours to conquer. |
kushme:Hoooo mheen, everything you said is true bro. If the mother inlaw wants her daughters out of wedlock, who am i to stick to the marriage, knowing fully that it's a battle i can't win. Sometimes being a good man is not enough, some elements of luck dey inside this marriage stuff. For now, my life and peace of mind matters than pleasing the society and old on to a bad marriage. And Thanks you for wishing my boys Happy Birthday, God bless you. |
fyneboi79:That's good bro, i can only visit mine in school because their mum stay with her parent. Looking forward to settling the custody issue shortly. |
kushme:Bro i tried. My estranged woman family is the type that do not want their daughters (children in short including their only son) to live even a mile away from them. The story long When we were preparing for wedding, they wanted to force me to rent a N1m flat on the Lagos Island (Omo, after all the wedding expenses and their unreasonable traditional wedding list) , my capacity was a N450k 2 bedroom flat at the time (2018), on the Mainland. This caused friction for more than 2year as her mother said she would never come to our house because it's far. I sensed her hanger was because she couldn't control me perhaps like she's doing two her other two son inlaws Her mother built on the island so she was obviously trying to make us stay close to her. Her other two daughters; one lives on the same street with her hubby, the other lives in her mother's building with her hubby (Chaii that cannot be me). They are obviously well to do than my family but i no send them, i get good job, i have ambition and i know my strength. I got the shocker after the wedding, we conceived my first son just 2 weeks after the wedding (Yes, na my son no worries. DNA is done) and sorry i forgot to mention that my estranged madam works on the island, so her office is closer to her mother's home. That how she told me that she would be staying in her mother's house from Monday till Friday, she will come home on friday then leave again on Monday just to avoid traffic stress to and fro daily, We have agreed before wedding that she would seek job at ikeja, closer to home after wedding but she seems not interested in that anymore. When i explained my disapproval of her decision to her family, they obviously backed their daughter and that showed me that it was orchestrated by them. Bro, that's how i lived for 7.5yrs in that marriage ooo, partly married, weekend wife. We were blessed with two handsome boys. But just like a poster said up there, mostly men must act the fool for the marriage to work (what a big fool i was 😀). When it comes to the home, i pay 99.99% of the expenses, from children schools fees, house rent, kids upkip, food stuff, all kitchen gadgets that mostly reasonable women would get themselves (except all plates, spoons and cups we use in the house despite that madam is working). Compound cleaner was the least monthly expense i paid, just N1500. Madam didn't pay a single one for all the period of marriage, even when i sat her down to reason, she wouldn't change. Even if expenses is choking me (You know those time when house rent expires children resumes a new section, family car broke down all at once?), when i get them sorted out, she will never bother to ask me how i did. But what broke the camels's back happened last year 2025. September 2024, i paid for her professional exam, i encouraged her to start so that when she becomes chattered, she would be able to get good job closer to home (ikeja been the target), she did her her first diet in November, result should be out in max a month time, but she never tell me her results, i kept asking but she said she hasn't check. I noticed she may be having cold feet about the result, but i told her not to worry. It is unlikely you pass all your papers at once, i am the one paying, just read. I later heard from an outsider that she passed one out of four papers, she never told me. Towards the end of December 2024, i bought a lithium battery to ensure we have steady light at home so she can read in the midnight. Unfortunately, that battery exploded on Wednesday 8th January while charging it, alot of properties were destroyed, it was around 8pm, thank God she was away with my kids and thank God it wasn't when i was sleeping. Neighbors rose to my help and we quench the fire but the damage was much. I informed madam the second morning and told her not to worry that I'm safe, know fully that she will be home on friday. When she return she never said anything, never bothered how i survived, never greeted me. I had electrician working (because all the 6 prepaid meter in our compound were burnt) painters working, aluminum man changing all the broken windows etc. But nothing like "How is it going" from madam or her family members (i overheard her telling telling her that about the situation over the phone later that day) That day i knew i married my enemy and i was the only one in that marriage, she doesn't care. I felt pained, rejected and lonely but i left it behind for my kids' sake. I tried to find out from her if i offended her in anyway or why she couldn't be stone hearted towards me like that, but she said "nothing". For the first time in 7yrs, i reported her to her father but i see no changes or even feedback from her father. But the decision to leave happened in june last year to October, i was sick to the point of no return. Millions of Naira gone finding my health, but madam was never there, she didn't even take a one day leave to stay by me. Her parent was informed on my condition but never bother to call or even pay a visit. Then my siblings started coming to my house to take care of me, each of them stays a month before next one comes (i always inform her of their coming so she doesn't feel off). Even when she comes home in the weekend and i insist that she should be the one to make my food, she won't, she will say my family members is around and should make my food afterall they do it when she's not around. I had to leave home early in September because my siblings also left their lives to take care of my out of love (thank God i am good to all of the; so the love was massive), one of them, kid sister lives in ibadan and not married yet, so i moved to stay with her and continue my search for healing. I decided not inform her to see if she would be worried of my wereabout. For 3 months sept-Nov, she didn't bother to call any of my family member to find out about me or where i could be, her parent? the same. She still comes home every weekend without the kids, (perhaps because of her studies), i do see her from the CCTV. Then, i knew i had to leave. Then i packed my load outa the house towards November ending (still had 5 months rent when i packed), got an apartment in another state and living my life. Thank God for the investments here and there cause i couldn't work (I run my own business) throughout the period and medical bills was much, i still took care of all the home and kids financial needs. Madam's contribution was on N10k throughout the ordeal, and that's on the day i was run rushed to General hospital cos i hadn't been sleeping for 14days straight. My car was out of fuel and i was out of cash. Now she is fully back to her parents' house, are other 2 sisters are back too (their husbands don carry the children and left). Her only brother is 34, unmarried, still staying with the mother. Father and mother are no divorced but haven't been living together for like 15yrs. Now their family pastors are the one calling me and my siblings up and down preaching "what God has join together" bulls**hit. She was a good girl before marriage, but trust me, this gender sabi hide their true color. I never cheated on her (infact I've never had intimacy with 2 woman in my life), not that i can't but it doesn't just align with my moral value, i provide, i made her my best friend but it wasn't enough. No one should tell me about "marry right" because no relationship feels wrong before you say i do. There is a reason why apostles paul admonished men in the bible not to marry if not to fall into adultry, marriage is trouble. If yours hasn't come, congrats. Enjoy it while it last, early or later, you must regret something about it. And if your marriage is below 5yrs, abeg don't think you have a good home yet, time will test your marriage So now my brother, i must thank you for allowing me to vent this off, can't believe i wrote this epistle. My focus now is to build my empire so my boys can be proud of me cos i plan to give them the world. I will go see them in school tomorrow to celebrate their birthday ( Cake, biscuit, sweet parcel, everything is ready 🤫🤫). I still thank God all these challenges surfaced while I'm still young. At 37, i still have greater things ahead of me, women may not be one of them though. |
Biggest regret ever, i had rather adopt an homeless dog than enrolling in that institution again. |
From the day we were born, human body has started breaking down. We are a machine, created with flaws and bound to breakdown irrespective of what we eat. |
jazzman7711:Hey buddy, your write up captivated me. I always like to connect with people of esoteric knowledge of existence like you. Kindly accord me a privilege of being your distant friend so i can tap from your knowledge. ollyboy09@gmail.com is my email... will be glad if you say me Hi bro. 🙏 |
Tenses:This guy right here is speaking from the multiverse. |
People have given an intelligent contributions to this topic. @OP, pls take their advise. You see, this life is incomprehensible. Your current situation is someone else prayer point at the moment just like how you are looking and aspiring other people's situation. Be content but also ambitious. You divine the life you want, if you want to live the lives of those people you talked above, you must be ready to do what they have done or even do more. You can't restrict yourself to a minimum wage single source of income and desire a life of financial independence. Go out there (out of your comfort zone), try your hands on new skill, new trade and making new connections especially with people beyond your radar. Ask yourself how you can add value to other people's lives and you can monitize that later on. If you are still under 40, do not be ashamed of getting your hands dirty legally with consistency and focus on your goals, you will achieve the life you desire. |
There is no true honor in taking your own life. The true honor is in facing your challenges or struggles head-on. If you win, you'll still die but a victorius one. If you lose the battle, you'll still die, but the Supreme creator will welcome you home with open arms, know fully well that you did your best to learn the lessons he wanted you to learn in this material world. No parents welcome home a child that quit school because of its difficulties. May his sould rest. |
This is long overdue, we don't need more promises. We need immediate actions to actualize this. Innocent lives are dieing in thousands. |
Aside looking at these two crops emotionally or from the point of what many people say. I feel like current prices analysis and yield of this crops will give a better insight to which crop is profitably better than the other. Let's note the value addition involved before all the products of Palm tree (kernel, nut, oil, wine (Although you will sacrifice the palm treet nut yield capacity if you are tapping the wine; a case of you can't eat your cake and have it) can be effective monitized. Compare to coconut, once you dehusk it, it is ready for market. PALM TREE: A mature good breed of palm tree will yield between 40 to 75liters of palm oil per annum. Retail price of palm oil per liter today is around N2500, we can assume that from the farm ( wholesale), it will be N2000. Therefore, let's take the max yield for calculation. 75Liters oil x N2000 = N150k per tree x 125 trees (per hectare at a spacing of 9meters) = N18.750million (Production expenses inclusive) COCONUT TREE: A mature hybrid coconut yields between 120 to 150 fruits per annum. Retail price of big coconut fruit in the market today ranges between N2000 to N2500 depends on location. Let us take and averag =e of N1000 for a big fruit as an off taking price while also using max yield of 150 fruits as assumed fo the palm tree. 150Fruits x N1000 = N150k x 180 trees (per hectare at a spacing of 7.5m) = N27million (Cost of harvesting and dehusking inclusive). Although we may argue that palm tree has other by products from wich money can be derived. I think their profitability in today's market is quiet close. Taking into consideration the operational and labour cost of milling and refining palm tree compare to that of coconut which doesn't require much labour before readiness for market. Corrections and suggestions can be added to this by others, we are all here to learn. |
The president has fail Nigerians no doubt. In a saner clime, his resignation will be in order. But Atiku would have been worse, he should stop this appeal to emotions of Nigerians. In 2027, may Nigerians make better choices. |