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Well, wonders shall never end. My advise is very simple. The simple things make life beautiful while the complicated things make it hard.

Why not simply do the simple thing and put this issue to rest once and for all. Guys, we shouldn't spend too much energy on issues like this. If she is sleeping with your twin brother because you both had a misunderstanding and you are not even married to her yet. Kindly imagine what she will do when you are married to her and you have a misunderstanding like all couples do: She will definitely sleep with you gate-man, your twin brother all over again, you father if you have an active one, all your friends , all the guys in your compound if you have neighbors. Just imagine it.

So do the simple thing and save your self the stress. ERASE HER MEMORIES COMPLETELY. She is worse than a harlot.

Guys, you cannot teach a woman to be faithful. If she will be faithful, she will be faithful. If she is not going to be, there is nothing you can do.

It is amazing how much energy each person has used to defend or express a point. In African culture, a man can marry as many wives has he wants. In Biblical terms. a man is entitled to only a wife!!! Even when African culture supports marrying more than a wife, cheating is still not permitted***. It is equally important that women are scared human beings because of the value placed on them. Likewise the Man as the head of a woman.

Now to the issue under discussion, what is bad is bad. Nothing can make a man forgive an adulterous wife. A wife is different from a girlfriend or mistress or whatever. Please equally note that a woman will never forgive his man for cheating on her. If she said she has forgiven you, you have a life time of work to do to earn her trust back except that she cant ask you to move out of the house just like in Europe/America.

In short, spend your time loving your wife, she really needs little to be happy. Likewise, woman love/respect and make your husband happy. It takes very little to keep your partner focused on you. Once you can do that, adultery wont set it.

Unhappy partners are ones we need to worry about. It takes two to tango. Leave no room to the devil.