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Snow84:
I won't call for about a week. But she would call, saying she must hear my voice. Her friends said at times she would cry for no reason in the hostel, and they would persuade her to call me. Once she calls, she would be okay.

I told her I'm not the type that calls always. I told her I'm Aquarius. And as Pisces, she tends to value such things. From that day, having researched the zodiac signs, she believed me. But that doesn't stop her from requesting for the calls. What I know is that I'm in love. I don't care whether she knows that or not.

She likes being among friends, taking pics upandan. I don't go out. But I like seeing pics she takes during those outings especially where she wears what I bought for her.

youve got a great girl but at d same time dont be too relaxed oh

PaARAaH:
If I miss ma boo I call him sometimes I do the calling I'm one stretch a week cos I understand its either he's really busy otr doesn't have much airtime to call so it all boils down to the understanding between both parties and how the relationship. Started too if the guy was the one always calling, waking her up with calls and putting her to sleep with calls without actually making her know she has to call too. If she doesn't call you as a guy in a relationship with her then who does she calls with her airtime most times?

i guess it has to do more with ur mentality....some girls wuld av credit but stil want you to call all bcuz u r d guy...i guess it also has to do with ones mentality and less of understanding bcuz she can understand and still be selfish abt it.....

1234onyekwe:
how I wish I was blessed with ur kind of. girlfriend ,not those that 'll want u to call them every now and & then ,sapping u emotionally without bringing any meaningful to ur life. even the only thing they contribute to the relationship to make u happy they 'll still haord it.

if u r blessed with his type of girl u will stil av other problems because d truth is nobody is allround perfect BTW u sound pained and frustrated. just take tinz easy nd slowly bcuz some girls can be annoying

NarnieSnyper:
I don't; i don't want her to get too used to me and also avoid being predictable.

I always want her to miss me and if she truly wants to hear from me......she'd call. It aint a one-sided ish but trust some Naija girls na, they'll put it on you

exactly my point saying its nt a one-sided tin but ur plan might not work all d time oh. what if she doesnt call

PaARAaH:
I think it depends on how well you guys connect in your circle of trust some girls feel they have to be a part of your daily life hence the calls and text even chats on some parts others feel. Its just a go with the flow thinGy anyways its still quite an expense to maintain the everyday callin thing especially if the dude is not financially stable .. So if you're feeling you can't keep up with the trend of calling daily just sit and talk about it with her and I hope she trusts you enough to understand your point of view

it all boils down on trust....i hope she understands oh bcuz once she does not, it will only complicate tinz....but do u know if giving her reasons y i cnt will worsen the sityation

ToriBlue:
Its not a must.

You can call her once in every two days, because loneliness makes the heart to grow fonder.

nice one but too much lonliness can make d love fade away little by little oh if taken for granted

Alesandese:
You aren't wrong but you can't blame her either. Its her nature! Moreover some people can't keep up with same routine everyday so In situations like this there would be need for compromise. Talk to her about it, both of you should agree on frequency of calls, from there work something out. I hope She understands tho cos some ladies are utterly selfish

as in ehn.. very selfish...but thanks anyways...i also hope she understands like you

ZarZar:
LMAO @ time heals everything except Yoruba tribal marks. Too funny. No comment on the rest

why dont u want to comment on the rest.. am i opening something u are trying to forget or u dont just feel like

[quote author=ZarZar post=55332795]LMAO @ global speaker on relationship issues. Too ambitious. It's only because I know how it feels & the thoughts it plants in your head when it happens. I read somewhere that when you leave a person alone long enough, they learn to live without you & soon you'll be nothing but a distant memory. It's true.[/quote/]

its 100% true with no iota of doubt.... av also seen it somewhere that time heals everything except a Yoruba tribal mark...lol... make sure ur bf doesnt do anitin like dz to u oh or i will break his head...lol...

jashar:
Nope.

okay, thanks but do u av time to justify that

ZarZar:
Hmmm, but that's the thing, the behaviour is selfish. Just look at all those Is you used to justify the behaviour. It's all me, me, me. What about how it affects her since you're not in the relationship by yourself? Communication is very important because like someone else said, if you don't do it, someone else will step in & do it for you. It's easy to feel neglected when there is no communication in a relationship. And TBH, she may start thinking about ending the relationship or cheat on you.

sincerely uve spoken well and am impressed by ur comments ... u sound so mature....u should be a global speaker on relationship issues....so its not in anyway related to being childish...its all normal bcuz everyone wants to love and be loved

ZarZar:
Yes, I go godzilla over stuff like this too The reasons may take time to be believable, but eventually, you adapt to the change. May I ask why you changed?

so if i was ur bf u wuld av been so mad at me.. lol. but come to think of it, do u know its equally possible that ur bf calls u everyday and still cheats.i feel it all av to do with trust...... i dint really change just dat i feel i shldnt be tied to i must call you, if i dont call you den am indebted to you...making it look like a do or die tin dat i dont av a choice but to call

ZarZar:
Yes. Whatever behaviour you show in the beginning, sets the tone of the relationship. Full stop. Any changes from usual behaviour become suspect. To avoid conflict, simply explain why so she doesn't think you've lost interest, out cheating or whatever. This one is a biggie for me too lol.

lol..so u will also suspect.... are you sure u will believe any reason he gives you...i believe giving reasons wil make tinz more complicated oh..u sabi naija girls na.... any reason u give will be used against u in d court of law..lol

sexybbstar:
I can see you've read the five languages of love.

lol

Alesandese:
If your girlfriend's love language is words of affirmation, You may have to call her everyday to say those words.


To her if my assertion is right... Yes!


Done

thanks so much. But we r all humans.... one will indirectly or directly get bored of saying dem everyday.. or am i wrong

ZarZar:
No, it's not compulsory. But you know what the problem is, setting up a theme you can't keep up with. Don't get her used to a pattern & then change it without notice. It's extremely annoying & questionable.

yessss i agree with u.. like calling everyday and suddenly stopping... so u saying i shldnt in d first place make her used to me calling her everyday

Rukkydelta:
My mum do calls me every day

am sorry but dat was not what i was asking

Emhicee:
That's the result of dating immature or underaged girls...

okay... thanks bro

joshboss:
Who cares bout dis thread. FTC

and you were d first to comment

I av just two questions to ask

1. Is it compulsory i call my girlfriend everyday

2. if i dont call her in a day is it any way related to i dont love her again or am cheating on her

pls i need honest and sincere answers

my own 3 criteria for picking a state is security, cost of living, and state allowance
for north central u can pick nassarawa bcuz its d only north central state dat pays 5k state allowance and d place is peacefull plus d coat pf living is low.

den for south west u can pick lagos if u know someone bcuz lag is man know man if not then pick ondo. No southwest state pay state allowance but dey r all safe in terms of security

for north east or north west u can pick jigawa bcuz dey pay 5k per month ns d place is peaceful plus d cost of living in the north is low

for south south or south east u can pick delta bcuz d cost of living in delta is a little bit lower dan in other south south states plus dey pay 50k at d end of your service yr and s security is also okay

u can get to me through my mail incase u need more info

FODA:
are you talking about caf champions league,because this our Liverpool can't even make European league not to talk of cl

i believe we can

Who else agrees with me on this

veekid:
Buhari sef

incase u dont know.. its an issue within U. I and not a national issue... u should blame their VC

Treyknowles:
So U.I Don Overthrone O.A.U, Nawa O

ah swear dey don ovethrow OAU oh bcuz just few weeks ago i heard U.I NASU was on strike....the only difference is dat na students dey strike pass for OAU

cassidy1996:
Benjamin has a smile

lol

[quote author=PrettyHausaGirl post=55296425]HI, I graduated last year and also mobilized as well as did the online registration and selected my 4 choices of states but at the end I did not print my call up letter or serve with either the November or January batch due to some private issues.



Now I am fully prepared to go with the next batch but I wanna know, since I have mobilized earlier and also done the online registration, do I have to remobilize before this next registration kicks off or do I just wait until registration and then restart registering or just revalidate.

Please note I want to make entirely different state choices.

Why step do I take. Please honest and concrete answers and no insult. Cheers



All u av to do is to remobilise wen reg starts

all you have to do is remobilise wen reg starts

Folksyharry:
Make LFC nor fall my hand today. We must represent for UCL next season.

na my prayer also be dat oh

chelsea 1 - 4 mancity plus injury to kante

Arsenal 2 - 5 westham plus injury to sanchez