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Hello Single Spiritual brother..

Calvary greetings I bring to you.
I have heard of your single state and decided to write to you about the things that has made you single till now..

First, bros..
Decency is good but there's nothing attractive about wearing an oversized black coat on top a bogus red shirt and a heavily huge blue tie with a trouser large enough to serve as bedsheet for my entire village.

I know you can pray like Elijah, I know you have all the gifts of the spirit but it's woman you'll marry na, not spirit. So your packaging matters kwa. It's not all about inner content. Package the inner spiritual man well with outer beauty and class.
You cannot be dressing like one illiterate from Congo and you're wooing a sister than is a bank manager. Bros, check it na, it's not fair..

And yes, I also know you've read the Bible back to back. I know, but understand that when you take a sister out on a date, it's not bible study or prayer meeting. It's a date; talk about things like vision, fun, dreams, social issues, ETC.

Learn about other things, be updated, read books, see TV series, follow conversations on social media, be intelligent in conversations biko..

And see eh..
When you love a lady, don't go and just tell her that God said she's your wife.
Is that all the reason you'd want her?
You sef you no follow see her awesomeness?
Compliment her biko..
Tell her there's just no woman like her..
Don't quote Bible while wooing her. Lol
If you must quote Bible, let it be from songs of Solomon..
Talk like a man, a natural man.
Look her in the eye and communicate how you feel..

And biko remember to wear a nice cologne. There's nothing holy about having a body odour no matter how much you speak on tongues..

Uhmm,
Telling your pastor to talk to a lady for you eh, that thing is childish. Na pastor wan marry am?
Approach a woman yourself o. Talk to her. Sending your father in the lord to talk to her makes you look immature. She wants a confident man not some timid spiritual man.

Buy her gifts, not just Bible. She has Bible already na. Buy her chocolate, phone, clothes, shoes, just buy her something relatable to her, not bible. I'm not saying Bible is not good but she has Bible na.

If you're always saying everything that is fine is demonic like lipstick, classy clothes, good living and ETC, you'll bore and irritate her. If everything is a sin, wetin person wan enjoy again for this life?

Conclusively, Spiritual brother.
Learn to make a woman laugh.
Learn to be less serious sometimes.
We are not yet in heaven, having some lovely time and fun is not evil..
You can hold hands with her and give her a hug when she's worried..
If won't steal your salvation..

There are lots of things to still say, but as times goes I will write to you on these matters that concern your single state.

Sisters share it with spiritual brother....

na osuofia dem suppose put join

mine was if i pick any money that doesnt belong to me, i'l turn to a goat or yam.... lol

share yours below

only federal hospitals and military .. i thought dey said government hospitals and that includes both state and Federal

Emmaesty:
You could have easily said that it was a wonderful place to be in but you decided to leave because you wanted to take on new challenges. Once you get to the top of a mountain, it's time to move to another mountain

whao, you nailed it. you sound like a pro

prettyjo:
Benue state

ok. dats good. hp the killings there is not everywhere. btw, pls does benue pay state allawee nd how much

prettyjo:
I can relate with all. BTW my pop is tomorrow

congratulations dear..... where did u serve

i might not be a manchester united fan but this is a good move from them because am a nigerian

DollarAngel:
We are not Devils we are the true and only Red

You'll Never Walk Alone bro #YNWA

vanV:
I think does that paid would be notify on 16th of may.

really... am not sure of that though

vanV:
Hmmm M expecting mine on the 16th

how come

Emmaesty:
Nah..... Kano is wayyyyy too far.

kano is nt dat far... at least its stil in nigeria. lolz

Emmaesty:
Lol.... Let's boycott service.

I didn't pick Lagos because I'm tired of staying at home. I wanna be free

boycott.. ok then..am after you..... if u tired of staying at home nd u want to be free den u shld prefer a place dat is a lil bit far from lag... oyo is still too close...kwara or delta will do... even kano

Emmaesty:
Lol.... Let's boycott service.

I didn't pick Lagos because I'm tired of staying at home. I wanna be free

boycott.. ok then..am after you..... if u tired of staying at home nd u want to be free den u shld prefer a place dat is a lil bit far from lag... oyo is still too close...kwara or delta will do... even kano, lol

Emmaesty:
I just want a state that I can easily fly into Lagos.

I don't want Lagos sha, just a nearby state.

Kwara is 4 hours which is not too bad sha but Kano? Hell No!!

Me is not going for service again if it's Kano

i thought we were going to burn their HQ, not that we wunt go for service gain... lol.... why dint u pick lagos instead

Emmaesty:
Amen Amen Amen. I need to do fasting and prayer on top this Oyo matter oh. It is a serious issue.

really? is it dat u av a connection waiting for u or u are scared of ur other options

Emmaesty:
lol I have psychic powers

indeed.. lol.. u tried...for dat you are going to oyo for nysc...before i change my mind sha o loool

Emmaesty:
I get notifications but I'm still wondering how you got my Facebook name sha

lol.. am also still wondering how u knew i was d one

Emmaesty:
You've already sent me a request on Fb tho

lol. u got that so fast

Emmaesty:
I finished from Olabisi Onabanjo University. Last year October

ok.. lets just hope for the best...all eyes on May 18th wen callup letter will be out... cn u send me ur digits

Emmaesty:
I'm from Edo state and I schooled in Ogun so Delta is quite shaky for me

yes but i know someone from last batch dat is from edo, schooled in ondo and got posted to delta... am from ekiti and i also schooled in ogun..funaab to be precise...wich skul in ogun did u finish from

Missmossy:
Nassarawa and Oyo respectively.

they are both good states...nassarawa is d only north central state that pays state allawee nd its close to abj

Missmossy:
Hmmm know of both third and fourth choices. Its all good though.

ok... what was ur third and fourth choice

pls which is better and safer.. kano or jigawa

Eghosagraviti:
It has to be Lagos,Abuja,Ogun,Oyo,Kaduna and maybe Enugu in that order.

you forgot to add kano and kwara

Quam7even:
The states for automatic redeployment are borno yobe and adamawa ryt?

yes

Emmaesty:
For me, It's Oyo or i'll go and burn down their HQ.

But all the same, we might be posted to Kwara sha

we'l go burn their HQ together if am posted to kwara..lolz.... delta is most likely where we wil get posted to BTW delta is cool and fun...wot state did u school

Missmossy:
You are right. Could still get Oyo though. People get their third or fourth choices most times. Where are you serving yourself

last batch, people were thrown mainly in their third choices