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i will be replying him now, and there is know madness in getting to know him, it's not easy for a young lady to work at getting to know a man, so do bare with me,

Culture, and i've never had to chase a guy, it's not ego, guys like to work to be with a girl, if a girl is trying to get a guy, and she's more interested then it's a huge problem straight away. If me and this guy met at uni, i wouldn't bother getting in contact, if he didn't contact me i'ld leave it, but because it's a hospital setting, i know that he may be reluctant to seem unprofessional, by leaving the topic of his job to get into personal matters, hope that makes sense,

ebony eyes abi ooo about his ego he's a sweet guy and he seems very humble, but that is it seems, you never know someone untill you know them, btw am 22 and am guessing he's about 25, thanks dear

lol, pharoah i meant a girl should never chase a guy, it is always the other way.

Lacrisma, i don't understand why i should keep it moving, i like the guy, and i don't expect him to send a msg when he was the last to send without response, i'll give it a little time and make contant,
Ebony eyes i agree with you, if he is interested he will get the hint and try and get to know me too, it's a two way thing, a guy should never chase a guy,

Ebony eyes, i was thinking of doing that, but i really don't want to seem a pest, am sure i wouldn't but it's a risk. My friend told me to add him on facebook but i think it will be too forward,

I don't know exactly what to tell him, that i would like us to be friends, lol? how would a guy react to a msg saying that, it's a little unexpected,
i may take the risk, if it goes wrong i can just block him on facebook loool

So your saying that i should leave him alone
ok i'll do so for at least 2 weeks and see if he makes contact, but i doubt he would out of not wanting to seem strange aswell, why would he make more conversation with someone only saying thanks for a good job, he might feel that replying his reply would be silly, noone send a msg to someone who doesn't respond to their previous one, hmmm

any other opinions welcomed

lol, i actually was considering bringing up his professions if i should replied,
in his reply he said

Thank you very much for the message. You are very welcome.
It was an absolute pleasure, He is very blessed to have such a loving family. Remind him to take it easy
I hope he and the family had a great christmas and I wish all of you good health and the best for the coming year too.

i don't know if he is single but should i follow up the msg, am single at the moment

lol, just like that eh, i iwish it would be that easy, but his reply was really sweet, so am smiling right now. How soon should i reply, he replied over an hour ego, should i reply tomorrow?

Am still in contact with my ex and even though he is a good guy, it is crazy to know exactly what he is up to via facebook etc, am hoping we lose contact in the future but i will miss our once in a while communication, when am in a serious relationship i will defiantly cut him off, he played a part in ruining my last one.

Hey guys, so i got a reply from him today, he said it was a pleasure to help and he enjoyed it, also said i had a lovely family and put smiley faces in his msg, also wished me the best for the new year etc, so here's the thing should i respond and carry on tryna get to know him, or not,

amaka are you munachi abi, cus if so were facebook friends

sounds very jealous, am sure she is dying for you deep down, pls just accept her request you don't need such a friend. Every girl wants a romeo guy so you don't have a problem!

thanks dear, i only did say thanks in the msg, but am sure his got a blackberry (so should recieve emails on the go), i will keep you posted when he keeps me posted, lol

lool, i sent the msg 30 mins ago, am still waiting for a reply, hmmm hope i haven't made a mistake, but what's that can happen, nothing at all

SENT IT YAY,
would keep you posted

loool, i guess this is how guys feel, men it's not easy,
lemme find you on facebook instead, lol

don't know o. Wish someone can press the button for me, i've got to do it, I've never done something like this before,

I Can't press send

i've written the msg, about to press send, lol wish me luck.

lol, nice comeback

ONLY HUMAN BEINGS NEED REPLY

LMAO, trust me he will not think i am cheap, i am a classy girl, i was more worried that i was intimidating him, he doesn't need any gift, am not trying to date the guy, i could, but am more interested in getting to know him, if we could get there then i know he would like me regardless of what happens,

Go and get an education JCOB, nawa for some peeps on this NL!

Usher, CAN YOU HANDLE IT>>>aaawwww so young then

Mama Gee go and sleep. You too like attention. Moreover I have viewed your pic and seen that I am easily finer than you, i have also read your replies and seen that i am more intellegent, am asking NL users for advice, if you can't help then mind your business lady, enjoy the lead up to 2010

I think i'll do it now, deep down i know he would be pleased to hear from me, will let you all know how it goes, lol

Dear babes, i was asking for advice, if you don't have anything helpful to say then don't post. Afterall i didn't beg you, did i,

@ Mama Gee, HI HATER. BYE HATER

lol, i know the feeling, try to KEEP letting her know your not intereted, may take months, years, but the MSG will sink in!! am still working on mine, why is it that the person you want is the tricky and the one's you don't will never get away, just life

I don't have a clue if he is in a relationship or not, but i would regretif i didn't make the contact, am sure he wouldn't be annoyed to hear from me, it's just the fact that i know he won't be expecting my msg, i think i'll take the risk, i've never done anthing like this, am used to it being the other way , i know how that sounds but it is true

wish me luck, lol

tell her how you feel, after church just say, i really like you. Don't drag it out, make sure you do so in private, she'll respect your openess.

thanks guys, i know he would remember me, it's been less than a week since we saw each other, am just not sure how he would react to contact on his facebook profile by someone he doesn't really know, but then i really like him,
and i know he'll be going on holiday to africa in a matter of days, don't want to leave it for too long incase someone else declares feelings for him, the situation we met made it hard to talk more, but if you see this guy *wow*