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RomanceRe: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Oluesther(f): 4:17pm On Jun 24, 2012
ayosmiles: I used to have this girlfriend I loved so much that I would go to her place, sleepover and cook her breakfast. On weekends I would help her tidy her room before takin her out. When she left me, I thought she felt I was too attached but now she's back beggin me to come back, sayin she made a mistake and no guy could care 4 her like me.

Guys, is it wise to do those things for your woman? Girls, will you appreciate a guy that does that?
I will so much appreciate any guy that does that to me.
RomanceRe: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Oluesther(f): 5:26pm On Jun 23, 2012
Exponental: Why r u guys accusing d hubby. Refer 2 d post below

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she caused it as a result of her not being home always and neglected him to concentrate on her banking career. There was no additional statement 2 back d lady up except 4 her job.
I want 2 conclude dat she left ALL in d hands of d maid (which she neva needed). She shld av at least not make her hubby feel lonely. Money is good but its not all abt money. She needs 2 agree on terms with her hubby or get a divorce.
Pinshi...pinshi!
Seun pls create an avenue for us to dislike some comments.
RomanceRe: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Oluesther(f): 5:17pm On Jun 23, 2012
[quote author=O.D.B.]If she had just stayed at home like a regular housewife all this wont have happened.[/quote]Will the husband give her all the money she needs, if she stays at home? She has to work to get money to support the family.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Is Verbally Abusive by Oluesther(f): 5:10pm On Jun 07, 2012
Somebody is complaining that a lady he has not yet married is not good on bed.
No wonder some guys are saying he has spoilt her "yansh" for the next man that will date or marry her, if she leaves him.
If she starts exhibiting good skills on bed now, they will call her a flirt. Na waa ooo!
RomanceRe: My Fiance Is Verbally Abusive by Oluesther(f): 5:01pm On Jun 07, 2012
ifihearam: Na wa for dis life ooooo
See the way all these babes dey support rubbish becos all of una na desame
Oya make doctorazz leave the relationship wether manna go fall frm heaven
Sometimes I wonder the kind of upbringing some girls here have. You don't see anything wrong with a full blown woman that can't cook,clean a house let's take the sex aspect out first.
Then somtin is wrong with all of you
Okay of what importance is she na.

Even some guys are abusing phman on this very issue,u guys are doomed
Lemme ask this babe,you know urself because ur utterances have been like ur husband or bf is ur slave that's why u see nothing wrong in a woman knowing how to cook becos ur husband is ur slave,I pity the fool u married becos one day when he realises,u will find urself in the labor market looking for another mumu.

Please the ladies,what would you have advised portharcourt man if he was ur blood brother?
Some of you here are shameless hypocrites
You pretend and lie too much
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell If He Is Impotent Or Not? by Oluesther(f): 2:53pm On Jun 07, 2012
Oluesther: Ofcourse u'll know whether he's potent or not without sex. Atleast erection should occur when u kiss or stay together, and u'll see or notice it.
I wanted to write "erection", not "attention".
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell If He Is Impotent Or Not? by Oluesther(f): 2:50pm On Jun 07, 2012
Ofcourse u'll know whether he's potent or not without sex. Atleast erection should occur when u kiss or stay together, and u'll see or notice it.
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell If He Is Impotent Or Not? by Oluesther(f): 2:38pm On Jun 07, 2012
KarmaMod: so because he's respecting you and not acting like a goat on heat, he's impotent?
Don't mind her.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Is Verbally Abusive by Oluesther(f): 1:18pm On Jun 07, 2012
mexzony: My dear just reading this post as a guy makes me angry and asking what kind of guy are u with who cannot see past ur faults,i mean that is what love is about.the ability to feel for someone even when u know they are not perfect.the hand writing is on the wall and it is not until you get physically abused that u will realise u are in trouble.Long and short of the story he does not deserve you,this guy clearly has issues.save ur self now before u do something u will regret.marriage is not a plaything,it is serious bizness so make sure it is what U̶̲̥̅̊ want.a stitch in time saves nine.
mexzony: My dear just reading this post as a guy makes me angry and asking what kind of guy are u with who cannot see past ur faults,i mean that is what love is about.the ability to feel for someone even when u know they are not perfect.the hand writing is on the wall and it is not until you get physically abused that u will realise u are in trouble.Long and short of the story he does not deserve you,this guy clearly has issues.save ur self now before u do something u will regret.marriage is not a plaything,it is serious bizness so make sure it is what U̶̲̥̅̊ want.a stitch in time saves nine.
mexzony: My dear just reading this post as a guy makes me angry and asking what kind of guy are u with who cannot see past ur faults,i mean that is what love is about.the ability to feel for someone even when u know they are not perfect.the hand writing is on the wall and it is not until you get physically abused that u will realise u are in trouble.Long and short of the story he does not deserve you,this guy clearly has issues.save ur self now before u do something u will regret.marriage is not a plaything,it is serious bizness so make sure it is what U̶̲̥̅̊ want.a stitch in time saves nine.
May God bless you for this comment.

Reading PH man's comments and reactions makes me sick. He is indeed very abusive. He wrote that his fiancee is also verbally abusive. But I'm sure she only abuses him back after he does that first.

He has commented that why he has not left her was because he doesn't want to break her heart, but he is already doing that. Just because she has flaws, does that mean you should kill her?

U want to correct somebody by force while you have not corrected your own errors. Doctorazz wrote that she has a lot to inform us, but later reclined, because she has seen that your comments have dominated the whole post. This is also how you dominate, suppress and abuse her. She should not write anything again. I'm sure by now she must have really known the stuff her 'fiance' is made off, if she didn't know initially.

My conclusion is both of you are not compatible, so the best thing to do is to end this madness called relationship. Ofcourse she will get somebody that will appreciate, value, respect and correct her with love. And you PH boy or man will get somebody that will make that your hot head to cool.
RomanceRe: Marrying A Woman Who Can't Cook by Oluesther(f): 8:04pm On Jun 02, 2012
"My hobby is cooking and cleaning but that does not mean i should marry someone who can not cook no but am ready to teach her and even send her to school for that i dont care but is she is adamant i cant cope with her".

Are u a man or a woman?
NYSCRe: Marriage After NYSC: Why Do People Talk About This? by Oluesther(f): 8:17pm On May 29, 2012
[quote author=Mr..Cork]swwweeery if u lookin for husband, why dont u just aSK? angry[/quote]Ask who? Lol!!!
Jokes EtcRe: Love Letter By An Onitsha Big Boy! by Oluesther(f): 7:44pm On May 28, 2012
Odenigbo Aroli: Please,stop displaying your ignorance and your inherent inferiority complex! High class my a..ss!
pls u pple should hapu lucky girl aka, biko!
HealthRe: Lagos Government Willing To Negotiate With Sacked Doctors by Oluesther(f): 8:00pm On May 08, 2012
Let all those unemployed good doctors be employed. To be a doctor is more of a calling than a profession. Their calling superceeds that of pastors. To save lives should be their major interest. These their incessant strikes has been affecting sick people and pregnant women badly.

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