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Thanks all. Atleast I have an idea of where the questions will be coming from - English, Maths & Current Affairs. Mine is on the 7th, 10am.
May God see us through.

cindylee: i don't know about being disrespectful but I do it. In short a lot, not out of disrespectbut my inquisitive nature and he doesn't get angy and even me I don't mind because he does it it although not every time.

U're right dear. Even those saying it's not right will still hide and do it. I do it a lot when he leaves his phone with me. But reading a new message before passing the phone on to the owner is disrespectful. U two can read it together. This builds trust. Except if U're hiding something.

Hardworking

Dreyl: For all i care Bleep illuminati Bleep those goddamed asshole niggers,i can worship LUCIFER because of fame or wealth,but i knw som hypocrites will do that i'm really sorry 4 Dem cuz hell will be their ABODE..

You just wrote "U can worship Lucifer...".
Pls modify for clarification.

quote author=joe4christ]^^^^ you are a what? A fool![/quote]Why? Why insulting her? Because she needs Ur advice? Na wa 4 U o!

okpara ugo: YES, why would you admire another woman's husband strenght? How did you come to know how strong he was

I only admire his strenght to forgive

okpara ugo: I was LEAD not to inform guyB, the father4cka.

Are you sure?

okpara ugo: Am here. Look no further.

I thank God for you.

[quote author=starlight®®]Which goes to say you would mrsbehave.[/quote]lol! That promise is to God, not to U sir.

I was only admiring the strenght of that man. Did I do wrong?

ab1x: I am glad that you put the devil to shame. That singular act is called RESTITUTION. Without it, one will continue to grow in sin. You sure have the best husband in the world. I am happy for you and may God continue to be with your family

Amen!
My dear, U know restitution is not easy, but God still enjoins us to do it so that the devil will be shamed. Forgiveness flows when restitution is done.

I've got restitution to do. I have to buy a new locker(school desk) and return to my secondary school, as I had to carry another person's after WAEC. I got so angry that mine was stollen and decided to carry another person's own home. I shouldn't have done that as a Christian. That locker I brought home was of no use to me and my family.

God please forgive me. Though it's an easy thing to do, but I've not had time to go to Owerri for long. Rapture should not take place till I do this, please! God help me.

Every true Christian has to do his or her own restitution. Not doing this can hinder one from going to heaven. Whatever in your belonging that does not rightfully belong to U should be returned back to the owner, his family, the environment U took it from(as the case may be).

Full restitution means she has to return that girl to her biological father. She has just taken the first step which is to confess to her husband. She has to agree with her husband, inform Guy B about this, and plan on how to return his daughter to him. They've got to reach an agreement. Maybe the girl stays with her mum till she grows, to avoid being maltreated by Guy B's family. That girl has the right to know who her biological dad is. Let them do as the HOLY SPIRIT leads them.

Smallville4live: You said you guys fell in love and later in the story, you are saying you never loved the guy. What are you not saying?

She said she never loved him(Guy B), she did not know what came over her.

Oh!
What a wonderful man.
God please give me his kind as a husband; I promise not to misbehave.

uyogabie: My dear,you are not alone!sounds exactly like like what ive been going Through.The only difference is that I have three kids now and went through same and even worse.I got used to it after the first one and learnt alot.I have God as my sole companion as no one will understant exactly how it feels.Do things that will bring you joy and try as much as you can to ignore his attitude,just overlook it and focus more on your baby.That will be your prize.My last babies,i had twins,was it fun?hell no!I did all my chores,drove myself,cook for him and his friends.At the end,i had a very high BP.he didnt even give a hoot.His Sisters came around to help with the kids and my!did she give me hell!i was so depressed and heartbroken it's a wonder i didnt loose my mind.I guess some of us arent so lucky.You'll pull through my dear.the Lord is your strenght!

This is not about luck, it is about looking at the wrong things like money(wealth), social status, handsomeness, peer and family influence, etc., and allowing them influence Ur decision about marriage. Marriage should be based on love, compartibility, etc.

Was that man the only suitor that came to U when U were single? I can never marry based on sentiments and because others are marrying. I've had two of such men, I told them off immediately I observed their true colour. Marriage is not by force. It is better to remain single than marry a loveless, not caring, abuser of a man; and suffer all the remaining days of Ur life.

Those of U in such marriages, the deed has already been done. Just pray to Ur God to help U, as the Bible does not support divorce.

Please singles, seek the face of God before U marry any man or woman. God will always help those that seek him, to make good choices in marriage.

Jonwesley: I think you are just lazy, perhaps naive too and living in ur past. Ur first pregnancy, and the heavens must fall becos u claim ur husband isn't caring enough. The ladies wld obviously support ur naivety, but that won't help u anyway. Ur husband may not do all u said, becos he is what he is while u are a melancholy, who prods for trouble where non exists. Do u think it is better to be single? Do u not know what is is to be a wife? This is common among underaged or inmature ladies who expects their husbands to praise sing for them becos they don carry belle. Who sai, na u be the first or wetin? Abegi. There are more things u ve not said but only painted the facts that u want us to hear. I advise u brace up to ur marriage and avoid anything that cld create bad feelings and crack to ur marriage. Marriage is not a bed of roses, if u hear other pple's stories u will come and praise ur husband. Keep quiet.

Sounds like the op's hubby. May God help U, cos U're heading the wrong direction. May God help U and Ur kind. U mean U can't pity a pregnant woman in her condition? U don't deserve a wife and children. Rubbish!!!

fantababy: @Chaircover,

Yes he is same person. Fiance turned husband now.

@2mch, I can confidently say I have learnt how to handle my mood swings. I am a very learned person and read books to help make me a better person. Directing him to this page is no good, he never admits wrong. He is ever right! Catch him red handed with another lady, and he would turn the tables at you. And you would end up being the one crawling and begging.

This is very touching.
Why did U then marry him since U knew he was like this? The deed has already been done. So endure him, cos he can't change as U have admitted. Just try to make Urself happy.

God is Ur strenght. I wish U a very safe delivery. May God be with U. Cheers!

Crown Prince: I and my deserving partner have decided that our online characters independently shouldn't interfer with our private life and marital obligations so critics and bashing here will not deter our resolve for everlasting happiness.
The reason to start thread was a joint decision to share our moment of ectasy and fantasy. It began here so it will be kinda encouraging to inspire others that actually the inevitable can happen here.please,this aint any scam but a positive direction that demands commendation rather than intolerable virtuperations from pessimistic fellow here.
For those that encourage and wish us well,may GOd corner your owm online member toward your direction

U mean online member? As in online marriage? Thanks for the clarification.
Congrats though!

ThoniaSlim: close distance marriage is hard enough talk more of a long distance marriage! Nope! If you not ready to bring her over then please do not marry her simple!

Thanks!

Please Nairanders, I need your sincere advice.

How effective can marriage between a man in Europe and a lady in Nigeria be? The man intends to settle his wife at home while he stays abroad. The wife can only visit him and still come back. He has promised to be coming home 3 or 4 times a year.

I know many ladies are in this kind of marriage, please share your experience. Do you have a blissful or hurting marriage? I have girlfriends who are in this situation, but they are not very willing to share their experience. One or even two of them boast of their marriage. Who knows, they might even be hurting within.

But why have our Nigerian men abroad changed so much? They no longer want to marry and take their wives abroad with them, why? Is it because they have wives and children there? Or is it because of a reason I'm not aware of?

What are the odds with this kind of long distance marriage? How can a young lady that does not flirt cope with this marriage? I mean it's not really easy for one to marry and still be living as though she was single(sleeping and fighting cold alone).

Please help! Before one makes a mistake.

After recharging, dial *559# to see your bonuses. I think I got some bonus after recharging N400 on saturday, not sure of the amount now.

[quote author=danielehi]O'neal INC is not a scam, It's a firm that engages in environmental, domestic and predominantly health care services to corporate groups, government parastatals, community groups, elite groups, commercial entities etc. Their parent company is in affiliation with the W.H.O., SAB, UNICEF & other global entities.
I have attended the interview and it makes sense to me cause what you are asked to pay for is legal and required by law which is for a license to operate in Nigeria as health service personnel leveraging on a very good & profitable platform or pedestal that not only change & affect lives but establishes multiple income streams that surpasses what people define as salary. They didn't ask for you to just pay a sum of money for no just reason, even they were willing to help society by accommodating instalmental payment (based on trust) while you come for their trainings and business developmental sessions towards full recruitment&partnership. It was all explained and your not wanting to pay for the license is similar to you buying a car and not wanting to pay for a license to drive that car in Nigeria (your company where you work won't pay it for you, even drivers of companies pay for their own driver's license) as required by law or a doctor wanting to operate a medical facility without obtaining a license to Practice in Nigeria or a business man wanting to run a company without getting your CAC license. What I see is a multinational firm abiding by the laws of the land and the legal provisions of the practice. That's what killing Nigeria everyone wants to cut corners towards success & make snide remarks/opinions without proper investigation or research. I respect them and till this day I still go for my trainings (after all scammers won't still have training sessions and developmental meetings in the same facility for years, would they? At least if they were Illegal they would have been arrested or shut down by now). Since I got recruited, I've been privileged to affect lives, go places and earn 100% above what I used to earn at first. Please don't listen to people with myopic mindsets that's why they are still lurking the streets & corners looking for jobs till now. They just assume without personal&experiential inquiry/affirmation.
I will only discredit a scam & lazy scheming Nigerians but not well meaning folks with a legit means of livelihood for Nigerians & the world at

Scam!
Mind you, their agents are everywhere.

calabaman: Dont blame me, i was still green in the ears then! Believe you me if that happened to u, you wouldnt have found it funny at all! See how clients hijacked me as if i was the MD of the compamy. I speak english sotey all my mouth sore! I sorry for myself that month oo

Laugh wan kill me!

futoprince: Yes! we have caught on of them. still wondering the kind of creativity that will emanate from a man who does not know how to spell the word- creativity.

Please correct yourself (in your first sentence) before looking for who to correct.

futoprince: Yes! we have caught on of them. still wondering the kind of creativity that will emanate from a man who does not know how to spell the word- creativity.

But he spelt it correctly.

[quote author=obo_man]If I'm in a position to interview candidates, creativity and problem-solving skills would be what I will be looking for, rather than their ability to spell.


Problem-solving skills make businesses thrive, creativity takes businesses to the next level.

Checking candidates' mastery of words is sometimes irrelevant in businesses and companies.[/quote]

binger: buhahahaha...Thats the world we are living in...many want white collar jobs,but only few deserve it

But the few that deserve it are not given the opportunity most times.

But why is there no job vacancies for those in the Arts? Bsc this, Bsc that; what of Ba? Almost all the job notifications I get is for Bsc holders. I'm sick and tired of all these.

I need a job urgently!

bubadaniel13: Na wah oh,but the truth is that,the community maybe angry but that is not the best option,now who go dey for darkness no be them?dialogue is always the best option,I feel for the community but this will further plunge them into darkness.

I disagree with U. This will make them have more light once resolved. Lol

bubadaniel13: Na wah oh,but the truth is that,the community maybe angry but that is not the best option,now who go dey for darkness no be them?dialogue is always the best option,I feel for the community but this will further plunge them into darkness.

I disagree with U. This will make them have more light once resolved. Lol

JallowBah: Pfft. You dont know women from my culture; they dont fight other women in battles "on the street", they fight other men.
So yes, I could beat him if I wanted to. I`m a big girl

Women from which culture

JallowBah: Pfft. You dont know women from my culture; they dont fight other women in battles "on the street", they fight other men.
So yes, I could beat him if I wanted to. I`m a big girl

Women from which culture?

Idowuogbo: U say wetin? wen u soft dey take u for ride on Nl.

Liv d gal abeg!

Now face frontttttttt...

Is that so?

mimi321: look here you weak spineless impotent chiuhuahua if its bullcrap no problem kindly get off the page then

Please take it easy on these people. They are only wondering why a girl stays in a relationship where she is brutalized.

You sound quite harsh.

seedord247: Beaten someone is different from fighting. . . They are fighting and the guy eventually won.

My dear o!
The fighting version of the story got me thinking.

komek: young men shud pls avoid the likes of OLUESTHER o. §☺
U̶̲̥̅̊ encourage a woman τ̅☺ cheat, e kwa.

You're 100% wrong.
Understand somebody before you begin to blab.