cap28:

as i said above you are desperate to be accepted by whites, this is why you can not even grasp the importance of what i am saying, you are the type of self hating fool who will go out with a white girl and endure years of racial abuse from her parents and friends just so that you can have a white woman on your arm, your type are all over london , the reality check comes when the white girl ditches you when the money runs out and her friends and family cut you off, then and only then do you understand the importance of race allegiance.

logica: Look here id!ot, the day you place a self-esteem meter against your forehead and it registers 0.2% of what mine reads, then you can take me on. But once again, once you temporarily get over the dyslexia that you suffer from (you won't be the first nor last), maybe then you will understand the true meaning of my post: "I mind my business as I believe every man has a right to make his own choices and decisions" ).

logica: You should know that no MAN will ask such a "question". The person asking is obviously a woman. And anybody supporting her, you can guess will be female.

chingyjant:
You just registered on NL today i see no wonder you sat down replying every dish they give to you.Bro cordinate yourself and stop replying if not your comment will make you spend all your day replying peoples insult on you

chingyjant:
Bro your Question is a Racist slur not good to come from a black man[i][/i]

Mcdugull:

If you love her that much you wouldn't come to NAIRALAND to expose your private life my friend!!!!!!!

byvan: See what infidelity has caused,is it worth it??

[b]Some useless men will still come to naira land to boast about it.[/b]Oh!!poor woman,how can her heart bear thisMay be this would have been averted if she left that worthless man a long time ago.[color=#000099][/color]

[b]Married folks!!!if you can't stick to your partner get the f**k out of the marriage and stop causing untold pains.I once told a friend that the worst kind of man is the adulterous man,she doubted it,now see!!!

RIP little ones **sobbing**.

Tusky44:


Keep dreaming while we keep on with extra marital affairs

Gabriel_sylar: I don't believe dis story ow could a parent who lost 4 kids still have the energy to narrate such a long details of event instead of fainting abeg......

gboss4sure: In this modern world you dey give a naija babe wey no be your wife that amount of money. Choi abeg free her and free yourself before she breaks you and leave you for another e3000 dasher. As for the money i dont think you can get it back unless there is prove you gave her the money with an agreement to pay back. Oh mehn dis gurl is taking you for a phucking rid.

usmsam: Thanks to all who replied.
The thing is that I suspect that she knows that I am going to break up with her because she has not been by the house since Thursday. Also, I think she expects to leave without giving me my money back. I am going to ask her to pay me back, but I am very sure she will tell me she does not have that type of money. Thats why i asked for suggestions.
The way I have suffered in the hands of this 419 girl has no part 2. If i start typing it in here, I might fill a whole page.

oyinbogirl: Very sorry to hear what has happened to you. And I think how some here are calling you a fool is unfair and dosnt help anything. Your obviously a generous guy, and thats a good thing. There is someone out there for you who will love and so appreciate this, and you wont regret it like you do here. You just happened to find a bad one, ppl are more tending to be bad these days than good. Its a crying shame to me when i see good hearted people get taken by unscrupulous ones. Now as for your money, It may be hard getting that back, but ....mmmm, is it possible you can report her to the police>? Or speak to her family perhaps? I dont know, just thinking out loud.