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hmnnnn some guys and boobs sha,guys pls i just wanna ask,wats the pleasure for guys in sucking and enjoying boobs,cos i just find it really weird,wat the fun is,in doing dat,yesterday,i had a date wit my ex-boyfriend ,and all through the date,all he kept staring,at was my boobs,it was kinda embarrassing,i told him to stop and all he said was that he just couldnt resist,the way i packed it and how the boobs was pointing at him...lol very funny....so guys pls answer my question,wats the fascination with breast o........

WOW,most of the attributes listed by the op describes me,am s confirmed introvert,which i love sometimes,but which can also be equally annoying.Sometimes,i ask God why he made my personality,to be introverted,cos it has affected me a lot in life and i get really really shy,not that i have self esteen issues,cos am so confident about myself,for instance,am in college,and we usually have to present in front of the whole class,as part of the school course work,i get really nervous,that at the end of the day,i cant present well,to give me good grades,in the presentation,also when i go for job interviews,i get really nervous,cos of my shyness.Infact being introverted,has cost me to lose a lot of opportunities,people around me always,presume,am snubbish and that i have problems.One time my uncle offered to take me for deliverance,cos he felt i was not normal.I remember,back then in secondary school,whennever,i came back home from boarding house,i could be in the house for one month straight without stepping out,of the house cos i was just too conscious of m,y environment,even in terms of romantic relationship,being introverted,deterred me from dating quite early,in life,cos i could not easily flow in conversation,with those guys who usually asked me out,except if i was used to them,thus i started dating in my mid twenties.But one very weird thing i just noticed about myself ,was the fact that even though,introverted,i have so many friends in my life,its amazing,and i realised,most of my friends,never let go of me,cos they love me so much and enjoy my company,even though sometimes,i see myself as being uptight and boring.I have been out of Nigeria,now,for the past four years,and its amazing,how all the friends i left behind,still remember me,and call me,even though,i dont call them,like i should.However,i thank God,that am much better,as am really working hard on myself,by trying to strike a balance by being more loosened up and being less introverted

Hello people,can we just share our various heart break experience,here,on this thread,will start with mine.
I got heartbroken recently,by a guy i really cared so much about,that shit hurts,like mad.I met this guy sometime early last year,initially i thought i could never date him,cos he is the opposite,of the qualities,i have always longed for in a guy.Am in my late twenties,and he was my second relationship cos i was one of those girls,that did not start dating early,i had my first boyfriend at age 24,before this second boyfriend,to cut a long story short,this guy and i became really good friends,and we started dating,he was the love of my life,and we were inseperable,i tot i had found the one,and eventually i succumbed,to him,being the guy,to lose my virginity to,even though i had always wanted to keep it,till marriage.After the whole thing,we even became closer,when i woke up in the morning,its his voice i hear,when am about to sleep at night its his voice
one day,these ex-boyfriend of mine and i were gisting,and i told him about my aunty,who is like 37years old but unmarried,i told my boyfriend how i wish i could find a good man for my aunty,immediately,he suggested his uncle,who is also within the same age,with my aunty,who is also searhing,we succeded in hooking them up,and both seemed happy about,and started dating.My bf and i were so glad,that we brought smiles to two people who were searching for love.Like 12 months of my bf and i dating,i started noticing some changes in my bf,he did not used to call,like he used to,and he kept giving excuses,anytime we were supposed to see.At first,i waved it aside,that hes doing that,cos hes busy with work and all.So one day after like almost a month of excuses and not seeing,my bf called and demanded that we see each,that he has done the unforgivable,i initially,thought he waz joking,only for him,to tell me dat,my aunty lured him into dating her,and that both have been dating each other for like two months,and to make matters worse,she was pragnant for him,this is a woman about 10years older than him,he said hes shocked and confused,and asked for forgiveness,and that he did not know what came over him,to have dated a woman,old enough to be his aunt,i was shocked cos not only did he betray,me but he also betrayed his uncle,cos my aunt was the uncle's girlfriend,these betrayal,i have forgiven him though and moved on with my life,but these betrayal has left scars in my heart,and my perception of men.I find it so hard to trust men now and just have this mentality,that no man can be trusted....so pls people in the house,please share ur own heart break experience,so that other people can learn from iy

omy gosh,whoever Jaybee is,I dunno but he's got a very sexy voice,he got me thinking things.lol.Anyways this is my own voice

tpacalipse: Must a guy say all he feels about you?

Yes o.I just feel it really matters a lot when a guy is expressive on his feelings for a girl,its not good u know when a guy is put on a guessing game if a guy actually likes her or not,it can be really exhausting

Hello fellow nairalanders,i just want to know ur opinion,about this issue,at what point,should a lady know or sense,where her relationship,is heading to.Have been dating this guy for about 5months now,we both like each other,sometimes,he calls me like 5times a day,just to check up on me,which i really love.However,the problem i have now,is the fact that he is so economical when it comes to expressing his feelings and this confuses,me a lot.For the five months,that we have been dating.he has never for once told me before,that he misses me,he cares for me,or even the magic word,that he loves me,he never expresses himself to me,even though he has been a darling to me in all ramfications,however,him not expressing himself,to me hurts me a lot and gets me really upset.I also noticed some things about him,that he loves to be very coded and secretive.We do talk a lot share heart to heart talk sometimes but i realised that whenever we are talking and it starts getting so serious,deep and emotional,he quickly tries to change the topic,into something lighter and shallow,just to avoid getting deep.Sometimes he is all over me,like a stalker and sometimes,he withdraws,and calls me just once in a day,in short,i see him as weird and mysterious.He once told me that he has been a player,in the past and that whenever,he finds himself falling in love wif a girl,he tries to build a wall around himself,in order not to shield dos feelings.I am in love wif him,but i have never told him before because,i dont want to be dissapointed,by telling him and not getting a mutual response.Thus the summary of this whole thing,is the fact,that for pete sake,we have been dating for five months,and i think by now,he should be able to evaluate his feelings for me,and there should be a clear direction,of where the relationship is headed to,so fellow peeps,pls advice me,on what u guys think about this relationship,cos am a bit confused,in this whole feelings thing.Even though am not that young,i dont have that much experience in relationships,cos i havent dated too many guys,in the past,infact i can say this is my first real relationship,so am kind of a novice in knowing what runs in the minds of guys,so do u guys think am expecting too much,or do u think i should leave all to time?

Guys,thank you so so much,am new to nairaland,and I would ve to admit,all ur words have been so encouraging and given me a new perspective about my body and my self-esteem,I appreciate all ur encouragements...thanks

Dyt: Pls note dat bein chubby aint fat?
Do u mean 2 say u are fat?
I am chubby n sexy
Stop throwin ursef at men, dey r nt worth cryin ova
Build up ur self esteem, kip fit if u v 2
Don't let any negro mk u sad

Thanks dear,i mean chubby like size 16,some people do call me fat though but i just prefer to use the word chubby cos its less offensive

I am very curious about knowing,the love lives of chubby ladies,i for one,am a chubby girl,quite pretty cos people do tell me that i have a pretty face,but one problem,ve always had is the fact,that i dont get as much attention as my friends,do,which has really affected,my self-esteem,there has never been a situation whereby guys will see me and my friends and opt.for me,instead they usually go after my friends,and even those that go after me,when they see my friends,they start tripping for them and go after them,and stop chasing,me,the one that even really got to me is recently,that i met a guy,we later became friends and started talking,on the fone,after a while we started dating and we had sex,all through the sex,all he kept telling me was,i need to lose weight,i was quite embarrassed but did not show it.My chubbiness is affecting my self-esteem and sometimes makes me feel am not worthy to be in a relationship and have sex,cos the guy woul eventually lose interest cos of my weight..Ve tried many ways in loosing weight,which i often lose but end up adding again,so i just wanna know on nairaland,if other chubby ladies out there,also feel the way,that i feel about their size,in their relationships and in finding love