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I hate housework too.  I think your husband is being unreasonable and selfish to not want you to hire help. 
What's the purpose of working hard to make money if you cannot use that money to live a less stressful life

However, you know the kind of man you married so why wasn't this thrashed out before saying I do?  Why did he marry a career woman knowing he wants a traditional housewife?  And why did a career woman marry a man that wants a traditional housewife? 

This issue is deep; there's no straightforward solution.  If two people come into marriage with different ideas of what their roles are supposed to be, it's very very difficult to make it work.  Someone has to compromise and be unhappy.  Either you or him.

If a man has lived his whole life dreaming that one day he will have a wonderful "humble" wife to cook and clean and take care of his kids, how can he be happy with a career-oriented mate?  At the same time, it's not fair that every woman in the world must be a cook and a cleaner.  So no solution.

You must be lazy, Cooking and Cleaning your own home where you live is no stress unless for a lazy woman who has no basic home training. Washing is the stressful house work and i bought my wife a washing machine to assist her.

Same is applicable to men.  A man that wants to talk about his wife's laziness must be able to do house work and possibly know how to cook too, It's a life time problem for woman  who cannot cook and do house work but men do have alternative of marrying a good wife.

You need to choose which one is more important to you " Your Family or whatever.  My wife has musical talent very much like ASA but she dropped it to face her family and took up business of buying and selling. She cooks nice Yoruba dishes and takes care of our daughter like a princess, makes her hair and prepare her for school regularly, Tidy the house and serve my food hot always. Funny enough my 4yr old daughter has began learning from her mom in everything.

Point : You have to be decisive.

money for hand back for ground. sex appealing majority, Na wahooo,

In case you do not know all the islands of this world is coming under water one after the other due to climate change and noting can change or stop that.

Developed cities have Ocean Overflow and they still have casualties despite the warning and prevention walls plus solid foundations, best thing to do is to stay away from islands because if you escape it today you might not escape it next time. Island is so nice and modern to live and work in but dem no move govt. office from IKJ to island cos of that one ooo, Open your eyes and invest on land no be untop water. If you think the cap fits you den wear it, nothing concern me cos na mainland my own family house dey.

A Clown Says-- Construct hotels, clubs, trade zones and many others for them, dem go kukuma live there even if na fire go wipe them later.

THIS IS A CANDID ADVICE FOR YOU :

THIS YOUR GUY LOVES YOU AND THAT IS WHY HE IS NOT HIDING HIS FEELINGS FROM YOU, EVERY TODAY'S MEN WANTS PEOPLE TO SEE THEIR WIFE AS PREETY WIFE, HE KNOWS YOU ARE PREETY BUT HE WANTS YOU TO BE BETTER BECAUSE HE KNOWS YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND BE AS PERFECT AS HE WANTS YOU TO. HIS MISTAKE IS THAT HE FAILS TO HELP YOU WORK ON IT( NOT HIS FAULT COS MEN CANNOT BE THE SAME). I GUESS YOU WILL NOT HAVE THE TIME OR ENERGY TO DO EXERCISE ENDLESSLY THEN YOU SHOULD THINK OF ALTERNATIVE THERAPY, YOU ARE A NIGERIAN AND YOU SHOULD ACT LIKE ONE, GET YOURSELF A GOOD HERBAL BITTERS THAT WILL REDUCE YOU IN WEEKS AND I BET YOU WILL SURPRISED TO SEE YOURSELF MORE PREETY WITH A SLIMMER STATURE.

GO HELP YOURSELF AND DON'T SEND YOUR GUY PACKING FOR LOVING YOU !. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT !