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I sincerely want to thank everyone here. I so much appreciate it. We had an exclusive discussions during the weekend, coupled with your contributions on this forum, we had agreed to MOVE ON. I have been able to understand the past is past and the FUTURE remains.

Nairalanders has helped me a lot. Uou've really helped to rebuild my relationship. Thanks a lot.

Na gode, Da Alu, E se pupo!!!

@Nathasa, i felt cheated because she should have told me earlier.
Then, how am sure the abortion didn't claim her womb, am not sure of this and this is really a big concern to me. Though she claimed she did it with a professional doctor and the doctor assured her there is no problem with her womb.
thanks

I met this lady three years ago while i was in my final years. I got attracted to her, we became friends, months after, i proposed to her and we agreed to date. The relationship was a very serious one that we both agreed to be faithful and committed to each other. I told her my wedding plans after NYSC, and she promised to align herself with my plans by being my fiancee. As Christians, we do pray and fast together about our future. She told me everything about her past and i also did likewise. We got to know each other families, that she got used to my family and relatives. She became my mum's best friend while i maintain regular contacts with her family. We knew each other intimately the second year of our relationship, though we agreed not to, but emotions could not. Despite this, our love grew in leaps and trillions.

Just on Thursday, i was convinced to ask her if there is anything she would like to tell me about her past, she said she had told me all i need to know. I pressed her further and further, and she came with this BOMBSHELL; SHE ONCE HAD AN ABORTION.

Though she told me about a guy she dated before i met her, it was the guy who actually deflowered her. According to her, it was only once she did it and she has to call it quit with the guy immediately after the act.  The guy came begging, but she refuses since she has taking advantage of her.

That sexual intercourse resulted into pregnancy which she aborted because she did not want to have anything to with her again.
Why did she hid this from me all this while?
Why didn't she tell me about the abortion?

Her answers was; she was scared, and did not know how i will feel. Basically, she said she was scared of LOOSING ME.

She cried all her life out yesterday pleading for forgiveness

I love her sincerely. I have not had any date before and after i met her. I felt i was cheated upon.

Please what do i do, i am dying oooooo

Pls help by giving advice

I met this lady three years ago while i was in my final years. I got attracted to her, we became friends, months after, i proposed to her and we agreed to date. The relationship was a very serious one that we both agreed to be faithful and committed to each other. I told her my wedding plans after NYSC, and she promised to align herslef with my plans by being my fiancee. As Christians, we do pray and fast together about our future. She told me everything about her past and i also did likewise. We got to know each other families, that she got used to my family and relatives. She became my mum's best friend while i maintain regular contacts with her family. We knew each other intimately the second year of our relationship, though we agreed not to, but emotions could not. Despite this, our love grew in leaps and trillions.

Just on thursday, i was convinced to ask her if there is anything she would like to tell me about her past, she said she had told me all i need to know. I pressed her further and further, and she came with this BOMBSHELL; SHE ONCE HAD AN ABORTION.

Though she told me about a guy she dated before i met her, it was the guy who actually deflowered her. According to her, it was only once she did it and she has to call it quit with the guy immediately after the act. The guy came begging, but she refuses since she has taking advantage of her.

That sexual intercourse resulted into pregnancy which she aborted because she did not want to have anything to with her again.
Why did she hid this from me all this while?
Why didn't she tell mne about the abortion.

Her answers was; she was scared, and did not know how i will feel. Basically, she said she was scared of LOOSING ME.

She cried all her life out yesterday pleading for forgiveness

I love her sincerely. I have not had any date before and after i met her. I felt i was cheated upon.

Please what do i do, i am dying oooooo

Pls help by giving advice