@Nathasa, i felt cheated because she should have told me earlier.
Then, how am sure the abortion didn't claim her womb, am not sure of this and this is really a big concern to me. Though she claimed she did it with a professional doctor and the doctor assured her there is no problem with her womb.

denzel2009:

Poorly worded title IMHO, I was hoping to read he contracted AIDS.

Papido:

It's a privilege to have someone tell you their worst deeds. Sincerely, you have no reason to forgive someone else's past because the offence was not directed at you. If you are privileged to know, it is just for your information and possible adjustment (in an attempt to understand your partner). May God pardon us all.

Egba girl:

@Poster: you said you guys are Christians right? well a Christians, having pre-marital sex is a sin. Just like abortion is. Now im assuming you guys repented? well Im assuming assuming your babe also repented. Now if God can forgive you guys for having premarital sex, and can also forgive your babe for committing abortion, then I dont see why you cant accept it. The only thing I think you need to forgive here is her not telling you earlier on when you guys had your "tell me abou your past" convo.

Aside from that, everyone has a past. and like someone already said, all sin is equal before God. It is us human beings that weigh them. In Gods eyes, if you lie and I kill person, all na sin. As long as you have gone against Gods word, na sin. The bible says, all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. we were even born sinners sef but na Gods redemption plan save us. My point is, we are sinners and we dey sin everyday sef but "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleans us from all unrighteousness" and the thing w God is, He erases our sins forever once we repent. They are wiped out clear.

Now, as per your fear of her getting pregnant, na God dey give children. Someone rightly mentioned earlier that there are some pple who have never had sex or abortions abs yet cannot have children. "Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him." Ps 127:3 (NLT). You have nothing to be afraid of as long as God is endorsing your marriage. It seems you guys pray a lot esp about your future like you said, so why not pray about it?

No need to let your babe go thru all this pain again. Shes already experienced it. "Forget the former things, do not dwell on the past" Isaiah 43:18. "as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us." Ps 103:12

I really like what Papido said. Na real talk.

Being a Christian, take it to the Lord in prayer and pour out your heart to Him. If na abou children, forget da one. Leave it to God. you suppose get faith o. Where your faith sef. You should never doubt the power of God. With Him, all things are possible. We no fit understand these things w ordinary mind.

i am dying oooooo

DIE NA, ANYBODY HOLD YOU

gmyguy:

why were you digging her for skeletons in the first place, am sure if you press more, you'd find more, better tint your mind and move on and if you want to leave her, well, there's nothing new under the sun, na you go find skeleton for wardrobe nah!!!