Zonefree:
Marriage with a Nigerian girl is vain!

Go get a job and keep yourself busy. stop sounding like a bitter loser.

Ahnii:
I beg to disagree with you sir That money if properly managed he can still save like 50-100k monthly.
I started life with my husband with his meagre salary of 37k and he was still saving 10k monthly.

which year is this and what part of Nigeria?

Jorussia:
I don't blame the guy,if you look this abroad matter carefully na this exchange rate crisis dey mess us up as a nation.Any abroad u go and u can't save a minimum of 1000USD after ur expenses in a month,is not worth it.

The First hand information i have gotten from
People close to me in UK,didn't paint a picture of doom.The people that currently struggling are those on student visas.I am aware that the Job market is currently saturated and very competitive unlike few years ago.If u are not doing very well here in Nigeria,and u get work permit package,please accept it.

You are right sha!

Kukutente23:

Dishwasher??

I tire oo!! I just weak for the guy.. that job na wetin person dey hide to do B4 getting a proper job in the UK . He is even proud to be a dish water .. Anyway, maybe he was a hustler that found his way to the UK .. abeg still happy for am. It's not easy .lol.

Freshtruth:
That d only alternative trust me. It will be foolish for obi to decline this offer. He should remember if not for Atiku that personally pick him 2019 Nigerians would not had notice his intellectual skills. This VP debate 2019 is what shot obi to limelight thanks to Atiku


BTW
The north has done that 8 years with Buhari And Atiku will be 81 by 2027 his ambition shows he just want to answer the title Mr president and that not what Nigerians need at d moment. So we the Obidents want Atiku to support obi to finish south turn he have d honour to nominate a VP for Obi. With that singular Heart he has written his name in Gold . with that he will be remember for

So you expect a northerners to contest and win for 2027 election .. I am surprised PDP is still in bed with Atiku..The main reason Atiku lost the last election was becos it's the turn of the south but he decided to contest anyway .His action eventually made Obi leave for another party and the south was divided and with it some PDP strong hold.
It would be foolish of him to contest again.

joseph1832:
Jumobi Adegbesan of AIT Lunch break back then. I remember when they got married, tongues wagged and heavily criticized RMD for not mourning his late wife, Mee.

If its now he did something like that, dude would have been trolled from here to the moon to the point, he'll stay away from social media for a while. Lol

"Did not morn his late wife ? Are you sure you Heard that correctly ?Mee,his wife died somewhere around 1994 or 95 there about and RMD got married around 2001.. so, is six years not long enough for him?Or were they expecting to morn her till he grows old ? Only order women above 50 do that .

DevilsEqual:
Igbos getting schooled back to back on all social media platform

Sometimes, you just have to wonder if school actually passed through most of them...Even the the brightest chinua Achebe was as daft in logical reasoning as the least educated Anayo who hawks gala around Lagos highways

Spits on that tribe of Sub-humans

You can abuse your fellow Nairaland here as you like but don't ever include Chinua Achebe in your nonsense bigotry . This was a renowned writer and should not be dishonored in your stupid chat on Nairaland by twisted morons like you .
Children born in the 2000s seems to know nothing about history because thier lives start and end on social media . Pls keep late Chinua Achebe out of this your nonsense. Thesame way I would never insult a renowned writer such Wale Soyinka , late JP Clark , Cyprian Ekwensi and other old renowned writers and poets in Nigeria .
I am from the Naija Delta B4 you will tag me as Igbo too just becos bigots like you do not know other ethnic group outside the three main tribes .

kettykin:


I know for sure Atiku would have done better than Tinubu, Atiku woul have hired experts and given them the mandate to solve the Nigerian puzzle.
Obi as a successful business owner would have outsourced and consulted the best brains world wide and would have kept shuffling options until about 3 out of 10 options are successful.

Tinubu has nothing to offer Nigerians , figures don't lie , he who has no history has no future

Pls stopped vouching for politicians ooo! Not until you see them at work B4 you wil know if they are capable or not.
It's as if there is one evil spirit In that Aso Rock that changes our leaders .
Anyway, I hope the Agbados are having it good! They must not complain ooo!

SamuelAnyawu:
Ahmed Musa Dragged by Northeast and Northwestern Muslims.

You can't see Yorbua's, Igala's, Edo/Delta Muslims dragging him.

Exactly how I thought they are perfect until I came to Borno.

Sex enhancing drugs sell pass food here

You forgot to mention the alcohol they pour into Thier kettle to drink in hiding .. bloody hypocrite.

Towma:

Married men should keep their vows and stop spreading infections.
All this blame shifting no concern me.

Majority of Nigerian men are randy and without honour for thier marriage vows... They only think about themselves and not thier wives.
It would be better for them to have baby mamas so as to afford them the liberty to straf different ladies as they like as they can't seem to keep thier sword in thier pant . It's better that way .

Towma:

Married men should keep their vows and stop spreading infections.
All this blame shifting no concern me.

Majority of Nigerian men are randy and without honour for thier marriage vows... They only think about thier self and not thier wives.
It would be better for them to have baby mamas so as to afford them the liberty to straf different ladies as they like as they can't seem to keep thier dick in thier pant . It's better that way .

TrustNone:
thunder fire your useless infected mouth there.
Idiot

A culprit has been spotted!An evil man runs when no one is In pursuit.Your conscience is judging you already that is why you reacted so brashly.

Abeg leave that girl alone,she didn't say anything wrong. Why would you even cheat on your wife then get angry when you find out that your wife is equally cheating on you too.So two can play the game .Right !
Lesson here : Don't do your your wife that which you cannot bear to see.

oluwaseyi0:
correct

the only chance PDP have is begging back His Excellency Peter Obi

that will be impossible.. it would have been easier if there were no obidient die hard followers .. They wld be disappointed if Obi start jumping from party to party

Gjrich:
Peter Obi To Emerge As PDP Presidential Candidate In 2027- Bode George Shares Details.

1. Nigeria's main opposition PDP is getting ready for the 2027 presidential election, Bode George disclosed.

2. The PDP chieftain insisted that the presidential ticket of the party should be given to a southern candidate, noting that a northern candidate would spell doom for the party.

3. This has stirred speculations that the PDP may field Peter Obi of the Labour Party as its preferred choice in 2027.

The leadership of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has begun reconciliation of aggrieved members, indicating interest in bringing back the Labour Party (LP) flagbearer in the 2023 presidential election, Peter Obi, to its fold.


PDP is getting ready for the 2027 presidential election, Bode George disclosed. The PDP chieftain insisted that the presidential ticket of the party should be given to a southern candidate, noting that a northern candidate would spell doom for the party.

This has stirred speculations that the PDP may field Peter Obi of the Labour Party as its preferred choice in 2027.

The leadership of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has begun reconciliation of aggrieved members, indicating interest in bringing back the Labour Party (LP) flagbearer in the 2023 presidential election, Peter Obi, to its fold.

PDP woos Peter Obi as it rejects northern candidate for 2027.
The PDP made this known on Monday, December 11, during a press briefing in Lagos state to address the party's internal issues, PDP presidential ticket in 2027 Speaking on behalf of the PDP stalwarts, Bode George maintained that a southern PDP candidate should be given the party's presidential ticket, as that is the only way the All Progressives Congress (APC) could be kicked out, The Guardian reported.

George insisted that the LP does not have the structure to win national elections. Hence, Obi should consider returning to the party. He said: “The Labour Party doesn’t have the root.

The LP was a movement; they don’t have a solid root. LP came out of anger, it doesn’t have the kind of root we have. LP is a wind. Where was Obi? We can still talk to him if he wants to.

PDP should dissolve that useless party abeg .They have become so useless in recent time. The only thing they know how to do is fight for power only. They are terrible opposition. Very useless party. Obi must not be seduced this offer oo!

Bayajjidda:


Stop mentioning Ebonyi like you own it, we don't even know you here. Speak for yourself and your household. Desist from mentioning Ebonyi. You won't say you weren't warned.

See them..then later una go dey shout BIAFRA up and down.

Phantom233:

Obviously Illiteracy is your problem, am very sure you're a Yoruba fella. Na una de always claim to know everything when actually you know nothing. Let me educate you a bit. I said the owl is an agent, I never said it belongs to the Devil. For your info, Anybody or creature can be used as an agent just like your grandma .

Just look at you ! Pls purge yourself from the black superstitious belief and free your self from psychological bondage . The owl belong to the wild , nothing more ,nothing less . It is not any agent.pls stop labelling innocent animals as agent of darkness .

tollyboy5:
Beasts of England, beasts of Ireland
Beasts of every land and clime
Hearken to my joyful tidings
Of the golden future time

Soon or late the day is coming
Tyrant Man shall be overthrown
And the fruitful fields of England
Shall be trod by beasts alone


For that day we all must labour
Though we die before it break
Cows and horses, geese and turkeys
All must toil for freedom's sake

my God! Where did you unhealth this song from.. you are something else , I swear !

Redomi:
I was coming from the farm this morning, I met a friend in the road and we were discussing when this baby owl just fall from a nearby tree, we caught it and tie the wing.

Pls donk kill that bird .. let it go if you are not keeping it as a pet .

Napata77:
This is Allen Avenue, Ikeja today.



This street is like the Oxford Street or Times Square of Lagos, with all kinds of fancy shops, restaurants, banks, companies, etc.

It is the sort of place that should be seeing HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS of passers-by per day, including window shoppers, just like in Times Square in New York, or Oxford Street in London.

Impulse buying, whereby you just pass by and see something and buy on impulse without prior planning, accounts for a HUGE percentage of sales on those streets, leading to huge revenue for the sellers and huge tax income for the govt.

What makes all this possible in those places but not on ALLEN AVENUE?

Answer = SIDEWALKS AND COVERED DRAINS.




Once you build Allen Avenue like this above, it will attract several thousands of pedestrians per day and TRANSFORM the volume of trade on that street by a minimum 600%, bringing greater tax revenue to the state govt.

The Lagos state govt should do this.

Nigerians will mess it up.. hall manner of hawkers and rough make it rough.. maintenance is our problem

Pls you guys should let the Agbados be oo! They are the ones enjoying this govt . As it stands ,they all have special Agbado cards that they use to purchase all commodities at a very subsidize rate...This govt is already favouring them and thier house hold .

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

It means you are not mentally ready for commitment..So why are you having sleepless night over it ! It also depend if you are still young and below the age of 50..

PointB:



It not true, The christian god committed some of the worst genocides in the old testament, Or does that not count?

The Christian god commanded his followers to:

Steal
Kill
and Destroy.

At some point I even thought he was the devil himself. I can give you bible verses if you want,

we are not talking of the old testament (which Christians and Muslims share ) but the new testament where jesus invalidated most of those violent laws..We talking about our behaviours in accordance to our religion in recent times and not what was told in the bible thousands of years ago.

PointB:


Christains worship the god of Abraham
Muslims worship the god of Abraham.

It's same god.

I see.. the Christian God does not ask his followers to commit suicide and kill innocent people or commit all kind of violence in his name. Anyway, you are entitled to your opinion.

PointB:


There is no difference between the crusaders and jihadists. They serve the same master. Make I hear word jor.

They are both fanatics but the jihadist goes further by becoming a terrorist and causing havoc in their wake .. They might both be nuisance but they are certainly not thesame,nor do they serve thesame God .

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

The headline is total different from the body of your message . Anyway ,since you are more concerned with her fertility status, being that she cannot get pregnant b4 marriage due to the fact that she is a virgin, then I suggest you look for a non virgin that has no issue getting pregnant b4 marriage, so that you can have your peace of mind of be coming a father . Just don't spoil that young ladys' life just becos you want to do trial and error with her b4 saying I do. Let her go if you don't love her enough to marry her first b4 getting her pregnant.

Doxy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEp-OT2k-H8?si=CSdsVSUXPZzw4h53

Residents of a building in Lagos state went online to lament as they hurriedly removed their properties from their home which was set to be demolished.

The house, located on the mainland in Lagos State, is one of those the state government marked for mass demolition.

One resident paid N1.7 million just one month ago to move into the house and now has to leave before his rent expires.

Nigerians and stubbornness. I believe they most have been told long before now to move out of the properties but they ignored the notice . Government does not just demolish structures without enough notice for occupant to move out.

Secondly, I believe these structure are illegal buildings that were erected without government approval. If government gave approval for these buildings then the landlord should be duly compensated

MT:


Can I just like your remark one million times over?

Hahahaha!!

Layi4real:
The day we start praying and supporting our president irrespective of who is in that position. we can't b praying for a fail government due to hate Nd personal interest Nd expect this country to b habitable for us. our mindset needs to b change Nd stop painting our country bad globally

praying ? Please stop praying .. God has left this country becos we are too blinded and stupid to choose good leaders to rule us. Look around you , we pray more that any country in this world , our churches and mosque are every where we look, we are more religious than other nation and ready to set this nation ablaze on the ground of religion but not for better governance . We become very docile and weak when we are being oppressed by our leaders but we suddenly find our voice and strength when it comes to matter of religion .
We fight each other over our oppressors and tomorrow we go to God for him to change the mind of the very people we stupidly voted into over due to blind loyalty for better leadership and to alleviate the hardship bestowed by our leaders.
God has left Nigeria and has gone to countries where people think with Thier head and not their ass. Stop praying and start thinking right .

When choosing a working woman, you have to accept that she cannot manage the household to your expectations

If you chose a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your family, you need to accept that she is not making money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that it is up to you and ensure her life.

If you decide to stay with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and has her own opinion.

If you choose a beautiful woman, you will have to bear a lot of expenses.

If you decide to stay with a successful woman, you need to understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such perfect things. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique

https://oneplace12.quora.com/What-should-a-man-be-aware-of-when-choosing-a-woman

bdon123:
I honestly feel for d poor income household in Nigeria.They might all be forced to enter bush n cut firewood to be able to cook their meals.Increase in cost of living without increase in earnings is a terrible way to live.

The 5kg bag of rice & 1 litre of groundnut oil they collected during election will sustain them till 2027..
This govt shall favour all Agbados and Thier families.

See this one that cried back then for not winning the presidential election ...why wont he say this when his only mission was to answer the name Mr president only but not to serve .
He should have remain a cow header rather than becoming Nigeria president.