Rich4god: First of all... The deed has been done. Except you are planning on divorce.
Secondly, you need to move away from your wife's actions. Just do things that makes you happy. Go about making your money, drop the little you can for the family to ensure that they have something to it... Then leave your life as if you two are just room mates. No dey try to initiate sex. I know it won't be easy, but it's a step in the right direction.
Women always want to crave for unnecessary standard especially when they feel that they have something you are longing for.
Believe me, the silent treatment work a great deal. Just live your life as if she's not there. But ensure you still provide for her.
When she notices that you no longer send her, she will be wondering if there is someone trying to take her place.
In all, avoid violence and confrontation. This is correct. It worked for me. |