₦airaland Forum

Tmb78:
when did you visit the place last?
Pls,tell the truth,don't just answer based on the pics of the slums some tribalists only post here.
I dont live there o but I visit once in a while

Introuble0087:
Lol you don't know this lockdown can strech till December? They're just going to keep adding weeks gradually.

Legalcriminal:
Seems people obey the stay at home order in Ogun. This is how Abeokuta the Capital looks like

adexpa:
It is like some people here dont understand your fear.

Your are not asking for a party or show off, but a legal backing .........A process that will show certification...........Traditional wedding will not offer any certificate.

I dont think any reasonable man should have problem with court wedding because it does not require any serious financial implication.
Maybe you need to find a way of telling him properly by letting him know that you are not after party or show off.......Dont miss them together, suggest traditional and court to him and forget bringing up church option (he is your man,3yrs friendship no be beans, he should be able to see things from your angle too and stop been selfish). Maybe the way you are approaching the matter is tending or showing evidences of show off cus we all know how women does things, you all want show off, but if genuinely you are not addressing it in a show off way, i dont think a reasonable man should be threatening you on that.

Still talk to him n let him see your side of the matter and yourself to hear his side well. We cant advice you to dash journey of 3yrs away just like that.

2dice01:
Traditional wedding is the white&court wedding of the white

But this one he is threatening you with a Breakup



Are you sure you are not the one forcing him to marry you
Me force a man to marry? I laugh in my language, never when am not an handicap or a liability,

Nairalandmonika:
He's not serious, does Court marriage require funds