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iamphenomenal:
Mr Celebrant

@bolded, I remember back then before we started. Many said it was just impossible to quit. Many said "you can't just quit". They really got me becos I believed them and saw no point in trying

I'm very happy that we've proven them wrong. We have now shown to everyone that TOTAL victory (and anything) is possible, if you are willing to work for it and pay the full price

And to those people naysayers claiming that masturbation is nothing wrong and they're still enjoying it - well, like I told Seas, this thread was not created for that set of people. This thread is exclusively for those trying to quit but have been unable to. Stop quoting them or preaching to these naysayers. Just leave them Bro. Nobody is forcing anyone how to live his life. One thing is that the truth will always win - it's just a matter of time

Congrats again Bro

Abi!
I also settled for that, 'its not possy to quit' mentality is until I became a member of the nofab community.

Dm no d tell blind man say rain the fall.

The three of you are nice people.
U deserve each other. All understanding and trouble free.

iamphenomenal:
I first thank Almighty God my Redeemer who delivered me from the shackles of porn and masturbation
I also extend my thanks to my lovely online support group on this forum, Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

This habit started in February 2017 when I accidentally discovered 'something' that gave me a skyrocketing sexual pleasure. It was all spontaneous, but I was very excited. I tried more. Enjoyed it. Tried again. That was the beginning of my doom. However, I thought I was really enjoying myself and exploring my sexuality. I later accompanied this habit with porn and it became a full-blown addiction

To keep this write-up from being too long, I would not be able to narrate my experience in details. I lost a lot. This habit cost me a lot. It nearly took away my sanity. I was so much addicted that I could never resist it. I just had to do it, even if I didn't want to. Some fateful nights, I did it right inside my church.. - I'd love to write more and continue, but let's just leave it like this to save time and space

God is good. I came across a support group which turned around my life. This community opened my eyes to a lot of truths, the bitter truths hidden by the society. I had been lied to about masturbation. This community is a brotherhood, yet anonymous. Everyone is free to share his true life story and real experience - as opposed to the media and the Internet's version. Our community is also full of testimonies. Members report drastic changes ranging from day 15 of abstinence - all which served as a great motivating factor. Our founder recently celebrated his 2 years freedom

I've experienced a lot of positive changes in every aspect of life - physical, spiritual, mental, social and relationship, financial, and psychological. Again, space won't permit me to be listing them singly - but trust me, I don't have anything to gain from lying or exaggerating. I am entirely a new person. How much I would like to list my achievements in the past one year!

Dear reader, if you masturbate and you are ready to quit for good, please and please take action NOW! You see, let me highlight some of the popular lies that were wrought from the pit of hell in order to promote this destructive habit and therefore deceive/destroy men
- Masturbation can be done in moderation. It's not a problem as long as you're not addicted
- Masturbation is the same as real sex
- It is a way to release some sexual tension so you don't end up raping or molesting females
- It boosts sexual health, eases stress, etc

You don't have to experience the bitter lessons by yourself. I'm giving you this life-saving truth for free. Many addicts realized the truth after 10, 20, and even 30 years of illusion. They look back in regrets. We have them in our community. Don't take this for granted. Do not experiment with your life. Quit masturbation now. I will not be able to list the evils associated with masturbation, all hidden from camera. Don't listen to what others say. You own your life - save yourself. Start now and go at least 30days free and prove me wrong!
If you think you can't do it, join us and you'll be surprised - no matter the level and duration of your addiction, you can be totally free. DO NOT LISTEN TO NAYSAYERS!

Years ago, I was a slave bossed around by this habit. Today as I speak, I lead a team fighting against masturbation and its related ally - pornography. The lovely warriors in our community made me their President. I'm so grateful and I'll forever be

Dedication
Technically, today is my 400th day. I've never, not even for once, watched porn nor masturbated for more than a year now (impossible? Haha I also thought it was impossible). Today, I dedicate this landmark to my brother, Onelove508, who is also celebrating his one year freedom on this day. Hallelujah!

Credits
• God the Father, the Son and the Spirit
• Nairaland NoFap Community https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread  The Pioneer Nnamebuka and all my brothers there
• Global NoFap Community - Reddit, Fight the New Drug, NoFap YouTube channels et al
• Joseph Okechukwu YouTube
• Brian Tracy's No Excuses: The Power of Self-discipline
• Apks - Reboot, StopM, Iron Will
• Righteousness2 - Sir I made it!
• Mynd44, lalasticlala, Seun
• All Nairalanders
I couldn't have done this without you all

Long live the NoFap Community,
Long live Nairaland

The President,
Nairaland NoFap Community™

BrotherMan!
I appreciate this honor; there is no better way to celebrate my 1year off Dirty Duty than this. I owe you this landmarks.

Thanks for your guidance and assistance, not just to me but for all members of Nairaland nofab community.

We have proved, are proving and will continue to prove that it is possible to quit this addiction.

blackpanda:
It's actually medically advised to masturbate.


Abeggi...I loooooove eeeeeet

U de whine urself.
U go soon hit rock.

Simbrixton:
Please how can I join

Click on the link.
Or I could mention you and u are there.

SWDude:
There is nothing wrong with masturbating, guys. Come on!

You'll soon know.
We all advocated this when we were still 'enjoying' it.
U go soon hit rock, nobody go tell.

princewarri1985:
Bro there is nothing wrong with masturbation, because i masturbate too, and it does not affect me in anyway because am not a slave to it, and i do it in moderation and my girlfriend also help masturbate me when ever she's on her periods, and i dont ever plan on stopping, i see masturbation as being normal, but i was shocked to my bone marrow when you said you masturbate inside the church, bro your case was spiritual, you are jazed.

How long have you been doing it?
I need to tell u something.

Stupidquestions:
Without having a serious steady relationship you can't achieve this.
Meanwhile, I wonder at why married men masturbate.....why not open ur wife laps fvvck am instead of fvvcking ur clenched fist

Na lie o.
Today is my 1year (12months) without masturbating.
I fornicated last February- 7months ago.

It's possible bro