Vahat: We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.
Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.
I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.
I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
Make her pregnant. Maybe the stress of mothering would reduce her urge.
Excuzeme: What gladdens my heart the most, is that you said "I will pay him a Visit in the coming Months", it means there is room to rebuild the relationship.
But l dont want to sound as if l am judging you, though l have to be candid at the same time.
My earlier Post was a sort of "general observation" of such situations, not necessarily yours.
I will try to limit myself to just what you wrote below and draw inferences from it. If you have time, read it and take what is useful to you from it.
- If they willfully "live apart", they are "separated" but maybe what you mean is that they are not divorced? - Living 1:30mins drive apart is averagely a distance of between 60Km - 90Km (Ibadan to Lagos Toll gate is just One Hour Drive!), so they actually live far apart but that is not an excuse to not visit one's children.
You did not mention anything about the relationship between your Parents, is he welcomed inside, where your Mum lives or if he visits his children, ( like some Women do), he is abused or given a hard time? I have seen Women tear the Dress worn by their estranged Husband, when he came to see the children, l have seen Women arrange Police for their estranged husband, on trumped-up charges, when he came to visit his children, l have seen Men docked (jailed for assault), simply because the Wife instigated a scuffle (slapped the Man and he returned the Slap) because it happened at her own Home! A wise Man will avoid such "explosive contact" with an estranged spouse and the fact that you say he lives with another Woman (probably re-married or in a relationship with another woman and probably has another family over there), is a pointer that your Mum wont be on friendly basis with him. I worked in a place where l am privileged to be exposed to the inner workings of "Estranged Husband and Wife" scenario and nothing surprises me anymore.
As your Dad, it will be nice that he puts you up, in one of those Houses but l suspect that the breakup with your Mum was very bitter and remains very toxic and bitter. l suspect a lot of bad things happened, which you might still be too young to understand, when it happened but the only thing you hang unto, is what your Mum told you. There are two sides to a story. You are better served, if you keep an open mind and respectfully "ask questions" from your Dad, l am sure he will open up to you.
Dont forget these two were formerly "lovers", before they became Husband and Wife and then gave birth to you! Something(s) must have happened that soured the love between them so much, that they dont want to see each other again. If he was as bad as you paint him (obviously, Women are adept at gradually "forming the mindset" of their children, without them being aware), your Mum wont have fallen in-love with him or decided to marry him! It takes two, to tango. I heard it said that "Your Husband is what you make out of him, after marriage".
I put it to you that your Dad is grieving inside, seeing you struggle in your Mum's place but he has to make a choice between bringing you in (and therefor, your Mum and the consequences that may follow) ..... and letting you stay where you are!
Ask yourself: Will your Mum have allowed you to go and live with him or in any of his Houses, without her in tow? I bet she wont. So, your "struggles" has to do with your Mum's decision, Women use the children as "a Tool" to achieve their Objectives, when their relationship goes bad with their husband. If your Mum takes you to your Dad's door and says: "These are your Children, House them inside where you live". Will your Dad throw you out on the Street and lock the door? I bet not. His his anger is not towards you, it is towards your Mum, for reasons best known to both of them but your Mum (like most Women in her situation will do) has created a situation of "You either do my bidding or you wont be able to help or relate with your children and they will therefore fall-out with you"! (I am just trying to paint a likely scenario here, not that l heard her saying so. )
You see, l can understand you PERFECTLY, l feel your pain, deeper than you can imagine or understand and l know that one day in the Future, you will remember this Post! I am a Father (My own father has died a long time ago) of Adult Children and l speak from" deep Experience", not the kind you will acquire at ages under thirty or if not married for awhile. But l blend and work with the younger generation a lot.
- Children are most impressionable by the person that raised them, especially the Mother that carried their pregnancy and breast-fed them. - Your Mum and Dad have fallen out and their relationship is toxic. - Your Dad has another Woman and like it is said, "Heaven has No Fury like a Woman Scorned"! Forget that story that she is encouraging you to be nice to him, it is a ploy women use: Saying one thing outwardly but inwardly, surreptitiously doing the opposite. The hatred most women develop for their ex-husband (estranged and separated spouse who has another wife or Concubine as you call her! , is out of this world.
- The fact that you refer to the Woman currently living with your Dad (And l guess they have children as well), as "a Concubine", shows how much influence your Mum has 'brainwashed' you! The Law recognizes that Woman as his "Partner", with rights of a wife, though not legally married, because they live together as "Husband and Wife". The law also recognize that when Spouses have been "willfully living apart" for so long, they are De Facto Separated. The word "Concubine" does not come out of the mouth of Children except injected into their psyche, by their Mother! That is how she wants you to see the other Woman.
- I am almost certain you have seen/watched your Parents have "Physical fight" before (I dont know you but experience tells me so). Your Dad has decided to completely avoid your Mum (not you, his children), so as to avoid the fights and embarrassment he gets from her (that is normal when couples separate bitterly). I have seen some who even wished and worked towards the early death of the other half. We hear stories of spouse who kill the other spouse, so it is nothing new and as a result of that, since your Mum is "holding firmly to you the children", your Dad is not in a position to see you as he would have loved to.
- Women in her position conclude and see 'ensuring that the Man cannot have a relationship with his Children', as a Punishment for the Man. Slowly but surreptitiously, they make the children feel that their father does not want them and does not care about them, while preventing him from seeing them, with their actions. They would tell the children some of the things you posted above but what the children wont know (at least not until they get married and start "knowing the cunning of an estranged wife), is that she is actually executing "a plan".
- Some Women wont even allow the Father to provide "directly" for the Children, except through them (something the father will also not agree to, if he has a choice) They wont allow the Man to bring gifts to his children, they will ensure he knows nothing about their educational development, some even hide the schools the children attend and then they turn around to say "he does not want to provide for the children"!!
Some will even instigate the Children to be abusing their Father! The way you write about your father makes me wonder if you have not fallen into that category! Have you insulted him before? To his face, in writing or behind him but he became aware? Reflect for a minute.
But you are becoming a Man now and you have to "Think and Act" like a Man. It does not stop you from loving your Mum, as much as you wish
Like the Poster above said, you will need to try and disabuse your mind and form a relationship with your Dad. How easy that will be, is a function of how far you have been drawn by your Mother, into antagonizing your father in the past.
But whatever be the case, your Father is your Father and l am sure he will understand that you were misled (if you had misbehaved to him on the basis of the brainwashing from your Mum) and would be ready to forgive you. Saying "it will be hard" to relate with your Dad, (forgive me), may also infer that you have a sort of "pride/arrogance" at heart or you feel he does not deserve it!? Whichever is the case, l think you need to change that mindset, your Father deserves his respect, if you want things to work out between the two of you.
It is not about the Money you will get from him (you may need or dont need that NOW but who knows, you can become a Billionaire tomorrow) or what he will get from you, it is about being at Peace with yourself and availing of the "mentorship of a Father", just as you did, of a Mother.
When you eventually meet him, please be humble "as a Son will be, to a Father", dont carry "what l have been told or seen attitude" to meet him, it will end in disaster if you do.
Dont be rude or aggressive towards his 'wife' (in your effort to defend your Mum or what your Mum has instilled into you over the years), she did not offend you and is not your enemy! - Just be nice and neutral towards her, so you can see who, she truly is. - Dont call her "a Concubine" in the presence of your father or to her face, that will be very disrespectful and your Dad wont allow it. You can refer to her, using their child's name, if you cant call her his wife (your Mum wont like that )
- Be honest, blunt and direct on how you feel and why you feel so, when you discuss with your father. Let him explain himself, as to why he has not been coming to visit you or play his fatherly duties to you. It is important you allow him time to talk, as he would have a lot on his mind. You may not get all the answers in this first visit but you will, as time goes on, if you are straightforward with him.
- Finally, dont go there to meet him, as "an avenging Angel of your Mum" (which is what most women will want). You are going there to mend fences with your own Dad and build the relationship that was missing. Be HONEST and PLAIN about it, if he senses "danger or that you are acting on behalf of your Mum", it would closeup on further meetings.
If you do it right, you might even be the one to smoothen the relationship between him and your Mum, as long as you dont try to displace his current wife or talk her down. You can be sure, like any Man, he will defend his current relationship, which gives him peace and Security, to the last.
Remember, just as he has not been there for you as a Father, You also has not been there for him as a Son (or when last did you wash his Clothes, shine his shoes, wash his Car or greet him Good Morning, Dad"?), through No fault of yours or your siblings so, it is important to meet him with a "clean mind", as much as possible. "When Two Elephants Fight, it is the Gras that Suffer".
Please, forgive me if l have said things that annoy you, things you feel are not true, things you feel cannot be true, things that negate all you have been told or all you had perceived, while growing up, things that seems against your Mum's position, l am only saying things from "general experience" and l have to be as honest and blunt, as possible.
I wish you well, going forward and l wish you will experience what some of the people who are attesting to "the love of a father", have/are experiencing. The Love of his Child, never leaves a Father's Heart, he may just be unable to show it. Cheer Up.
Mhen! Thanks bro. No one has gone this far to advise me on this issue, you just wrote a textbook for someone u don't even know.. I appreciate your time and effort
I queue behind redpillers, thus I understand how women could be manipulative and toxic. I have even seen a lot too. But that's for most cases. Our family case I think is an exception.
I didn't know you would express such concern, I would have added a few more details:
I have never seen them arguing, fighting or quereling. No physical abuse, except emotional- we were all (Papa, Mama n children) at home (in the village) one day, one of Papa's concubines came in. Me and my younger brother could see him through the door hole, papa was on top the woman. HIS LEGIT WIFE WAS AT HOME. I was ten then. Naturally I should hate him for such disrespect without mama telling me anything. This is one in hundreds examples o.
I said 'cuncubineS' Old man has children from at least seven women (Although my mother is the only legit wife). I relate with some of them (step siblings) and even send them '2/3k every now and then. The complain is the same- "PAPA DON'T CARE/PROVIDES FOR ME AND MY MOTHER" these women will later leave him and proceed to marry another man,(some) leaving also their children for him to care for. It will shock u to know that some of these my step siblings didn't finish secondary school, except those once that left with their mother- meaning it's their mothers efforts. (but we have a father that isn't just educated but learned, exposed and we'll traveled) IS IT THE FAULT OF THEIR MOTHERS TOO..
When u leave a child for him to care for that child will definitely be uneducated. He naturally doesn't know how to care for, provide for, guide/protect his own children. Oldman can be supporting ur opponents instead of u in public even if u are right. It seems he hates u for no reason
All 7,8 women can't be saying same thing and be all wrong.
Normally, After separation, the most influential, financial bouyant parent is most likely to take custody of the children. But this isn't so for us o papa is more than 10x rich than mama. Mama is just one simple, primary school certificate holder who doesn't even know the road to a court.
From my first post on this thread, till now I have deliberately not mention any of the numerous sacrifices we saw our mother do so it doesn't look like I'm brainwash.
My case is the exception bro.
The only reason l (we) still consider getting close to him against the odds is that people say it's spiritual- that he himself doesn't know what he's doing. He is the most educated (as a young man then was) the most successful among his father's children and cousins- trust village people. As a young man he was a play boy. Perhaps, one of those girls he served breakfast replayed him with this. Or he is just naturally been wicked.
BIGSCARY: If it was me, I swear I would have insulted you. You won't read in full. You will just rush on nairaland because of first to comment. I rest my case.
Thank God it's not you o!
Do try not to insult at all or at least only do when u insulted first.
EkelediliBuhari: read the post again... this time carefully and thoughtfully
Lolz. See me o. I didn't read ur last paragraph (before rushing to comment) Thanks for not insulting me, cos that's what an average nairalander would do.
BTW,I enjoyed (reading) ur comments on the abortion thread.
lugado: We youths should learn to educate and enlighten ourselves before making opinions felt. INEC is right on this They are out there to monitor primary elections by the parties not conduct elections So who ever you nominate is your problem
What exactly did they monitor if someone who isn't consensus or elected name was submitted?
kenedyx: You're welcome brother. Btw, here are few things you could do;
Show him a real desire to have him as your mentor. He's relatively rich like you said, so you have nothing to lose.
I understand he's toxic from what you've written up there. From experience such people are actually very soft inside. So flatter him like you would a girl, boost his ego and let him take the lead, he's your father after all. But keep focus on your goal!
Believe me it's cold out there. No one is willing to help. So hold on to your family while you still have them. I wish you the best.
Thanks bro. I really appreciate. I will surely try. Will pay him a visit in the coming months- lemme start from there.
Excuzeme: You just nailed it back there! Most Children dont look at and recognise the effect of a cantankerous Mother, on a Father's relationship with their children. We have a neighbor we grew up with, in our former place. When we were young, we all knew their dad was the best dad anyone could wish for, he will take us along, when he is taking his own children to the amusement Park or for swimming. infact, he was so nice you will think whether it was him who father us too.
But one day, he and his wife had a serious fight and since that day, there House suddenly changed. First, the mother stopped us from coming to their House and also stopped them from coming to our house but the Man will still come and knock on our door and still carry us out. Eventually, the loud argument s got louder and Police got involved. We later heard that they went to Court and separated but the Children were given to their Mother.
We moved out of that area, about five years later, l met one of them and he was speaking very bad and negative about his Dad. I was shocked because this was the man that even loved me more than my own Dad who travels a lot. So, l asked him where his Dad lives now and he said "I dont even know where he lives and Mum does not allow him to come to our house again". I was so shocked that he saw it on my face and asked why l felt like defending him? i just shook my head because l was short on words..... if only l did not know this Man for over five years, l would have believed his own Son. When l went home from School, l told my own Parents what l heard and my Dad just looked at my Mum and smiled, without saying a word. I later asked him about it again and he said, "When two Elephants fight, it is the Grass that suffers".
It is now that l am a father too, that l came to appreciate those Words and know that Marriage break-up is what mostly makes some Fathers appear uncaring, the Mother will do everything to brainwash the children against their Dad and make him appear uncaring, even actively prevent him from caring, so she can be justified.
Almost everyone who talks shyte about their Dad, came from a broken Home and lived with their mother! Why is that? Does that not show that the Mother has a lot to do with it
U just stay from afar and pass judgement abi!
U think we children don't have brains to know who is who at our age abi?
They aren't separated but aren't happily married either. They are 1hour 30mins drive from each other. But old man won't visit for years except he has a contact or business that beings him to uur town. HE HAS NEVER ON PURPOSE COME TO VISIT HIS FAMILY. That's our mother's doing abi.
He is a landlord with at least four house but we and mama stay in a one room ghetto apartment. That's our mother's doing abi?
We struggled to feed and cloth but old man is/was a very ok man flexing with his concubines just 1hour 30mins drive away.That's Mama's fault abi.
Mother didn't brainwash or do anything, (we grew up to see, hear and understand everything ourselves) on the contrary she always advice is to forgive and get close to him.
I am the only one among my friends during childhood that my friends don't know the father. I grew up fatherless. I doubt if he knows the name of the primary secondary school I attended. He doesn't even know the course I studied in uni. It's Mama's fault abi
I envy you cos u can't understand and u can't understand becos you have a father indeed and not just a sperm donor.
kenedyx: If I will give you a word of advice. Get close to your dad, now that he's still around. Doesn't stop you from being close to your mum as well.
Nobody is a 100 percent, not even your mum. So learn what you can from your dad and know the ones to discard.
But it isn't that easy o. Old man is always repulsive for no reason. Trying to get close to him is like trying to woo a girl who doesn't like. He forms too much.
Mother is giving same advice you just gave. Two of my siblings are already trying to get close to him but it's hard for me, I'm like him to an extent.
kenedyx: So sorry about your experience bro. Remember the way you choose to look at things matter a lot. In my opinion you have a great dad. He may not be a great husband, but he's definitely a great dad.
It's confusing when you say he's relatively nice and then say he owns a couple of houses but still left you in the trenches with your siblings.
It begs a lot of questions, like, were your parents separated and what about your mum did she have a good relationship with your dad? Anyway, I hope you heal and become a better father to your own kids.
kenedyx: Let me help you with the bolded since you can't open your eyes and see. Your father has been there for you all your life and all you can do is come here and say trash about him.
You want him to die for you before you rate him? Shame on you.
I'm 31 bro. I know when someone cares and make sacrifices.
He is relatively rich, own a few houses but me and my four siblings stayed in one room face-me-i-slap-you for two decades.
His priority are his concubines, old man can commit adultery in my presence- no shame no dignity.
I literarily grew up without a father figure; no protection, no provision, no guidance nothing nothing..
Abeg no allow me tell u stories way go spoil my mode dis night
kenedyx: Of course you wouldn't remember any. Ungrateful females. Later if it's to come online to insult men, you'll carry first. Rubbish!
My dad (pbuh) literally entered our burning house to rescue me and my siblings .. it was October of 2001, I can't forget.
He put out that fire all by himself and nothing relating to documents or papers were burnt because he made sure of that. He was also able to save at least 80 percent of the building structure with just small burns here and there on his body to show for it.
A real man I tell you, I could go on and on. May his soul rest in peace. Shout out to all men and not just fathers.
If he/she has no memory of his/her father is it his/her fault or is it by force to have a memory that isn't there.
My father is still alive and ok but I have no memory of him making any sacrifice for me, he is just there.
immortalcrown: Medicine after death. You are talking now because the regime has almost ended. Even during 2019 election, you did not sound this way. Were you sleeping or was the regime good then? You are talking now because you know your statement will not work against them. You should have said it when it mattered, when they would have come after you, when your followers would have gained correction from the statement. Keep deceiving yourself.
Added People are quoting me saying he has been condemning Bubu since 2015. Please, how did he fight Buhari? On which date did it happen. The only time I know he spoke was when a pastor became a victim of the kidnapping in the North. Another time was when the government made a move to tax Churches. When did he fight Buhari concerning bad leadership in general? Please, inform me, give me links to his fight against Buhari. Do not tell me to go to Google oh. You might be saying the truth. So, give me evidence, apart from his reactions to kidnapping and taxing of Churches. Give me an evidence so I will be convinced my first paragraph is wrong. Post at least links to the evidence here. Do not tell me to use Google oh. And, the evidence should not be his reactions to kidnapping of a pastor and taxing of Churches. I already know those ones. If I get the evidence, I will add an apology as a third paragraph. But if no evidence is provided, those who insult me should keep ranting.
Added Again Imagine some people telling me Oyedepo has been the person most active in attacking Buhari. Please, where, when and how? When Mbaka was for Buhari and against GEJ, Mbaka was brave and direct in his statements. When the same Mbaka turned against Buhari, Mbaka was brave and direct in talking to Buhari. Oyedepo has not tried it even now. Oyedepo has not spoken like Bishop Kokah and many other religious leaders do.
People that were brave and honest mentioned Buhari or at least used "This regime" when they criticized this regime and when they warned people against voting for Buhari again. Oyedepo did not do such at all. Instead of being direct, he was ambiguous so nobody could attack him or prove he was talking about Buhari's regime. So, where is his brave fight against Buhari. People specifically called Buhari's name and said the bad things he does. Oyedepo was using a pronoun that no particular person could claim even in a law court. Is that how he sounds when talking about how God will deal with those who do not pay tithes? Does he sound ambiguous when talking about tithes? For example, if I say "An old man whose hand is shaking wants to rule Nigeria", many will assume I am referring to a popular presidential candidate. But a sincere person will not say I am bold or brave in the statement. People will know I am avoiding being direct in the statement. And nobody can use it to prove me guilty in a court. Oyedepo knows it and that is why he chose his words carefully and was not direct until now. For tithes, he would say "If you are a child of God and you not pay tithes....". But he never mentioned the name Buhari during the time you claim he was bravely attacking Buhari. Those who bravely attacked Buhari called his name many times and were direct in their statements.
I so much love the challenge I threw out this night. Those attacking me could not prove me wrong. They just uploaded videos I have already seen many times. I have watched the videos again this night to be sure I did not forget how Oyedepo sounded in those videos. None of the videos proves me wrong. In all the videos, the only part Oyedepo boldly directed his statement to this regime is where he said "Those in power "NOW" are against the Church". I already acknowledged that one in my first paragraph. Where he spoke about RUGA, he used the term "No government has the power to take people's land". In this case, even Buhari cannot prove Oyedepo was referring to this regime. He was not even bold enough to use the word "RUGA". Many people boldly mentioned Buhari and RUGA during the period. Oyedepo spoke in parable. So, where is his brave fight against Buhari? Where He spoke about a president, he said "that is my word to Mr. president". Nobody can use the statement to prove Buhari is the particular president he referred to. Any sincere person who understands English knows there is a big difference between "This" and "A" in a sentence. Oyedepo is well-educated. He knows the consequence of ambiguous statements and that is why he sounded ambiguous in those videos. He himself cannot deny it because he knows many educated people will publicly disgrace him. But this time around, he was direct and bold to use the term "This regime..." because the regime has already achieved its aim. Below are his words in the videos and the links to the videos.
"No government has the right to take people's land." No particular government or regime implied here
"Nigeria shall not see war."
"Whoever does not want Nigeria to rest will not rest." This can refer to anybody
"If you cannot do well, resign. That is my word to Mr. President. Even our Islamic friend are calling for him to resign." Abeg, which president? Even in a court of law, you cannot prove Buhari is the president implied here. There are many presidents in many countries and organizations in which there are huge crisis.
"You and your generation will nevr become refugees"
"A leader will sit down and be looking like mumu." Which leader? Even GEJ was directly called mumu. So, which leader is referred to here?
"I have not benefited a dime from any regime of this country."
"I knew we were going to face this situation." How is this a bold or brave statement against Buhari?
"It will take a dormie not to know the people in power now are against the Church" I already acknowledged that this is the only one that directly and boldly refers to Buhari's regime.
"Is it true they found 20 million voters cards? For who?" Not directed to a particular person.
"To vote for an evil man makes you an evil man." Which candidate or party is the evil? Even PDP was called evil by some people. So, which one is Oyedepo talking about?
"I will never belong to any political party."
"There will be dramatic changes in this election."
"Every scheme to run Nigeria down, the people involved will go down and never to rise."
"Do not vote opinion, vote your conscience."
"Do not vote anxiety, vote integrity."
"Do not vote fear, vote fair."
"I cannot afford to vote for wickedness"
"It is better to vote for a lesser evil where are two evils."
"Collecting 5000 for vote is wrong."
"Do not vote wickedness" Which candidate is the wicked one? Lovers of Buhari will answer Atiku and GEJ. Lovers of GEJ and ATIKU will answer Buhari. So, how is Oyedepo brave and direct in attacking Buhari here?
"Do not vote for the dead." Who is the dead? If you say Buhari, then you should be ashamed of yourself for hating Nnamdi Kanu. And the same Oyedepo has never taken side with Nnamdi Kanu.
"Do not vote enemies of the cross, vote for friends of righteousness."
"Do not vote war, vote peace."
"First time there was an attempt to rule the Church by a government. Otherwise they will start to determine which message you will preach."
"Many attempts on the church for the last four years. Are we not there when they were writing Arabic for police employment?" The same Church which I have already acknowledged.
How can this regime or Buhari claim any of these statements directly refers to him or to this regime? Only the one about Church directly refers to this regime. Does any of these condemn the leadership of Buhari in general the way Oyedepo did in this recent statement where he said "This regime..."? If I am lying against Oyedepo, highlight any of my fact and prove it is a lie. If my understanding of his English is wrong, tell me the rule of concord that proves me wrong. If you cannot do it, you are just a noisemaker hating the truth.
You yourself enumerated all those points and and you are still arguing.
Different people have different styles of criticism, he must not criticise the way you like but that doesn't change anything.
It's either you are just catching cruise with those people mentioning you or you are not (properly) educated
Alsenora: You patronised a prostitute but killed her after by claiming your righteous self found your religious holy book in her room where you went to furnicated. This is the mentality of these northen religious fanatics that claim they are superior than adherents of different faiths in Nigeria. We cannot simply cohabit with most northerners..apologies to their minority good folks.
My brother. Sin is categorized in Islam. While fornication and stealing are just sins, 'disrespect' to Quran, Allah and Mohammed is blasphemy and has a different implication and punishment.
johntredon: Don't confused yourself. Xtianity copy white man White man bring gay and homosexual Why nigerian Christian not copy white on gay and lesbian? Hypocrisy
johntredon: OP said sign that Islam has conquered the Christian and Christianity, some Christian here are bringing off point to the topic. Nigerian is not a case study for islam because most people that converted to Christianity in Nigeria are to do so bcis of economic hardship in the country, because they believed that it is witches and wizards that are causing the hardship in the country.
Can Christian show us how to do the following in their religion: 1. Wedding, they copied western culture 2. Burial, they copied western culture 3. If Christian missed Sunday worship on Sunday, can he or she perform it individually at home or in the church, NO 4. They drink alcoholic while their Bible is against it
Why are you confusing yourself.
Xtians copy the whites that brought Christianity.
As Muslims copys the culture of the people that brought Islam. Nothing in Islam is indigenous; everything and more u mentioned up there were copied from Arab by Muslims too. Na Muslim even copy pass.
LogicBomb8: My small credit was exhusted and i rush my guy phone make i use him credit call the papa, the old man would ask ur business and he would bless that angle.
As my guy wake up hear the nature of the call naso him vex say na fraudster i use him credit dey call, i hung up he began to give me instances and people who have been victims.
According to him after you have trusted the oldman the fraudster would initiate a discussion that would warrant you to send money to him, i just weak, two minutes later he called back and i told him i dnt have credit to call him back he hungup immediately.
Who have experienced such? Sorry for the typos
Exactly! They tried me once, it was even when I was broke and needed recharge card. I didn't even attempt to load it, I just told him to go to their outbox they will still see it there.
I later suspected it was fetiish when the baba ask me to go and get water from my kitchen that he'll tell me what to do with the water.
I later learnt any who loads the credit will definitely be hypnotized.
FalseProphet1: I see her replying his chats like almost immediately, in fact I see her chatting him first. If he were a Nigerian she'd take a minimum of 3 days to read his message then another 3 days to reply. We Africans are our own problem.
This I have seen.
Go and seek for more vision prophet.
Even though I'm a younger prophet, I've already seen them fornicating this night
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