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Hussein27:
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𝗞𝗵𝗮𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗮𝗵 (40)

What Do You Gain If Your Child Is Ruined Because of Your Duʿā?

Sheikh 'Abdurrazaq Al-Badr hafidhahullah says:
A soldier who was assigned to stand near the Black Stone [relates the following story]. May Allah reward him for what he did and bless his actions. What he did was truly remarkable.

He had just started working in that place. He said, “I heard the sound of intense crying. The crying caught my attention, so I listened carefully to what the man was praying for. The man kept saying in his supplication: ‘O Lord, people have children, but I have no child. Give me a child.’

He kept repeating these words and crying deeply.

The soldier said, “It was the beginning of my work there, and the sound of his voice stayed in my memory.”

He continued, “SubhanAllah, after 18 or 20 years, I was still working in the same place. Suddenly I heard the same voice near the Multazam. I remembered the man. I looked at him and realised it was the same face. He was praying with the same intensity and crying just as before.

So I listened to what he was asking for this time. To my surprise, he was saying:
‘O my Lord, destroy this son!’

He was begging Allah and crying, asking Him to destroy his son.”

The soldier said, “I came down from my place and asked my colleague to stand where I was. Then I took the man away from the Multazam and led him outside. I said to him (this soldier was granted success, may Allah reward him): ‘Aren’t you the same man who stood here about eighteen years ago asking Allah to give you a child?’

The man replied, ‘Yes.’

I said to him, ‘You have wronged your son twice in this very place. The first time, I heard your prayer and I memorised it. You kept saying, “Give me a child.” But you never said, “Give me a righteous child.” You never said, “My Lord, grant me a righteous child.”

And now you have come to the same place praying against him. You were not good to him the first time, and now you are not good to him again. Go back to that place and ask Allah to guide him. Cry the same way you cried before and ask Allah to guide him and change his heart.’”

The soldier said, “I explained this to him, then took him back to the Multazam. The man began crying again, but this time he prayed for his son’s guidance.”

He continued, “About a year later, the man came back with his son. He greeted me and said to his son, ‘Tell him your story.’ The son swore to me that at the very same hour when his father stood at the Multazam praying for his guidance, he suddenly got up, performed ablution, and started praying. From that moment, he swore by Allah that he changed his life and became upright.”

Before this the young man had been using drugs and had greatly harmed his parents, causing them much pain and trouble.

So pay attention to this matter. The father should not rush to pray against his child just because he becomes angry or upset by some behaviour. Some parents even choose special times when prayers are answered to pray against their children. This is wrong. A father must show mercy to his child.

Source: https:///khawaaaaatir/73

Impressive write-up sir

Hussein27:
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The reason I thought I wanted to divorce my wife felt “simple” at the time.

The house was always messy.

I am a man who loves a clean and organized environment. But my wife? Ah… things were always here and there. Shoes not aligned. Toys scattered. Plates in the sink. It frustrated me more than I cared to admit.

So on Sunday, November 2nd, in my annoyance, I handed her divorce papers.

She didn’t shout.
She didn’t argue.
She didn’t insult me.

She quietly walked into the room, packed a few clothes, and left.

She left our four children ages 2, 4, 7, and 8 with me.

And in my pride, I told her never to come back.

Then reality visited me on Monday morning.

5:00am, I woke up to prepare the kids because I needed to be at work by 8am.

I was cooking.
Bathing one child.
Shouting at another.
Looking for socks.
Packing lunch boxes.

Before I knew it, the food had burnt.

I checked the time.

8:00am.

My heart nearly stopped.

As I was rushing everyone out, my 2-year-old said, “Daddy, poo poo.”

What kind of timing is that?

Before I could react, she had already messed herself.

As I cleaned her up, tears filled my eyes.

We finally got to school by 9am.

Then my 4-year-old calmly said,
“Daddy, my book is at home… on the chair.”

I wanted to scream.

The teacher had to calm me down.

By 5pm, the school called.

“Sir, why haven’t you come to pick your children?”

I asked, “Has their mother not come?”

They replied, “No sir. School closed by 4pm.”

That was the moment it hit me.

So this is what my wife handles every single day?

I rushed from work, picked them up, and went home secretly hoping she would be there.

She wasn’t.

Her phone was switched off.

As I stood wondering what to cook, all four children shouted at once:

“Daddy, help me with my assignment!”

Assignment?

For FOUR children?

Plates were still dirty.
Uniforms were unwashed.
The house looked worse than before.

I was shouting every two minutes:

“Stop that!”
“Leave him alone!”
“Bring that here!”
“Don’t scatter everywhere!”

I kept calling my wife.

Not even to beg her.

Just to tell her to come and carry her children.

Her number wouldn’t connect.

Tuesday was worse.

We reached school by 10am.

Their proprietress looked shocked they normally arrive before assembly.

She asked if they had done their assignments.

I kept quiet.

I had forgotten.

Completely.

I couldn’t do it anymore.

I drove to my sister’s house to drop the children temporarily.

That’s when I discovered something humbling.

She has a home lesson teacher.
A cleaner that comes every evening.
She has only three children.

And her husband still arranged help for her.

I went back home ashamed.

I called my mother-in-law.
I called her siblings.
I started begging everyone to beg her to come back.

I even lied that the divorce was a prank… a small “test.”

My lawyer laughed when I told him to cancel everything.

Only God knows how my wife does all of this daily and still shows up to work by 8am like nothing happened.

By Wednesday, the children didn’t go to school at all.

Assignments were piling up.

I was finished.

Completely finished.

Finally, both families intervened and my wife returned home.

I confessed everything.

She just laughed.

That day, my love for her didn’t just increase it multiplied beyond measure.

I immediately hired a lesson teacher to help with homework.
Anything to reduce her stress.

Those four days humbled me.

I love my wife.

God bless all mothers and wives.

Always respect your wives at every level.
What they do, you truly cannot do even if you try.

Appreciate women for their role in the home. It is not small. It is not easy.


Even the smallest things matter.

Wash the dishes.
Cut the vegetables.
Set the table.
Watch the children while she cooks.

Do not leave her to struggle alone.

The little help you offer every day will light up her heart and make her look forward to cooking again.

Husbands, cherish your wife.

She is doing more than you see.


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Fremlin:
24hrs is too much

Is this from experience sir?

Yeah,in short 24hrs minimum when fully stock with water from experience running the lg standing freezer for ice block business.

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Fremlin:
So i installed a solar systemast year, I feel it's been wasting. So
o I have decided to starting making small about 15 packs of iceblock daily as side hustle.

Unfortunately the chest freezer (skyrun) I have took 3 whole days of uninterrupted light to form strong and firm iceblock.

So someone told me about this LG upright freezer, that it can take 15hrs to form strong iceblock, couldn't find the LG, but I saw bruhum and Hisense, of which the hisense is cheaper.

Was wondering if anyone have had experience with using this Hisense upright freezer for iceblock making business.

It is ok for ice block making business the only downside it is not too energy saving friendly considering you need at least 24hrs uninterry power supply except you have a big solar setup

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NedeenFarmLMD:
To be honest it will cost a lot to take it from farm to City from city to Abuja Park will cost up to 35k

ok i will make a decision soon. thanks

NedeenFarmLMD:
How do you want to send 50 sucker to Abuja from Osun State cost of transportation will be so higher

i also thought at much, though like how much are we looking at transporting it？

interested in buying, what i need is 50 suckers for a start and another challenge is that i am in abuja.

any reliable dna center in lagos？

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

sorry for the loss of your beloved. may the lord console your family

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wonderful, you are genius sir

Modecaih:
show us the recent pictures this is 2023 if you are serious

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Modecaih:
can you pls show us pictures and their prices

Pics already on the thread

Bidmaster:
I need Irish potato

Yes, available

Sunnic4sure:
Please can you supply to portharcourt?
Also do you have other products like beans, groundnuts and rice?

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Jatinzbusinessc:
Get a space around where is accessible not mainly town an empty space then get a scale and get boys to help you scout for the plastic.

Your location determine the value where are you located?

i am interested in this

rainlover:
ok. What about the machines required, wouldn't it cost above 700k?

Goodday, did you follow up on this

Pending

weldone. nice progress

still available？