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Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:23pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:23pm On Oct 21, 2013
Guinea Bissau

Bijagos islands

The country has more than 85 islands most of them unhibated and complete paradise!

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Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:20pm On Oct 21, 2013
Basilica , Yamossoukro, CIV

Beautiful place, but total waste of money

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Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:19pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:15pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:15pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:14pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:13pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:12pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:11pm On Oct 21, 2013
Maiduguri Countryside-Nigeria

Maiduguri is a city of over 1 million people in Nigeria....

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Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 4:10pm On Oct 21, 2013
Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 2:52pm On Oct 21, 2013
teaching the son how to fish-naija

look like he'd rather dance than fish lol

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Culture › Re: African Images-sights And Sounds! by onila(op): 2:51pm On Oct 21, 2013
Health › Re: A Thread For Those Suffering From Depression Or Anxiety Disorders by onila(f): 7:42am On Oct 21, 2013
depressionkills: Many Africans may be depressed and have an anxiety disorder and they dont know cry it
I went to a psychologist and was diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder undecided
the psychologist told me I need medication and ordered my school doctor to give me drugs

I took it for a while and stopped
when I realized I needed to go back on medication
my pharmacist said since I haven't taken the drugs for over 7 months undecided and she wnt be able to give me drugs because thats according to their law over here

that means I have to do another psychological evaluation again which takes over one month to complete angry
I have been so lazy to do the whole ish all over again undecided


Hopefully I will soon undecided


I know in Africa, you don't have access to all these things which makes it more difficult for you guys over there
but God is yr strength
Health › Re: A Thread For Those Suffering From Depression Or Anxiety Disorders by onila(f): 7:18am On Oct 21, 2013
depressionkills: Me too, my thoughts are plagued by anxiety and a panic fear of the future. I feel like life challenges are way to hard for me and I wont be able to handle them. My financial situation is so precarious. Not having a job, finishing school causes SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH STRESSS that I used to have panic attacks. I dont know if you ever had those but your heart starts racing very fast and feel like you are having a heart attack, you feel cold and start shivering and you literally feel your stomach shrink.
I panic all the time about school, bills, visa, blabla blabla LIFE IS SOOOOOO DAMN HARRRRRDDD!! Once I almost got evicted, can you believe this??

I 100% depend on my parents right now and it causes me so much shame, since they are getting old and since I am the eldest I am expected to be the one catering for my younger siblings yet life hardships just seems unbearable.
I cant even take care of my own self, how an I take care of somebody else??

I once read that Africans, unlike what must people think, are more likely to be affected by mental illness such as anxiety and depression because most of us live very very hard lives that lead us to worry and feel vulnerable all the time. Lets not even talk about the fact that so many Africans are victims of all types of violence, political, economical, sexual ...etc

This is why I m so much against violence because I know first hand how it destroy people form within. One of my ex was the type of guy, everybody looks at and envy. He had a BA at Ivy League university then went on to study Law at Georgetown. Brght guy with a bright future ahead and very handsome. Looking at him, noone can imagine how depressed and suicidal he really is. I remember the first time we spoke, we were talking causally and joking and all of sudden he just broke down and told me that he had tried to hang himself the night before. I was sooo shocked!!!! cry cry cry cry He looks like the type of guys who has it all but deep inside he hurts so much. He smiles, pretends that he is OK, but is suffering so much but because he projects the image of success, no one sees it!

You can never tell what people are going through, this is why people should be careful with their words and actions!! I admit that I am a terrible person a lot of the time but I am doing my best and learning form my mistakes. A word can kill just like it can save a person. So many people saved me with their words without even knowing. They reminded me that I matter

Depression can affect everybody!!

Many Africans may be depressed and have an anxiety disorder and they dont know cry it
I really do like you, I think yr a great person
I see a gorgeous, articulate, smart, kind, positive, non-judgemental and a wonderful person when I read yr posts

I don't get why you are so depressed tho undecided I wish you cld see yr good sides and use it for yr own good. Instead of focusing on your negative qualities

You are a very smart girl. I suggest u use yr smart brians and finish school embarassed instead of thinking of things that you shldnt worry abt

I know how to bring out the good in people
forget your past, I suggest you go to church regularly and hang around elderly people instead of b1tchy girls who will bring you down
Health › Re: A Thread For Those Suffering From Depression Or Anxiety Disorders by onila(f): 6:37am On Oct 21, 2013
depressionkills:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=iCvmsMzlF7o


I have desperately been trying post a video please HELLLLLLLPPPPPPPP cry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o
Health › Re: A Thread For Those Suffering From Depression Or Anxiety Disorders by onila(f): 6:36am On Oct 21, 2013
depressionkills: As for me, I am 24yo, havent graduated yet because of my anxiety and depression, I have no job, feel lonely and pessimistic about the future and often suicidal and often feel like I will be dead by the time I am 30 too.
cry cry my dear, I thought I was the only one who is going thru this

these days, I have been thinking abt death and I wont be able to live a good life in the future

I really need help
Romance › Re: Ladies, Would U Date/marry A Guy With No Sexual Experience? by onila(f): 6:53pm On Oct 20, 2013
lepasharon: Yes..since me myself have no intimate experience
so proud of you smiley
Romance › Re: Ladies, Would U Date/marry A Guy With No Sexual Experience? by onila(f): 6:50pm On Oct 20, 2013
pc guru: @Onila frankly i don't care if you a virgin but its annoying how you keep announcing as if you want a badge, virgin or non-virgin makes no difference to me,pipe down, we know you kept and frankly am glad you did,but we don't have to be reminded in every thread that you did.
it really sucks how morally loose pple can be

how can someone dislike someone for preaching dignity, pride and how a woman shld act

ladies keep yr virginity!
Celebrities › Re: Fela Anikulapo Smoking Torch-Size Weed (PHOTO) by onila(f): 4:45pm On Oct 20, 2013
he was such a disgusting, dirty old man! yuck!

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