₦airaland Forum

Ucheeeee: There is no way everyone around you will “like” (relative) you. That is basic. Do not live your life trying to make everyone like you, that will never be and you will end up sad. Just live your life doing good and being good.

Just be yourself. Live your life. But mind how you carry yourself. Do not always use every subtle opportunity and style to remind your friends that you’re prettier than them. ENSURE THAT YOUR “BEING PRETTY” DOES NOT GET INTO YOUR HEAD. It is actually a gift as you did nothing to be the way you are, though you have to do much to maintain it.

If you’re simple, sincere, truthful, natural and your friends still envy you, move on. Don’t talk another person into being your friend if they don’t want to. We do not choose our siblings, BUT WE CHOOSE OUR FRIENDS.

MsDarkSkin:

90love: Thank you! If women in my country we're known for such behaviour I'd sit down quietly in my corner not come on here blaming and mentioning people's husbands. As a wife and as a mother I can not condone what I've seen with certain zim women. My neighbour is a zim woman who stole her Nigerian husband after infecting him with HIV he left behind his wife of 10 years and three grown children.
Yes every man is accountable for their own actions but how could I attend my neighbours party and they're all talking about the men they use to cheat on with behind there husbands and how if a man came who had more money than their husband they would move on to them. I also came to realise they specify in getting Nigerian men that's they're ideal candidates. My uncle who happens to be Nigerian stupidly married a zim when was well off as soon as he lost his money and properties the woman disappeard it was a Nigerian woman that came to pick up the pieces and help him back on his feet.
I'm in complete and utter disgust when the subject of zims comes up.
@ onila honesty is he best policy

Yield: Onila, are you okay?

Good Girl: If I KNOW a man (let's call him Man A) has a wife and he approaches me for a relationship/sex/fling/marriage (whichever vocabulary applies), I OUGHT TO say 'no' to him! Why? Because HE IS MARRIED AND I KNOW IT! Simple as that. Mrs. A is a woman like myself and for [i]her [/i]sake I will DO MY BIT OF NOT BEING HER NIGHTMARE BY SIMPLY SAYING 'NO' to her husband's advances. I may not have the power to prevent him from dumping her, but I do have the power to reject her husband's advances knowing very well a separation/divorce MAY escalate if I entertained his moves! If I cause him to leave his wife, then YES, AM A HOME WRECKER. He has wrecked his own home, yes, but I will have aided him do it by availing myself to him.

We will both be home wreckers - himself, for wrecking his own home and myself, for aiding him in wrecking his own home. We'll both be villains; the suffering party - his wife.

And for those who think that flirting is harmless, well, ask the married people or people in relationships how they ended up together. It started by simple flirting. Truss mi.

Lastly, it's only a st[i]u[/i]pid woman who thinks she's better than her predecessor.

sosoluv: 90love if you got your husband stolen its probably because of your face and attitude,,, if we were to put up all HIV positive nigerians women they would probably the same number as population of Zimbabwe itself, so please keep quiet if u dont have anything intelligent to say!!! Zim women are decent looking, they know how to treat men right, we do have a few you act otherwise, but majority are known for having self-respect and honouring their husbands.