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Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Lisa1: 1:40am On May 22, 2012 |
tpia@:[img]http://www.50centloseweight.com[/img] I very much agree with your point of view |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Cuteobi(f): 2:26am On May 22, 2012 |
IMAGINE IF THE 3 WISE MEN HAD BEEN 3 WISE WOMEN They would have asked directions instead of following d star. They would have arrived on time, helped deliver baby Jesus, cleaned d stable, brought practical gift - pampers, feeding bottles, baby clothes & made milk for the new baby...etc But what would they have said as they left... I thought we were supposed to be meeting them at a nice hospital. Did u see the shoes Mary was wearing with that dress? They don't match oo. Can u believe they let all those disgusting animals in there. That donkey they're riding has seen better days! Can't he buy her a baby jeep. I heard that Joseph isn't even working right now. Nawa o... how will they survive? But I like her hair oo, I think it's Brazilian...either Remy or Koquette 28 inches. Hmmm, I wonder d oil she uses on it. That baby doesn't look anything like Joseph! Virgin ke? Hmmmm! Virgin my foot! Isn't it that Mary girl, I knew her in Sec school. =D 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Tgirl4real(f): 2:32am On May 22, 2012 |
Please post on topic and no insult please. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Roland17(m): 2:54am On May 22, 2012 |
@OP Spot on... |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Zenanted(m): 3:23am On May 22, 2012 |
who are the Bitchy ones and what makes u think that Bitchity is not embedded in every woman? |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Zenanted(m): 3:27am On May 22, 2012 |
Cuteobi: IMAGINE IF THE 3 WISE MEN HAD BEEN 3 WISE WOMENits in u! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Freesia(f): 4:22am On May 22, 2012 |
I'm just trying to think who was difficult to work under between my female and male bosses in the past...you'll be surprised!! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 5:03am On May 22, 2012 |
well this is extremely high among nigerian women ooo, i think its a nigerian factor exclusively because African American women stick together like hawks.. just go try and see for yourself |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 5:09am On May 22, 2012 |
c.fours: 1. If the topic is stupid, then I guess I'm in good company. 2. I'm not a basher. . .I appreciate women. 3. I do everyday and I like what I see. Thanks! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 5:14am On May 22, 2012 |
to further buffer my earlier post, from personnal experience of a close friend.. African American women are like a wolf pack! they support each other to the end, they will assist each other , protect each other and come to gether to bust up a guys car if they fouynd out he was sleeping with all of them... but seriously i like this topic, because the nigerian women's situation is beyond abnormal, its like they actually hate each other. even blood sisters have an ingrained envy towards one another that it's sickening. its so sad. you all have to look inside yourselves nigerian woman because this ugliness is inside you all, and you needd to change the woman in the mirror before things get better. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 6:11am On May 22, 2012 |
Freesia: . Reason I mentioned lack of self esteem...You wouldn't put too much into it because all you see is a good truck but a woman raised with no self esteem would think that a man is behind the other woman's sucess.I have always wondered why a woman would knowingly date a married man for instance especially when he's financially well off? Why not say no and believe that her own man will come too Because beliefs are not reality. She knows he aint coming especially when she has waited for 23 years plus. Or maybe this other woman's man is actually her man she has been waiting for, she was just late in meeting him. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by dayokanu(m): 6:13am On May 22, 2012 |
If you want two women to fight, Just tell one of them that the other is finer than her. Then you would hear all sorts. That she borrows clothes, she has a K leg, her right booobs is bigger than left, Her father is very poor etc |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 6:33am On May 22, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: It's quite simple really - women look to men for validation and they will do anything to get it even if it means destroying their fellow (wo)man. I totally disagree. I actually think women work well together on their collective interests. For example, when you put scenarios in front of women for judgement, they always know how to work it to favour womanhood. When a man leaves a woman, he is generally termed a bastard. When a woman leaves a man, the man is still blamed because "he did not know how to treat her right". When a law disadvantages women, it is unjust, when it disadvantages men, we have to see the logic because women are the weaker sex. All these tags on men that don't want to do what women want e.g.: "Not a real man", "irresponsible for not being married", "not yet mature for not standing for a woman's irrational BS" etc are subconciously well infused in social psyche by women. Virtually any woman you speak to is on auto-pilto in using such words like if evolution has infused the art in them. Women work well together without having to discuss it. They are collectively consistently looking for advantage for womanhood. But that is where the problem lies. They are looking for those advantages because they know it would brush over them as being a member of that group. Basically it is a selfish act! THAT IS THE PROBLEM OF WOMEN! As far as I am concerned, I have no problem saying this, not one iota of a problem saying this because I have no problem saying the truth: The average Woman is fundamentally SELFISH and has no qualms being selfish! So the reason they have problem with other women is because they are looking out for their own interest and interest of their loved ones like their kids (permanent) and their partner (transiently dependent on relationship strength or dependency on him). They will look for any advantage for themselves at the frontier layer, womanhood advantages is important but is only at a secondary layer and inferior to personal advantage. As for Male advantages, to a woman: fck that, that is immoral! Point: They are not working with men. They more often work with women, but have no qualms screwing other women to get even more personal benefit. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 6:42am On May 22, 2012 |
dayokanu: If you want two women to fight, Just tell one of them that the other is finer than her. I once told a pal that a sixty something year old man grab pass am, he nor vex o, but he was clearly not appreciative of my comment. So I just learnt not to make such comments again because men are also very sensitive about their looks. Even skinny men nor wan hear say another man grab pass them! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 6:52am On May 22, 2012 |
tpia@: She's right you know, sheee's right! I normally go out to some events with some female group of friends. Surprise, surprise, jay bee once called me to say he saw my pix surrounded by lots of girls [them] on FB, that whatsup? These girls are fashionista types, as in they are in shape and dress up to best show their figures. I have a habit of studying the reaction of women when we go to an event. Jesus! I can just see the vicious eyes of other girls there as they look my female friends up and down and whisper to their own friends. Pure preemptive strikes. And when we sit down, it does not take long for my female friends to do the same to other girls. I just sit down there in amazement and study these curious living things for my PhD in Womantology. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 6:59am On May 22, 2012 |
Brixtonyute: I don't want to turn this thread into an intellectual bashing thread but I really have to say, you are an ediot for this stewpid comment. Talk facts and stop pulling opinions out of your arse. I don't know what kind of men you move with. Surely they are not natural, maybe they are poofters. What a steeewpid comment. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 7:03am On May 22, 2012 |
onila: .women pretend to get along but then later on gossip abt that person..they two faced...men tho they fight physically 4 wat theyy wantttt.. Well said! Men, when jealous, use violence, not the rubbish the ediot above said. Women evolutionarily try to avoid violence because they know it will more likely only damage their number one asset: their looks! So they have evolutionarily developed the art of using their mouth and psychological torture instead. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 7:05am On May 22, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: This not a hatefest abeg, we want solution so we can form a good, strong and supportive SISTERHOOD Secondary layer. At the end of the day you will look for advantage for yourself only. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by onila(f): 7:11am On May 22, 2012 |
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Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 7:13am On May 22, 2012 |
MsDarkSkin: Very interesting thread. Well said! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by vanstanzy(m): 7:16am On May 22, 2012 |
[b] michelin89: Please ladies enlighten me. @michelin89 Thank goodness its u, a lady that pointed-out this obvious fact. Men know this but would mostly say it under their breath cos if same were to come from a man, ya'll ladies will hurl insults, curses and all the hurlables at men. Its always been said that the best way to solve a problem is by telling urself the truth that there is a problem and identifying it. Go girl! (but pls no lady should attack me o! i didnt say it, michelin did.)[/b] |
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