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frozen70:
Ok naw, no let anything make you sad
Every problem get solution

That's why we call it experience

In as much as I don't support what she did, there must be a reason for engaging in extra chat

Try and find out why

She confessed that it was when we had some issues. The guy steeped in and took advantage of the situation. I took her to my our church alter and asked her to confess that I'll forgive her. Gbam! She cheated with the guy during the period we had the quarrel ( between ending of December and January) and weren't talking with each other.

I've been so devastated. I truly love my wife but she betrayed the love

Now these are questions in my head begging for answers:

1. What if I didn't see that text?
2. Can she ever change genuinely ?
3. Can I ever trust her again?
4. Can any marriage truly survive cheating?


While I haven't sent her away is because of my 3 years old son and time to process everything and take a decision.

I really love this woman and don't think I deserve this.

We got married in 2019, she was 21 while I was 31. So we'll be 25 and 35, respectively this year.

flourishing247:
He's most likely her first love. You should first find out why she's reaching out to him. Is there a void in her life you are not filling up? Are you meeting her emotional needs?

The text shows She's emotionally attached to this guy. It doesn't mean she does not love you but there is a small issue you guys need to resolve. Sir her down and talk to her camly to find out whats going on. This one no be shouting conversation oooo. Her response will determine if marriage will continue. I wish you all the best.

He was her first love

Please, I need candid advice.
I barred my wife from talking with one of her ex that I am uncomfortable with and have some suspicion.

Yesterday, he called her and she ignored and claimed it was a flash because I was around, at least I think so. I called him back and when he knew I was the one, he ended the call and switched of the phone.

Yesterday evening, I realized that my wife tried reaching out to him and even sent him a text.

The text is attached here.

I feel my suspicion has been confirmed.

What should I do? I'm thinking of ending the marriage.