₦airaland Forum

jcross19:
are you sure of that? Michael Owen build and estate for his parents . that noble igwe is a fool. they do all they could do to laid a sound foundation for you but in return, you abandoned them thinking you owed them nothing continue when you grow old you will understand.

What I am saying isn't hard to understand. We all should plan for our retirement instead of shifting the burden to our children. They too will be going through what we went through and that puts them in pressure trying to please their parent. In developed countries people save for their retirement, Nigeria should not be an exception

sassysure:
Parents are better.
At least they are your parents.

We have relatives, friends with benefits, village people.
Moochers.
They will run you down.

Yes, I know politician steal and it's never justifiable but they feed a whole ùmùnna.
They won't come to tell you that u should fix a leaking roof in the community but to ask for money with concocted stories.
Then they will go to the social media and post the leaking roof.

Politicians are also parents and they have parents too

War in Babylon

Life is meaningless. Enjoy as much as you can cos soon or later death will come knocking

War in Babylon

Chi59:
There's a clear cut difference between supporting your parents financially and becoming a slave to their entitlement mentality. I get Noble Igwe's point. Some parents have so many kids with the intention of making money off each and every one of them, through any means necessary. This gives birth to the rise of issues of extreme bride price lists etc..
Work for your retirement, don't lose yourself or lose sight of your future while training your kids, and most importantly, your children are not another source of income.

Parents only train kids to around like 24 years and thereafter expect them to take care of them for the rest of their lives

Sound like Dangote

Stunt. The both of them are junkies

xendra:
you sound veeerrryy bitter and it's not our fault. everybody should do what they can for their parent but No; no one should be made to feel like it's a debt they owe.

the earlier you know that your children owe you nothing the better for you
but you owe them care till anytime they can stand on their own. because no be dem send you to born them.

You are very smart and understand life very well

OKorowanta:
If your head no fit carry Ganja why not quit and leave am for pipo wey dia blood strong..
Must you smoke and spew shiit?
Your mama wey carry dat your big head for belle for 9 months naim you wake up dey yarn dust over.
Bush fowl!

Everyone with their own experience in life. There might be millions of people who feel like him

useni1:
We are Africans not Europeans

but European a are far better than us

WorWorBoy:
he's kinda right shall.

the purpose of training a child in Nigeria is so they can take care of you when you are old. Ridiculous!

Tasha breasts be like 80yrs of granny own

eazzzy1:
And nobody hates free things lol.

not when it degenerate into entitlement

eazzzy1:
Neither do parents support their kids, kids move out of their parents house at 18 or start paying rent in their parents house, kids borrow from government to go to university too.

I am struggling to see the connection between not taking care of your parents and progressing as a nation.

America and western Europe are capitalist countries. They hate free things and believe you need to work to get what you need. Everyone should fend for themselves. Imagine living 60yrs without creating a retirement plan for yourself then passing it down to your kids

The boobs wack sha. Looks like an 80yrs old witch

Nbote:
We are becoming mad in dis country... We are always compating ourselves with d west and every time want to copy nonsense... In a Nigeria where ur parents have to work their asses out to put fud on d table, provide shelter and basic needs in house including putting their children thru skool, one slowpoke would wake up one day and claim to not owe their parents anything..



Ask dat ur friend in Europe and America how many of d parents over there are actually responsible for their kids basic education. How many of their parents support their kids financially as well?

Do you think extremely rich folks in Nigeria ask their kids for money? It should be the other way round- leaving an inheritance for your future generation and not getting your children to pay for your lack of planning when you were young

NextD18:
Everything about this generation is fvcked up!!

Every fvckin thing!!

I owe my parents ALOT! Even though they are working, getting the pay and doesn't ask, I fvckin owe them a lot!!

For the fact you didn't experience and felt the parental affection and love from your parents shouldn't give you the audacity, guts and impetus scribble disgraceful shiits online!

With the way these attention seeking lunatic elements spread unnecessary advice to the gullible, easily influenced and little-minded follower on social media, time will come when this generation parents will start saying that they owe their kids and family nothing!!

Spit!!!!

But support doesn't necessarily mean money. That is entitlement that your wife won't tolerate

xendra:
True...most parents now expect their children to make and bring to them the kind of money they couldn't make for themselves

some even pressure their children to marry rich and I ask, if it's that easy and you like money so much why didn't you marry rich? so that you wouldn't have to wait for my own money some will selfishly ruin their children's marriage/happiness because they want him to take care of them more than his own family I've seen alot of this.
Dangote will never have to wait for his children.

most children these days are suffering from listening to their (dependent) parents

You said it all!

eazzzy1:
My parents gave me everything when I was young. I don’t have to owe them before I decide to give them the best according to my abilities.

A friend told me in Europe and America kids dont support their parents financially and that is one of the reason they are progressing. If you want money go and work for it. Even in developed countries people work into the 70's.

MissyB3
Fynestboi

This is so true. Nigerian parents need to stop using their children as retirement plan. What do you think?

Hoodgod:
that guy don grow up since,na u dey baby sit ur self ontop ur cheap phone and hiding behind keypads

very good because you know me. You are even more stupid defending lies. Davido na liar and you are more foolish believe any bullshit from him

Cantonese:
Chai! Why this Davido and Chioma matter come pain you like this? Owu no good o. Make you no go mistakenly one day where you dey vex, carry two hands hug transformer thinking say na person body you dey hold. Abi you find work go dem house and dem no give you?

Oya pray for yourself like this: povert in my life and my family line, let me go.

The matter no pain am. He is educating brainwashed people like you that davido is a liar. Davido's networth is less than 150million naira. He is a clown and a junkie

Go back and check u will find out there was a time they said he bought an expensive car and house. All these people na audio them be. Them no geg shishi

Hoodgod:
Na u borrow am?you hate others without a reason..#growup

It is not hating. It is exposing lies. Davido is the one who need to grow up

Why una dey give this junkie all the attention? Davido dont have 100million naira. Let's stop with all dis bullshit

Audio 20 million. Iyanya dont have 2million

Nickshrapnel:
Do this fuckers know what libel is? How can you make such accusations without proof?

the truth is in the pudding

Audio and borrowed chain

alignacademy:
I hear you

But without verifiable stats, it could be seen as "hating"

For instance, you could "blow" tomorrow and people may start claiming that you are into such activities

I think it's important to separate opinions and hearsay from FACTS

Just saying...

Well I am not looking at it from a monetary side even most gay are middle class

alignacademy:
Thanks for sharing

I'm curious: How do you know?

Any verifiable stats?

Thanks again

well like someone mentioned Dino said most rich dude in Abuja spend on homo shiit