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salam aleikum...
pls i need urgent advice about this, I have a girl i wish to marry, av spoken to her and she has accepted, we have been together for 4months, she's also finished from skool. I recently read about girlfriend and boyfriend stuff in islam and i caught cold. I will be out of the con3 mayb in 2months Insha Allah and when i come back, my plan is to do introduction(the parents and the witness).

ifeness:
It is 70% about sex. No sex,then you can call it friendship/housemate

bros.... haba yur bad guy

ifeness:
The worst thing is to live like brother and sister with a lady. Sex life becomes boring or non-existence. Unless that is how boring the OP is but good luck.

Relationship isnt all about sex my bro. though their is alwyz a feeling of gra-gra

holatin:
this is super story

I screen alot, so i end up catching unwild girls which i appreciate. No girl has even troubled with with sex

holatin:
this is super story

konoyeroo

kingofpool:
mtcheeeew... Graduate my foot

haa.. is it not possible

I am a Guy of 23yrs, I started dating when i ws 20yrs+some months, tho av had several opportunities to date women, bt i usually run, i ws so afraid of breakup. my first gf came around wen i was in my final year(500l), that time she was jst heading for pre-degree(i had to settle for predegree girls cuz most times were older than me then).
Meh, the relationship was so so smooth that i was really enjoying it. I am a man of no sex bfor marriage nd that this Lady had thesame mindset as me. Our parents got to kno about us, they welcomed our relationship, even tho she was still small(18yrs), her parents still approved me cuz i was jst a focused man nd they knew i wasnt trying to chop their daughter.
when i was going for nysc, the girl knelt down begging me not to diasppoint, which i gav her my words that 'no shaking". I was so relaxed in d relationship until she entered second year nd she started yanga, she was showing me bad characters, i told her i dnt like she was doing, she kept doing it. no mor calls from her, no her hugs from her, no more"i love you from her" i asked why, she said its not good to be saying what she doesnt mean. I ws like this is our swecond year of dating, is it now that yu telling me yu dont mean it I ws like oh God, is my relationship crumbling i sat her down, told her wat she was doing that i didnt like, this ddnt help.. I also did "agidi i.e. "strong head" for her, that ddnt help, so i threatened with breakup, she ddnt talk, i went back the nxt day sey make she no vex.

finally shha, it got to a point that she left, i almost cried, ws like is this how breakup is Some of my guys laffed at me, we told to you wen yu have sex with her, she culdnt have done that.
looked at the Money i spent on her, that ddnt even pain bt for the fact that i neva spent such on my sis nd mum.


I met the second girl, asked her out, she accepted instantly, tho after some months of whinin.... "Girls gree for me on-time cuz i usually have a good package nd look likely to deliver good"
chaii, I later realized i had come over the first girl issue, it blocked my love for this new girl, later reaized i only liked her nd not-love. I was still thinking of my ex, it still troubled me. I ddnt kno how to tell her, i was jst pretending to cope, bt later i got to tell her cuz i wasnt at my best level with her. She felt bad, bt i felt worse because i had broken one of my core values. my core values are;
1. No sex untill a marry her
2. no breaking of hearts
3. No maltreatment
4. No nonsense

I jst broke one nd i felt worse, bt i ws like these are things av had in mind since i ws small, mayb i jst need to do this to help both of us. cuz i cant cope with such feeling wen am married. I want to be married nd love with my whole heart. we pathed ways nd i told mysef.. yu av done wat som1 did to you, some yur dsame wt her. I forgav myself nd i forgav my first ex too nd i was able to clear my mind patapata.

I met the third girl after like 6months, i went thru alot to get her, she accepted wen i got tired of pursuing her. I was able to love back nd she loves me back, tho i now have the mentality of when it comes to women, they can change at any time.

thank God my mentality of no sex bfor marrigae and some other things are still intact. I use to tell my friends, i cant use sex to tie a girl down, if my characters aint enuf for her to stay, she she can waka.
** currently my first ex is now on me, trying to come back. av settled wt her, bt let her kno coming back is nt gonna work.
**bt amazes me .. my first was v, second was v, third is v. I pray this current one stays and not change too

Ariigato gozaimashta for yur time

mizjules:
Lol was surprised

but actually, thats how its supposed be. its supposed to be fairer since its alwyz covered.

mizjules:
Fairer than the body

av neva seen such shha

mizjules:
Fairer than the body

that one is strong o

grayht:
Pics of ur fair bumbum or its all a fairy tale!

hahaaaa

mizjules:
Maybe we sit on it more often. But I've seen girls with fairer butt.. Ps I went to girls secondary school

but not as fair as the body shha?

Good day Nlders, this question has been troubling my mind for long. Whether or not, there is a medical explanation for it, i do not.

Av seen so many yansh(s) including mine. I use to see small boys/ have their bath outside somtimes. Irrespective of their complexion, the yansh is alwyz darker than the original complexion. Despite the fact that its a part of our body that is alwuz covered, no exposure to sun, no exposure to harshtreatment. So i av been wondering "how come"

Is there any explanation for this
Or its a kueshun for the gods

justi4jesu:
That's okay you can live well with that. The most important thing which is Accommodation has been taken care of. But note that you will be working 12 hours straight everyday with 1 day off if the company is consideration.

And also note that the accommodation is like a hostel with 6 to 8 persons in a room so don't think its luxury.


2000 Dhs is nice for a start and the sky will be your limit.

Goodluck

thanks( I appreciate)..... well, living with dat many people shouldnt be a problem, I lived in hostel thrughout my school, 8(legal), 15(with squatters) for 5yrs.
i just hope there can night shift. I will prefer night to day work, so that i can have time for other business.

hello people. Can any1 tell what to expect as a securtiy with 2000UAE, accommodation taken care of and transport. Its just to feed myself. plus the fact that I have alot of shipping businesses to do to get more money.

mencade6:
two pairs of pants will do op......do to her thw way she did to you.

what she do to me

bestestgirl:
Yes all those things would be better but not at 3K

lol

i meant any of them nah.

bestestgirl:
Yes all those things would be better but not at 3K

lol

Medunah:
I was bout to say something o until i saw ur budget

hav you seen my breakdown

i could have bought her somthin more expensive if i wunt be going.
bt my budget na 10k max.

ronald4lif:
I can't think of what 3K could afford sorry, maybe if there's a jewelry or watch for that amount get one then

mayb wrist watch go do shha... my mum sells dat kind thing, i fit get one from her.

3k isnt that small now, i shha nogo rob because of her. tfare 3k, gift 3k, my skool guys 2k, nd i myt carry her go chop for new buka(oau) 1k. roughly 10k because of her. Thats my limit for now

i will even skip work again for 2days....

see guy life

fruityjojo:
You could bake her a cake
Buy her a watch or bracelet

cake khee..
have added wrist watch to my checklist.. thanks for this

I am currently thinking of foot-wear.. I sabi her shoe-size

lirusehn:
buy her exercise books .
.

Haba

hello nairalanders, pls i need urgent suggestions.

My girlfriend is having her convocation ceremony nextweek, I av been thinking of wat gift to get her, bt my head hasnt been booting so well.
Pls, i need suggestions on what to get her with a budget within 3k.




... Tfare would also cost me 3k, my junior roomates i left in skool then would also tap currency-current from me

pls guys, gimme ideas of wat can make sense within 3k budget... *tears*

Pls Tell Me More About University Of Pretoria, South Africa.

i wish to apply in this school for my MSC. i av checked some info on their website, but i still need someone to rub mind with about permit, accommodation, feeding blabla.
pls, if anybody has info to share, pls do(i beg)

i wish to apply in this school for my MSC. i av checked some info on their website, but i still need someone to rub mind with about permit, accommodation, feeding blabla.
pls, if anybody has info to share, pls do(i beg)

rawpadgin: i wasn't like this until i became a registered member of nairaland

dont worry, overtime, i will bcome rugged luike you.
anyway, take a bottle of coke too

taiwolusol: Congratulations on finally registering on Africa's Foremost Forum

BABA thanks jare. take a bottle of coke

kaybiel2u: wat does dt mean?

dont you people welcome a new guy here

rawpadgin: & so?

is this how nairaland is?
lion

pls come and welcome me to nairaland.......... av got plenty of coke here with. lets party