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It is expected that you rent an apartment pending the time you have the ability to build your own house and most importantly if you have no any inherited flat. However, while there are many houses available for rent with many agents parading them to promising occupiers, then care must be taking to ensure that one does not end up with a house having SPIRITUAL ISSUES. When I said spiritual house I am referring to tenants who said that during the time they stayed in a particular apartment, they find it difficult to get money and eat; some said it is nightmares; to some it is no breakthrough etc. My question now is: have you experienced such things before or you know of such? Please do well to share it and how the problem was solved.

Seun:
Relax. Many people have done what you did. It's commendable that you're trying to make things right. The harm done by your cheating is that you are not worth what your certificates say that you are worth. The way to make restitution for it is to continue acquiring the knowledge and skills that are of value to your prospective employers so that you'll be as valuable to them as someone who truly earned those credentials.

Thanks too. I think I understand the angle through which you talked especially in your third sentence. The whole problem I have with sin at O'Level and as pertaining to the SSCE exams taken was largely because of 1. Not having genuine conversion then 2. poor primary and secondary education. May I tell, when I wrote poly Jamb ( the only Jamb I wrote in life), I knew I did better compare to how things were before, because by this time I have understood failure and cannot afford to fail. So I really prepared very well and that not without sin also because there are things I did not know as sins then. By then I have really understood a lot at O'Level. So, when I got to polytechnic, the understanding of failure and my decision to graduate helped me to study very well to the point I came first in my set and without cheating. I even taught my class mates anytime they were not clear about some topics. This continued to my university education, I did very well too even beyond my expectation, all glory be too God. I taught my classmates too in the university. Now, as God is my witness and with His help, theoretically, practically and professionally, I know I am trying though I am not that fluent in speech but I am working on that. Now, all the certificates I have, I can defend them anywhere anytime.I may not speak the English Language fluently ('just as if I am eating carrot') but if written and spoken wrongly, I have the competence to detect. Going by what I have passed through in life, sincerely I am not afraid of any exam by His grace. It is because God requires the past (Ecclesiastes 3:15 That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past.) and so as to check adequacy of the restitution made in relation to that disturbing thought IS JUST THE ESSENCE OF THIS POST. Thanks for your understanding of all this.

jiggaz:
My brother, this is the devil playing with your mind. Since you are saved in 2009, you are now a new creation in Christ. Old things have passed away and all things have become new.

Jesus Christ paid for all your sins on the Cross and He said it finished!! It is finished means IT IS FINISHED!! No sin was left.... What you need to do now is to start renewing your mind in Christ and resisting the devil by casting down imaginations or thoughts that are disobedient to the Word of God. The battle is on the mind, so have to be renewing your mind with the word of God.

Click on my profile name and go through my Christian articles, you will love them cos it will liberate you. It is made for people like you.... Please don't worry yourself again bro. It is well with you.

Thanks also as I am grateful for your response, I am scripturally convinced that God requires the past and restitution is biblically necessary. In my own case, the correctness and adequacy of the restitution made as explained before are just the reason for this post. Thanks once again.

shadeyinka:
Sometimes as Christians, we allow the devil to accuse us
Rom 8:33 Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth

Pls read the whole chapter. Sometimes, we take the issue of restitution too far.

Restitution is not a NT command, It is an instruction that the Holy Spirit gives for specific situations.

Not everything can be restituted;
If you disvirgined a girl, how do you restitute? ..will sorry restore the damage
You put a girl in the family way, how do you restitute?
You have an accident due to your carelessness, and someone dies, how do you restitute?

What would Jesus have said to you, knowing Him (since you have been born again for some time)?
Will He say, Go, Sin no more your sins are forgiven
OR
Your sins are Forgive but first go do your restitution!

If the Son of God set you Free, please do not let the LAW hold you bound.

I will be glad to do more clarification if you still have questions

I am truly happy for your concern and God be with you. Restitution is biblical as it starts right from Old Testament and proceeds to New Testament. I can itemise series of scriptural verses to expantiate this. In my own case, I do not know maybe my own too careful nature is the reason behind my problem or some forces from the other side. Many a times after I might have locked the door to my apartment, I will still check like two times to make sure it is locked though I locked it myself. On the issue of restitution, I know and hear more of it. But what thing is this: it was true that before I got converted I have involved in some sinful acts as it touched my written exams as explained before and the restitution made on that. All the same, I consider it unfair and inappropriate to disregard the exam certificates as if some people entirely wrote the exams for me. If some people wrote the exams for me, no need for any talk, the next thing is to do away with those certificates. So to avoid confusion in my heart that periodically comes is the reason for this post. Why, it is because, God's word says ...in the multitude of counsels, there is safety. And by expansion, ONLY godly and true counsels bring that safety.Thank you.

Blitzeee:
See your Pastor for counselling, forgiveness of sins is paramount, restitution is important but optional. Not everything can be restituted

Thanks for your concern. I quite believe in getting advice from leaders as you suggested. Nevertheless, the time comes in one's life that you chose to look at things yourself and hold on that. Why I am making this public like this is to seek the judgement of others of what has been narrated above and the adequacy of the same. Thank you once more.

I am very grateful for everyone who has responded and those who shall thereafter.

Good day people of God

Please I want to ask for some clarifications over restitution-related matter. It a lot of time disturbs my heart and distracts my attention. Please I pray for straight forward answers

I was saved by Christ in 2009 and I did restitutions which many a times appeared inadequate to me and give me some distracting and disturbing thoughts. At a time when I think about it, it comes to my heart that the restitution I have done is okay and I can proceed but the thought would still return back. So  it appears to me as if everything should be reversed back to when I was young  and start afresh. I even wish I knew God at age five and be walking in the Lord since then.

My confusion is this:

The certificates I used to get admissions to higher institutions before I got converted  were marked with some sins.

The noted sins are:
(1) Either I was taught in the exam halls or I taught people myself (I cannot say in this number of subjects of this number of exams)

(2) While taking  those exams, after I have read and adequate prepared, I would still go into the exam halls with subject's key-point. Sometimes I made used of it and sometimes no way to use it or hardly used it.

(3) I  took many O'level exams and over time  I have really mastered them and with this I had the mind of helping people to pass their exam. So I was in agreement to help a friend in 2006 after he got one exam form for me and one for himself. My intention was to write for both of us; I want my results in a single seating and wanted to help him pass his own too. So eventually I could not help him as planned because they later changed our exam centres. But I managed to sit for him in one subject of the exam.

(4) In taking some of this exams, I would write formula to add to those in the mathematical four figure table allowed to be taken to exam hall to make use of them.

(5) Another one is lets say a student is writing nine subjects of an exam, I may quickly call upon then to write one for him or her directly or indirectly.

The restitutions I made were in this wise:

After I was saved and prayed, I  wrote letters to the exam bodies involved to beg for forgiveness and pardon. A particular woman that saw one of the letter said that I was taking it far that it should not  be up to that.

Of all the exam bodies I wrote, only one (WAEC) responded. The one that responded, the woman called me to bring their certificates. I later sent an email letter to  explain that I did not know which one to bring and that they should please forgive and pardon me. Since then I heard nothing again.

The reasons just like one of the brethren that counseled me said which I did not give away these certificates are that sincerely I laboured for them but only that they were marked with some sins as said above which I believe writing them  to ask for forgiveness and pardon could restitute.

As regard sin number (3) above,   I  later approached  the man I tried to help then and told him my intention of writing the exam body, he was not comfortable with it saying there is no need and that I should not take it to that level. But I wrote all the exam bodies involved as said before. I later paid him the  equivalent amount of money he paid then to buy my exam  form.

So after I have done all this, one thing would still be telling me (feeling or thinking or analysing) that what I have done as restitution is not okay enough. And sometimes another thoughts would come to say all is well, I can proceed. So this disturbs and distracts me a lot. PLEASE GUIDE ME IN A RIGHT WAY with your godly counsels.


All of above pertains to O-level exams. So through out my days in higher institutions, people (class mates/course mates) used to come to me so as to teach them and explain things to them. But what I can point to  as sins are these:


(1) I remembered I joined the whole class at poly then to give money  to a lecturer of a particular subject who requested for it  as a criterion for giving us his handout of his course ( as if I might be dealt with if I did not corporate) I cannot even remember I knew this as sin then

(2) The acts of copy and paste especially in writing final year projects without/with poor  proper referencing.

Concerning these two, I thought the right thing to do is to pray to God and avoid such in the future. ANYWAY I STILL WELCOME YOUR ADVICE WITH THE GUIDES I ASKED FOR ON THE O'LEVEL'S  EXAM ISSUES RAISED BEFORE.

Thank you.

Of a truth, I have developed interest in tecno products especially their phones. Now, I'm thinking of buying a pad that I can use to surf the net, chat, record video and audio, listen to audio messages and watch videos. I have decided to go for Tecno N9 but now in doubt as people has passed discouraging comments about the phoner's poor battery perormance, poor camera performance among others. Having recognised all this, I'm in doubt whether to go ahead to purchase the product or look for other phone. Advise me please.

It gives me a great concern to humbly write to you through this channel in order to ask some questions about the acquisition and application of necessary softwares like AutoCAD, Revit Architecture, Microsoft Word, SPSS, Corel Draw among others.
Right from my University days up till now,whenever I need softwares like Avast anti-virus and those I mentioned above, I collect and copy them from friends to install them. And also they sell these softwares at nearby local shops.
My questions now arise from what some people are saying and what I think perhaps about the possession and use of these softwares. These are: first, I am considering the response on the price of a software say AutoCAD, because to get the installation CD now in Nigeria, you can get it at a price less than 2dollars. Infact, I have acquired similar software like that before. So I want to know if that ought not to be, this is because people are complaining that such a software at say 2dollars is hacked version and not an original but it does the same work. Second, I will like to know whether copying these softwares either from internet or friends is bad. This is because, what is common in my campus is whenever you need a software, you just move from one room to the other and I tell you you will copy a lot from student friends. I have been involving in this act too. Or should I just hold to what others said that we buy those softwares at nearby shops cheaply because they are not original and that accessibilty will not be given to complete package features?
Please I will like to be enlightened about this issue of software acquisition and application please. Thanks. My email address is opportunitykenny2000@yahoo.com

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Please I am serious with this issue, I am not a story teller as one guy said please. Contribute to advise me or don't talk to abuse. Thanks

It happens as this: I went to my bank on dat day around july ending dis year to deposit money. After I deposited d money, I decided to check my balance and I found abt 2Billion naira in my bank account. After some thoughts I went to discuss it wit d bank manager and after he had called mayb their hearquaters region, he said I can go dat they wil do sumtin on It.According to d considered advice of my part adviser in university.When I noticed dat he wil nt take it serious, I decided to report d case to police headquarters office and I got to d police station headquarters in ife bt they didn't av interest in it telling me dat they av heard d same frm one person of their staff and dat was y I left for SSS office in osogbo to report again I got to d sss office to report n one of dem was telling me dat if d money is still there we should go n withdraw it bc it is sum ppl who steal n keep it their in my account. So I was abt leaving their office wen I was called back n they now told me dat they will like to handle d case.I narrated how it happened to dem, they told me to write statement n bring it in typed and printed copy again n I told them dat I wil nt b able to be coming and going like dat bc of transpt fares and time bc am still searching for a job.So I wrote d statement their n they typed n printed it their n they told me they wil work on it too.They also gave me d copy n I av it wit me.So I brought a copy of dat statement wit me n later I was called to report their again.I went their for like 3times before they nw said that their director would like to see me n the bank manager at d same time.So wen d day comes, Me n d bank manager appeared b4 d sss director and we were interrogated n d director told d manager to make his statement too,We were told to leave dat place n as I walked out wit d bank manager, he was reporting me to his wife mayb dat I was d one who reported them n he said dis as if he wants to attack me.Since dat day I av nt heard anytin frm them n d other time I called one of d sss officer, he didn't pick it n he didn't call bk.To be sincere I felt strongly being cheated. I must confess. Please everyone that is reading this come to my rescue to help me. I need your help. I am a graduate, my colleagues are doing their nysc programme now. I could not go because of age restriction as I could not compromise to backdate my age and at this same time I have not got any job uptill now. I have proof of this issue I discussed with you in printed and photocopy copy and d conversations I made too during the period of this matter are within the net of network providers in nigeria. Thanks for your anticipated prompt response.

It happens as this: I went to my bank on dat day around july ending dis year to deposit money. After I deposited d money, I decided to check my balance and I found abt 2Billion naira in my bank account. After some thoughts I went to discuss it wit d bank manager and after he had called mayb their hearquaters region, he said I can go dat they wil do sumtin on It.According to d considered advice of my part adviser in university.When I noticed dat he wil nt take it serious, I decided to report d case to police headquarters office and I got to d police station headquarters in ife bt they didn't av interest in it telling me dat they av heard d same frm one person of their staff and dat was y I left for SSS office in osogbo to report again I got to d sss office to report n one of dem was telling me dat if d money is still there we should go n withdraw it bc it is sum ppl who steal n keep it their in my account. So I was abt leaving their office wen I was called back n they now told me dat they will like to handle d case.I narrated how it happened to dem, they told me to write statement n bring it in typed and printed copy again n I told them dat I wil nt b able to be coming and going like dat bc of transpt fares and time bc am still searching for a job.So I wrote d statement their n they typed n printed it their n they told me they wil work on it too.They also gave me d copy n I av it wit me.So I brought a copy of dat statement wit me n later I was called to report their again.I went their for like 3times before they nw said that their director would like to see me n the bank manager at d same time.So wen d day comes, Me n d bank manager appeared b4 d sss director and we were interrogated n d director told d manager to make his statement too,We were told to leave dat place n as I walked out wit d bank manager, he was reporting me to his wife mayb dat I was d one who reported them n he said dis as if he wants to attack me.Since dat day I av nt heard anytin frm them n d other time I called one of d sss officer, he didn't pick it n he didn't call bk.To be sincere I felt strongly being cheated. I must confess. Please everyone that is reading this come to my rescue to help me. I need your help. I am a graduate, my colleagues are doing their nysc programme now. I could not go because of age restriction as I could not compromise to backdate my age and at this same time I have not got any job uptill now. I have proof of this issue I discussed with you in printed and photocopy copy and d conversations I made too during the period of this matter are within the net of network providers in nigeria. Thanks for your anticipated prompt response.