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Nothing spectacular!!!

CodeTemplar:
Ibadan or Enugu? The roof though.

U finish work for these cogent reasons why u give,,facts on point.

youngsahito:
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I believe in the Bible God, jehovah,and not ur abstract God who u say he passed instructions from ur primitive ancestors mouth to mouth to ur own generation.why u come dey form like say I dey speak strange language...the African traditional religions u tried to pride urself with did all those primitive stuffs..why u dey form....my dear bro, accept the true God,just try to know more of him from the pages of the Bible,seek those who know more of the Bible and they'll help u learn fast,ok?

sonmvayina:
Wao...so your ancestors did all those, wao...no wonder he is using the fulani herdsmen to punish them. Wao, your ancestors really commit atrocities.......

Meeeen, you really need to go for Deliverance. Your bloodline is corrupted.

Meaning you served an unknown god through your alusi,cos the new yam festivities are dedicated to these idols.then how come ur primitive ancestors came about the killing of twins and albinos,and sacrificing of humans during their feasts? Is it the true God, Jehovah who gave them those erroneous viewpoints?

sonmvayina:
So you just read to respond, not to understand what I wrote.... indeed they have eyes but can't see.

I said , God only gave us laws to keep and follow.
Do not take what does not belong to you
Do not sleep with another man's wife
Do not kill any body deliberately.if any body offends you, report to the obi in council. If the person is found guilty,he is banished.
Etc....
We have a four days cycle...Nkwo, Eke, Orie Afor.....
We have festivals like the new yam festival and laws guiding it......
You can't marry within the same kindred.


Etc.
Even during the civil war, nobody from my village died. The Nigerian soldiers went round our village, but never entered. God protected us.....

Original suffer head, una dey duffer dey smile,,just tell me what good has come out of this party since 2015? I don't support any party or politicians o,but just think and tell me

jogojogo:
Peter Obi is very dull.
He should continue trading please
How does one live his life lying all day ceaselessly?

What you're only doing is,I quote u canter quote,..can't u just explain the reason why your so called ancestral religions were so cruel and wicked?

oroje1:
Na WA for you o...my friend, black Africans worshipped their individual gods,from sango,Ogun,amadioha, and so many other gods from other parts of africa.all these demon gods .e no get wetin u wan explain.... Christianity is tainted yes I know.but search for the true Christians, you'll find them

Na WA for you o...my friend, black Africans worshipped their individual gods,from sango,Ogun,amadioha, and so many other gods from other parts of africa.all these demon gods .e no get wetin u wan explain.... Christianity is tainted yes I know.but search for the true Christians, you'll find them

lawani:
Yet if someone is caught today trying to sacrifice his own kid, you will be quick to accuse the person of being responsible for some missing people. Double standard. There were no religions in the past. Religion is the opposite of science. If something can be peer reviewed then it is not religion. If something respects other people's culture, it is not religion. Spirit science is not religion and that is what was passed down to every human group by their ancestors and not religion.

I'm only asking that you explain the pattern of African religions I just mentioned,leave Abraham own first,after all it was only a test of faith,he didn't actually killed his son....so back to my question,...is it this same African traditional stuff that you referred to as religions passed on to you by your ancestors?

lawani:
Was Abraham a demon worshipper too? He was a human ritualist

The ones I knew quite well,don't they do human sacrifices during their festivities to their gods? Are they not the same ones who told their worshippers that twins and albinism are an abomination to be killed or thrown into the evil forests to die.are they not the gods whose worshippers created the caste system in many traditional settings back then and some even existing till date?

lawani:
They are demon worshippers but we had nobody killing over God, raping and etc until the God worshippers arrived around 2000 years ago

So which religion did the creator of heaven and earth pass on to your African ancestors that I need to know about?

sonmvayina:
Maybe your ancestors were demon worshippers, mine were not. We follow the divine laws given to our ancestors by God our Creator. That law has been passed down by words of mouth from generation to generation.
The Romans created Jesus as an insult to God. Christianity is an aberration. It is idolatry/human sacrifice what God forbids and calls an abomination.

And who's the God who gave human different ways of worshipping him knowing quite well that that would cause confusion.... speaking biblically, God has always had one way of guiding those who he chooses.from Abraham to the nation of Israel,and when he rejected the Israelites it's only through Christianity...the African religions you mentioned are all demon worshippers

sonmvayina:
The truth is what I stated.
God gave the nations laws to guide our human journey. He gave the Jews the Torah, we the igbos he gave odinala/Omenala, to guide us..it's an everlasting covenant.
It was the Romans who created Jesus and Christianity. It never started in Israel. No jew will start a movement contrary toGods laws, when he/she knows the consequences..

True Christianity has no fault,it was after the death of Christ's faithful apostles that the great apostasy started happening courtesy of the merging of Christianity and the the secular world (the church being made a state religion in Rome) ,so the Roman Catholic church started this whole distortion of the truth,and that's why it's been hard for men like you to give Christianity a try...the whole thing have been middled up with falsehood...but please don't stop searching for the truth..

sonmvayina:
Exactly my point, Jesus is an idol.
Gods commandments is clear.
"Do not make the image or LIKENESS of anything in heaven or on earth or under the waters below the earth, do not bow down to them or serve them"....
The Romans created a God in the image and likeness of a man, something found on earth for you to worship and you actually believe them.....
Continue

Even somalia wey no sabi gba ball get referee wey go world cup, but the big for nothing npfl not fit bring any one....

Racoon:
Congratulations to all the deserving referees. Sad no referee from Nigeria made the list.

Where the people wey she dey sell the food for? Abi she no know the road to the place again so that both seller and buyer go get their punishment?

Pakute:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/04/07/boko-haram-food-supplier-hamatu-modu-jailed-40-years-in-abuja/

Sheybe dem go gree open the strait of Hormuz make fuel price come down!? Cos na dat one concern us 4 now....

Emeskhalifa:
You don't fight someone who has nothing left to loose.

You sanctioned them for 47yrs, still they thrived above that.

Except America is willing to kill civilians without guns or any form of weapons tonight, the world is watching.

All the politicians in Naija are mad men and any one supporting them are mad too...

Tjra:
Hmmm. Nigerian Politicans ehn

That was how Obi said "Education is not for the poor" few years ago. Really sad

Africa problem na till thy kingdom come,,,all the natural resources we get,but sense to manage them,we no get,,get

treesun:
https://punchng.com/edun-faults-overdependence-on-foreign-loans/

Na Tinubu dey the dance floor,so it's either they clap for or boo him..those other politicians never enter stage, so wetin u wan stone them for? Wait till dem enter stage,if them dance well , clap.if dem no dance well,boo them...so no vex say ur guy no sabi dance.

ChiefOloye:
You're happy, right? No wahala, but I hope you won't cry foul or insult anyone when Tinubu's supporters also destroy the campaign properties of your favourite politicians?

Na wen dem dey carry dem to arrange for ground in groups.

Moniya4Real:
But i always notice this untoward thing about slain people- their trousers always get pulled down halfway to their torso?

During PDP tenure by whom? In this God forsaken tenure of APC who is sponsoring them?

Willy2025:
This is just to discredit the government of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and paint it in bad colours against re-election. The spike in killings and kidnappings in recent times is a testimony to the fact that these people are being sponsored.

You no wise o..why you dey call God for wetin he no ever support or endorse

eepeepook:
Children on Seun’s Nairaland will claim God finally opened his eyes. Damn, such a God is an utter failure. What is there to learn again after three years of marriage?

Nigeria and UK whose land is more blessed with natural resources? Just asking .not for quarrel o

Richtaiwo:
Most importantly, Nigeria annual budget hovers around $45b with a population of around 250 million while UK with population less than 70 million has averagely annual budget of $1 trillion. Nigeria is not as rich as UK.

Omo abeg na small small... sorry for us abeg

Angelfrost:
Nice one...!

So, Nigerians go just sit down dey watch smaller African nations participating at the World Cup! Inside heat and darkness for that matter.

Security - Poor
Roads - Still average
Power Supply - Forget it
Sports - Shambles
Employment - Ridiculous
Cost of Living - Galloping daily
Corruption - Never going anywhere

Omo...!

Wetin come dey give una joy for this so called Giant of Africa?!!

Try qualify your super chickens in the next edition and win the cup.....

JobAndVacancies:
Jersey that won't smell second round.
First three matches this Xeno phobia country would be woefully and shamefully embarrassed

Them tie your father hands?....

Lithiumite:
It's funny how this people who get oppurtuned to leave the shores of this country are always quick to lampoon their country as they revel in the glory and grandeur of their host western country..... their condescending attitude is disgusting mainly because they are apparently ignorantly oblivious of the hideous fact that these countries they are always praising for their development and organisation are in fact the ones responsible fir the underdevelopment and economic mess sub Saharan African countries are going through.......someone messed up your father's house ,you move over to his house which is better and then you start abusing your own house destroyed by your oppressor.

My God!! I think say na only me note am...hate is a cancerous disease for sure,they didn't even care to know the Fubara the article was talking about...

Kukutente23:
Clowns should learn to read before making comments
They saw Fubara and started vomiting expletives
That Op did not take 30s to read if your iq is not low

What's your own identify?

Omoawoke:
You are mentioning the religion of China and Japan that is their own identity hahahah
So it means they are worshipping gods that look like them and the gods of their ancestors

But black man for Africa Dey worship Jew and Arab

At least every man identifies with something...what else do you identify with?

Omoawoke:
You are mentioning the religion of China and Japan that is their own identity hahahah
So it means they are worshipping gods that look like them and the gods of their ancestors

But black man for Africa Dey worship Jew and Arab

When u get cassava farm but u no know how to process cassava because u no gree learn,wetin u expect? The black man especially Nigeria..we no get sense at all... Russia was self sufficient before thinking of supplying the rest of europe.but for Nigeria. No...give to outsiders while ur people starve of energy needs....

fineboynl:
Just imagine. When we need gas to generate electricity. Black man

Gas we should be using at industrial scale. We are planning to sell them cheaply for peanuts.

Be that as it may. Personally I'm not a fan of blood transfusion,and I pray that I never fall Into a situation where I'll need one,my wife has done surgery 3 times and each of those times God has been kind by giving us doctors who are willing to apply current medical practices involving non blood procedures,and it worked perfectly well for us..so there are choices people make.lets leave them to their choices,after all the Bible says "every man will carry his own load' of responsibility for his actions

chimex38:
Even "craze" men can have healthier liver, kidney, that are more suitable than intelligent/smart/phychological balanced folks.

You choice of acceptance isn't my point and concern.

Just wanted to clarify the GENERAL assumptions you might have inferred in your write-up that "ALL mentally ill peeps can't have compatible and healthy blood to donate".
Screening donors doesn't work like that.

#JustToClarify

See you now! Who told you Japanese and Chinese are not religious?.,,have you heard of the Shinto, Buddhism, confucianism and Hinduism before? Where do they come from? People still practice these religions in these places,ok? And I no know say you dey your bedroom know the secret lives of Bill Gates and co..abeg say what you know...One truth stands wether you agree or not.in a very difficult situation in life ,a religious person ( of the true religion though) fares better,,,you know why? They have hope, they're optimistic, they're always positive and not leaving things to blind chance.cos God is real.. whether u gree or not.

oroje1:
Ok.so u go open your eyes collect crase man blood? .To accept or not accept blood is purely personal. So y'all should let people be..who wan take let him or her take,who no wan take for any given reason,let him or her be...there are many choices we make in life,which some persons will frown at and vice versa.

Omoawoke:
First you are using a forum created by Seun who is irreligious..

Or is it the phone you are using to type this that was made in China, Japan and Korea - unreligious nations?

Or talking of the richest man in the world that doesn’t believe in your church / masalasi stuffs ?

Or enjoying the works of Bill gate who gave you Microsoft

Lol… please leave that talk