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They welcome them simply for the money that tourism brings along,not because of being christians

LordBiden:
The jews hate Christians?

But same jews have been welcoming thousands of Christians yearly,taking them round ancient historical sites like where jesus was born.

Abeg talk another thing.

If I were you,the first line of thought would be to call my father in-law and talk him in one on one,if possible plead on the young girls behalf,, don't join in this great conspiracy against your father in-law. Y'all should discuss it and find a way to tell ur father in-law.

Obavoh:
I came back from work yesterday to see my Wife’s younger Sister in my house.

I was surprised because no one told me she was coming. I greeted and welcomed her.

I later called my Wife aside and asked her why she did not inform me that her sister was coming to pay us a visit. That was when she broke the news to me that the girl was 3 months pregnant and had to leave the village because of shame.

My Wife begged me and even called the girl to come and kneel and beg me to allow her stay until she puts to bed.
I was very angry at my wife for that.

I would love to help the girl but the problem is

1) My Father-in-law is not aware that his Daughter is pregnant. Only my Wife and Mother-in-law knows.

2) My Mother-in-law has not called to plead with me to let the Girl stay under my roof. My Wife asked me to call their mother to confirm but I think it should be the other way around.

3) I am currently managing a one room apartment with my Wife and 7 children. The place might not be conducive for a first time pregnant Girl. Feeding her is not a problem.

4) I am afraid I would be the one to pay her Medical bills, antenatal and all. When I asked my Wife she said her mother would pay but I don’t believe this judging from personal experience.

5) What if the girl suffers miscarriage or complications? God forbid. I might be held responsible.

Please advise me on what to do. My creator sees my heart that I would love to help but I am afraid. Should I let her stay or send her away?
How do I do this without losing the respect of my Wife and Mother-in-law. What is the best way to help the Girl?

Why una dey argue about people? Who's great and who's not.? Ask yourselves,in my field of endeavor,how much have I achieved like Ronaldo and Messi in their own field of play? These guys are in their classes,best.no one big or small pass the other, they're only big or small in your brains.so shelve this ur world cup and no world cup matter,[quote author= post=135678580]World cup is more valuable than other major European tournament.

Its more valuable for the fact that it's played once in every four years.. If a player has a 10 year career on the major playing ground it means he's only got to grace that glorious tournament twice in his entire career, whereas he can play UCL ten times out of the 10 years of his career.

So winning the world cup is more valuable and winning things of most value can make u great[/quote]

First thing,cut down on foods that contains a lot of sugar.

pussyjuliet:
I'm sorry to bother you all, but I really have to do this. I need help!!!
I've been battling with Hemorrhoid(pile) for couple of months now. I've used almost everything just to be free from it, yet it's getting more complicated. Recently someone told me to start using sheabutter, I did, but to my greatest surprise, the Hemorrhoid started spreading (like having different ones around the original one). It itches so bad. I'm seriously tired!

Does anyone here knows how to get rid of it completely please

I tell u bro..it hurts to live with morons.we the masses should be the ones marking the scores not the ineffective government.they do nothing yet sing their own praises and some suffer heads are here salivating to the nonsense propaganda,I sorry for who no get sense

Xxxxtentacion2:
these are clearly bots that should be banned from this forum

That's not the Koko..why was he deported? Answer that question first,no go make Obi give you hypertension

gawu1:
Very good
He was very well-liked by the IPOB supporters when he spoke negatively about our highly respected leader, Baba Buhari. He even became their favorite leading up to the 2023 elections, to the point that the "Pandora thief" had to visit him to show appreciation for his support and to gain more backing from the followers of the so-called recalcitrant sheikh.

Please see Ecclesiastes 12:7

CodeTemplarr:
I guess he is put to sleep until judgement day. The body rots away as dust and is consumed by another person as food to remain physically active. The soul i cannot say.

If the state fail them no go repair am.

bro4u:
Very stupid sets of people,, failed state but you are campaigning for your kinsman to be the president of a failed state.

"So what it is that catches the world's attention? That I live with very little, a simple house, that I drive around in an old car? Then this world is crazy because it's surprised by [what is] normal," he reflected before leaving office." What a beautiful soul!

No abeg allow us use that space for our BEDC for South side here,,Biko

toolovely:
Enugu Disco should be number 1 to overhaul

Linus you can LIE!!!

Hushpuppy20:
Naso malaria and typhoid kill one of their member for my area that year because he refuse to take drugs. May God help us

Bless you 🙏 bro.

bewisemasses:
I see a lot of insult to people's faith on nairaland.

Tolerance, we learnt in social studies and civic many many years ago is what keeps d society going.


I understand these people's faith but I respect d decision of the court. Period.

Not everyone will reason like u and be like u. In d Zoo r many different animals and that's what keeps it interesting.

If everyone was u this world will be a boring place of huge chaos. Remember that and respect other people's beliefs and way of life.

No be u wise pass!

The third guy u mentioned with cancer,sad to say,if still he had come earlier he would still have died.the fact is blood transfusion in it self does not guarantee survival,I've seen many non Jws who wouldn't take a transfusion...in this part of the world u guys hardly make any progress as it concerns medical care, overseas bloodless surgery is the way making blood transfusion almost a forgotten thing..if somewhere in Canada an adult can walk in somewhere and request to be put to death voluntarily why can't an adult Jw object to blood transfusion? It's a personal stuff,that's how I see it.

TONYE001:
Beautiful.

While I respect the faiths of others, I am yet to see any sense in some of the things some people do because of faith. The court made the right move. Since the little girl can't give or refuse consent, let her receive the blood. When she's old enough, if such a situation arises again, she can then choose whether or not to accept blood.

I remember one JW patient I had. We were to operate her ovarian cyst which had twisted. She is a full-blown adult in her early twenties. Parents refused to consent for transfusion if need be. I personally counseled them, but they remained adamant. I somehow noticed that the girl was uneasy and scared. I targeted her...when the parents weren't around and I went back to talk to her. She said she didn't care, and would want to be transfused if need be..she just didn't want to OFFEND HER PARENTS. She consented behind their backs....but thankfully, we didn't need to transfuse.

I've also seen situations where some witnesses consent to blood transfusion secretly. One gave consent, but told us not to allow any visitor until we were done.

One guy, young boy. He had a cancer that had spread. He came to clinic paper-white pale. We immediately asked to admit and optimize him. He refused transfusion. After going back and forth, he finally accepted, but it was somehow too late. We lost him.

Religion, so far, has caused more harm than good, I think.

Does your common sense over ride the creator's guidelines?na common sense wey Adam and Eve use na im put us all for the one we dey so o...on Sunday now u go go church,but see now, you're downplaying the bible's importance in our daily decision making.

Gggjhhj:
Always making reference to the bible, what about common sense

How do you mean?

Nlandmodesfku:
They operate like a cult, they and the Jehovah's witnesses.

Abeg no mind the fools!!!

rofanx13:
When we were shouting on top of our voices, including OBJ that these guys were fooling Nigerians, we were insulted by APC urchins on nairaland.
After all the tour of refinery by paid personalities.
Wetin come happen? APC IS INDEED A CANCER
Oya, shame no go gree URCHINS talk again

It's not our fault na..I follow other African leagues especially the south African league..you see,the F.A's there promote and make the league attractive to the locals and even beyond,but you see this mumu NFF, they don't know themselves not to talk of promoting and making the NPFL something to long for.there were days gone by when I have to buy complete sports paper every day just to read about our home stars like Victor Ezeji,Obinna Nwaneri,David Tyvkaese and many of them Nigerian league stars way back,but now those publicity are no longer there,it's such a shame bro

GanagiBitrus:
Quite unfortunate that most of us are die-hard fans of Chelsea, Arsenal, Man Utd, Liverpool & City and can practically name all their squad members, but can't name a single player of the NPFL Champions.

Na Noah for Bible do am o

Sonnobax15:

Oyinbo youths are busy venturing into science and technology but our own down here are busy on TikTok singing and dancing "LAHO" and "Na scra na scra" . TBH,who swear for black Africans as a whole no try at all

Wetin do Dem?

Dogalmighty17:
Vanguard has always been a low class newspaper. That such classless ladies were even allowed into the event hall and the papers editor even snapped with them shows just how much of a rag vanguard newspaper is.

Poor men always seems to be full of advice,seem to know it all.seem in their own eyes to be better than those way higher than them in all ramifications..no worry wen hunger don beat am and his family,them go come ur doormot cum chop.

Ironbull:
Go home hunger to teach you a lesson and we don't care.

If na Naija now, people go say na village people handwork..

UrPapa:
Mmmm. See as family set
Neuro surgeon
Pelvic surgeon
Investment banker
Medical student
Upcoming law student
Upcoming Harvard university student
This life sha

All of the hypocrisy and monetizing of Christianity you see today is not how Jesus 6srt up the congregation to be, though God don't live in man made houses but from ancient Israel till modern day true worshipers his organized people have always been required to meet in buildings designated for his worship..don't let Christendom with it's lies and tricks make u loose sight of the true directives clearly spelt out in the scriptures

Reverseng:
Did I say God and Jesus aren't real?

How can you worship a spiritual being in a physical building

If God needed a physical building to be worshipped, wouldn't Jesus his own son have built one by charging for his miracles of feeding 5000 or healing the centurion servant...in order to raise money for the ministry as scammers do tell you....

Or wouldn't Jesus have worked with the church elders to build a model?

You didn't answer me...if God and Jesus aren't real.then what's the meaning of life? where're we from? And where are we going?

Reverseng:
To experience.

But do you wait to experience robbery before you build a fence round your house? Haven't you seen other people houses without fence gor robbed.
The time you'd have used to grow and channel into other ventures of Life, you'll be using it to recover the loss of robbery.
Something you could have avoided

The best way to be focused is to first know what not to be focused on.

Try go to some of my topics.

If all these your assertions are correct,then what is the essence of life?

Reverseng:
Welcome to Nigeria

Where people hail and praise government for building roads that they're supposed to build after collecting tax from their sweat

It's not just a Nigerian thing..it's a global thing.

You'll see PhD holders kneeling to statues, saying they're worshipping cement god in the name of Catholism. Even with their PhD, they're senseless

You'll see humans buy caskets to bury lifelessness. Throwing burial party for lifelessness. Do you take a deaf child to the music studio?

People hate single mothers forgetting that most of their wives and girlfriends have done abortion at some point. If a girl could kill her own child, you think she won't kill you and take your properties?
You believe love is blind huh

Muslims travel to mecca to stone the Devil. Damn. Christian travel to Jerusalem on pilgrimage. Like God will. Make salvation that hard for people that can't afford flight tickets


You'll see churches disturbing the neighbors because they're worshipping God. Call them out and they'll tag you Devil
Like their god is deaf. Buy it the latest hearing aid or take it to a hospital to treat deafness


Nobody can think for themselves anymore.
Even frank Edwards yourself!

You believe God will send his own son to commit suicide for you. Like humans are that special that's God will become a murderer for your sake!!

Hahahaha

If Jesus came to die for the sins of the world, shouldn't he have committed suicide??!!
Did you read where Jesus hanged himself on a rope or was he murdered by the church elders for his teaching because he took people and money'from the lifeless church


How many gospel artists have sang about the consequences of their actions?
How many gospel artists sing about repercussions of their actions??

It's always " blood of Jesus has made me a new creation" "he died for me blah blah blah"

Like if I used your children for rituals and plead the blood of Jesus upon my ritualistic life, then imma new creation
Damn!!

Please drop your house address and the name of your children school so I can test this blood of Jesus that you've been singing about for decades!

Tell this to Frank himself and Watch how Frank he'll tag me Devil

[quote author=kabillion post=134796696]Bad belle,wise up,do something creative rather than pick on people..just an advice sha

You too. Na nairaland be ur workplace?

AguluLiar:
Go and work

There's no way you can get food by wasting your life on Nairaland daily

Me and you fit chop belle full o..but truly eh,millions out there are really really hungry o...let's stop living in dreamland,,food never come down anywhere around me here for Delta state,but maybe for ur state it has,,,enjoy!!!

JASONjnr:
May God almighty direct you with wisdom and grace... Happy birthday and many more years in good health.


Haters will leave their ravishing region to attact this innocent man...

Oga u be police or police pikin or relative,kiss the truth,in Nigeria we no trust una.policemen na chameleon any time... they're almost not good for anything if not not for maybe 2 or 3% of them.

sreamsense:
No matter what there must be at least one good area you like about them. For me, one of the things I like about them anyway is their capability to crush ipob and ability to track online noise makers like you if they are really motivated and ready to work. I don't support this one stealing, trust NPF will give him automatic relief if really what he was found doing was stealing as shown on CCTV footage here

I'm not a critic of the government.but,when will we start seeing visible results of the so called reforms?

SoftSport:
Tinubu's tough reforms may be hard to swallow, but they're essential for a stronger Nigeria ahead.

Just asking o.the number of votes that brought her in is 50,000+ .her nearest opponent is something close I suppose,add the others and maybe we'll get just over a hundred thousand,,how come now it's time for recall we're having over 200000+? I just dey ask to know o

press9jatv:
there’s no narrative here, that recall is dead on arrival. Natasha stays

So where the infrastructure wey every government take dey sing upadan?

adeoyekay:
Stadium does not justify anything

Olodo repete!!!...post=134587135]Thank god police rescued her.
Some cannibalize for don de jubilate by now.
Dem fit eat anything 4 there [/quote]