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Men, since you are the head of the home I will like to start with letting you know that some of the things you take lightly mean the world toyour wife.
The point is that many men often don’t mean to,but you may be making mistakes that risk ruining your relationship.
Here are some tips to prevent such. I am sure some may want to arguewith me and get defensive, but before you do, please ask yourwife. Now, from my counselling sessions with couples, I have discovered these mistakes are not deliberate. However recognising these mistakes and making efforts to correct them could make a big difference to your relationship.
Everyone loves to be with their loved ones, this is most applicable towomen. They love their men to be around them. The mistake most men make is their belief that a woman does not need a man the moment she starts having babies. The men most often ignore their wives. Theybelieve the company of the children is enough or will compensate for the absence of the man.
This may be true to a certain extent, but men should bear in mind that their wives are not married to the children. A good number of African men end the marriage friendship as soon as the babies startcoming. This is the stagethe woman needs the man the most. Unfortunately, this is thetime most men dump their wives and find pleasure in the companyof friends and s*xual pleasure in other ladies.When this happens, chances are she won’t be there by the time youstart seeking her friendship or s*xual needs. This is because she has become accustomed to living herlife without you, though both of you are living together. The moment you lose her friendship, an integral part ofyour relationship dies.
In the bedroom,many men can’t figure out thattheir wives often need more time to get turned on for s*x. Making yourwife feel loved and needed is basic for her to feel aroused and ready for rounds of s*x.Turning a woman onbegins well before the light goes down. Men generally perceive s*x as a sufficient means of being close, of having a connection; but women want a connection before s*x, if not all thetime.
To many men, s*x is about going down there and coming out before the woman even starts to enjoyit. If you must get your wife to be on the same frequency withyou, make her happy and excited having you around before you demand for s*x.
A good number of men complain that their wiveslose appetite for s*x once they have start having children. Sometimes, negative attitude and a feel of rejection and hostility from the man cause suchbehavoiur.
Always create a good atmosphere for s*x. Look out for your wife’s s*xual needs. Explore her body to find out her erogenous zones and how best she wants youto handle them. It is an adventure worth taking for the woman you love.
Another mistake that canwreck a marriage is when conflicts are not resolved quickly and wisely. Are you the type of man that runs into thearms of another woman at the slightest provocation from your wife? This makes you tocompare the s*xual prowess of your wife to that of the other woman.
When was the last time you looked into the eyeballs of your wife and sincerely appreciated something inand about her? This remains the best pre-intimacy since the world began. Sincere appreciation opens up all the s*xual organs in women, making them ready to be ‘put into action’. Your wife’s earsyearn to hear ‘I love you’; every wife has an insatiable need to hear such words, and the result is eternal bonding.
Appreciation fans flamesof love, oneness,intimacy and s*x. To get the best outof your wife, you need to cherish her. This need is mostly overlooked by men, but that does not reduce its validity. She needs to know she is number onein your life.
If it comes down to choosing between an evening with your buddies or a night with your wife, she needs to know you will choose her; not because you have to but because you need to. Consider how often you say ‘I love you’, she needs evidence that you are thinking about her during the day. A quick phone call to say she is on your mind can mean the world to her

Guys n babes kip it rolling...lets nt dull d thread

Lolz.. Na only 4 9ja movie dm go shoot person n b4 he die e go say "u av shot me,now am going to die"...lwkmd

kpozite: Only in Nigerian film that a ghost look left and right before crossing the road.

lolz

YOU KNOW IT'S A NAIJA MOVIE WHEN....
Add urs:
~ Chief is inside the car with the glasses windup,armed robbers attack and shoots at chief,the bullet won't break the glass but will kill chief inside the car..:
How come ??
~ A man shoots himself on the head 3 times...Habaaa !!!!!!!
How in the world is that possible?
~ RMD remembering when he was still 7 years old as far back as1960 and suddenly a HUMMER passes in front of him....... Chinekeee
~ Patience Ozokwor poisons Zark Orji's food.
She stirs the poison so that it will circulate to all parts of the meal and then she tastes it.
Zack Orji dies while she survives. Nawaa oo
~ Someone flashes backto 1982 and behind him is a sign board "Vote for Goodluck" Hmmmm
~ A 7year old character is washing plates and hesuddenly becomes an adult in his 20's stillwashing the same plates and wearing the same trousers...
~ Omotola is depicted asa poor woman suffering in the village and has todo serious farm work to survive, only for you tosee that her fingernails are fixed with long plastic nails and painted crimson red.
~ Tonto Dike acting a born again village girl, yet has tattoos on her body.
~ Someone dies with lowcut and his spirit comes back wearing afro... Na wetin?
~ A woman suddenly decides to poison her husband, then she opens her food cabinet and brings out the substance.
Is poison part of cookingingredients?
~ They shoot you on the leg yet blood start coming out from your nose.
~ John Okafor(Ibu) is the father of Nkem Owoh.. Biko who is older?
~ You must cough before you die...?Lolzz
Keep it rolling.

YOU KNOW IT'S A NAIJA MOVIE WHEN...
Add urs:
~ Chief is inside the car with the glasses windup,armed robbers attack and shoots at chief,the bullet won't break the glass but will kill chief inside the car..:
How come ??
~ A man shoots himself on the head 3 times...Habaaa !!!!!!!
How in the world is that possible?
~ RMD remembering when he was still 7 years old as far back as1960 and suddenly a HUMMER passes in front of him....... Chinekeee
~ Patience Ozokwor poisons Zark Orji's food.
She stirs the poison so that it will circulate to all parts of the meal and then she tastes it.
Zack Orji dies while she survives. Nawaa oo
~ Someone flashes backto 1982 and behind him is a sign board "Vote for Goodluck" Hmmmm
~ A 7year old character is washing plates and hesuddenly becomes an adult in his 20's stillwashing the same plates and wearing the same trousers...
~ Omotola is depicted asa poor woman suffering in the village and has todo serious farm work to survive, only for you tosee that her fingernails are fixed with long plastic nails and painted crimson red.
~ Tonto Dike acting a born again village girl, yet has tattoos on her body.
~ Someone dies with lowcut and his spirit comes back wearing afro... Na wetin?
~ A woman suddenly decides to poison her husband, then she opens her food cabinet and brings out the substance.
Is poison part of cookingingredients?
~ They shoot you on the leg yet blood start coming out from your nose.
~ John Okafor(Ibu) is the father of Nkem Owoh.. Biko who is older?
~ You must cough before you die...?Lolzz
Keep it rolling.

dammytex: There is no contest here.
We can survive with the absence of all these except money.

so u can survive without sex?guy u b impotent abi u no gt dick?

May dia souls rest in peace...dis z d result of havin a corrupt system.i pity dz con3

promisechild: Is there no josites aspirants in the house come out and let discuss

nobody want die o....jos is a wild wild west o

Dibiachukwu: STFU

TFU

kutchs: People‘s line of thought reveal so much who they are. Am sorry to say it but EFCC should really look for you, you are too dangerous to be free.

na ur papa n mama dt does nt dserve to b free

Waste of energy,time n money....bad n corrupt generals

Many Nigerians felt last Sunday's victory for the Super Eagles in South Africa will automatically make them the number one team in the continent. That was not the case even though the Nigerian team moved up 22 places to 30th position in the world and to 4th in Africa having previously occupied the 10th spot.
Two of the teams ranked above Nigeria in Africa, Cote d' Ivoire (1st) and Mali (2nd), were defeated by the Super Eagles en-route the Nations Cup final.
With questions and queries flying in the air over the February rankings released on Thursday and whether it's indeed a reliable ordering PREMIUM TIMES brings to fore the procedure involved.
What Is FIFA's procedure for ranking teams?
The basic logic of these calculations is simple: any team that does well in world football wins points which enable it to climb the world ranking.
A team's total number of points over a four-year period is determined by adding:
the average number of points gained from matches during the past 12 months; and the average number of pointsgained from matches olderthan 12 months (depreciates yearly).
Calculation of points for a single match.
The number of points thatcan be won in a match depends on the following factors:
• Was the match won or drawn? (M)
• How important was the match (ranging from a friendly match to a FIFA World Cupâ„¢ match)? (I)
• How strong was the opposing team in terms ofranking position and the confederation to which they belong? (T and C)
These factors are brought together in the following formula to ascertain the total numberof points (P).
P = M x I x T x C
The following criteria apply to the calculation of points:
M: Points for match result http://m.allafrica.com/stories/201302160091.html/?maneref=http%3A%2F%2Fmobile.newsnow.co.uk%2FA%2F629816832%3F-395%3A737%3At

Tell us more abt d skul...is it true dt d skul z in d bush?

Oscar Pistorius of South Africa celebrates as he wins gold in the Men's 400m T44 Final on day 10 of the London 2012 Paralympic Games at Olympic Stadium on September 8, 2012in London, England. (Photo by Bryn Lennon/Getty Images)
Bryn Lennon
By Andy Rudd | 14 Feb 2013 07:34
South African Paralympic star Oscar Pistorius has been arrested after a woman was shot dead at his home.
According to local media reports the dead woman was the gold medal winner's girlfriend, who was mistaken for an intruder at the property in the Silverwoods Country Estate in the capital Pretoria.
There was speculation the shooting may have been a Valentine's Day surprise gonewrong.
A police spokeswoman declined to confirm the identityof the man in custody but said:"I can confirm that a woman has been fatally wounded in a shooting at Oscar Pistorius's house.
"A 26-year-old man has been taken into custody."
The Beeld newspaper named his girlfriend as model Reeva Steenkamp, 30, and said Pistorius was expected to appear in court later today.
Police spokesman Katlego Mogale told local media: "At this stage we are still conducting a preliminary inquiry. Statements are conducted with neighbours and people who were at the scene. A case of murder was being investigated."
He told the South African Press Association:"Paramedics declared the woman dead on the scene andpolice proceeded with their investigation. The woman sustained wounds to her headand the upper body."
Mogale said police were called following a shooting at a townhouse complex in the Silverlakes district.
"When police arrived they found the paramedics attending to the woman. The paramedics declared the woman dead on the scene andpolice proceeded with their investigation of the scene," he said.
A 9mm pistol was recovered.
The woman's body has reportedly been removed fromthe scene.
The shooting happened at about 4am today.
Pistorius is known as the Blade Runner because of the ground-breaking prosthetics he uses for racing.
Pistorius, 26, was the first double amputee to run in the Olympics. http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/oscar-pistorius-shooting-blade-runner-1708972

Pls,i wnt to study chem engr @ futminna pls wat do i need to score in jamb...drop ur 2go id

Nice article....admin dz one na frontpage tins o

ovalrose: Very funny o. C wahala!

lolz

9ja husbands r mean & Cool. Recently, A pastor was with a women’s congregation and he made these requests of them:
Pastor (question): Can those with husbands raise up their hands?
Ladies: (They all raised their hands).
Pastor (question): How many of you love your husbands?
Ladies: (They all raised their hands)
Pastor (question): Are you sure ladies before God? Can I prophesy?
Ladies: Yes!!!
Pastor (question): When did you last tell your husbands that “you love him?"
Ladies: (Various answers but some of them said)- “today whenleaving the house”, “last night”, "when we went to bed”, “This morning when I woke up”, etc...etc...
Pastor: Each one of you should send a message of “I love you” to your husband right now.
Ladies: They all sent thetext message “I love you” 2der hubbies
Pastor said: Now exchange your phones pls
Ladies: They all exchanged their phones
Pastor: Read out loud the replies from ur husbands pls.
Below are the replies to the messages from theirvarious husbands:
1. Is this message lost
2. Aaaah who is this Sori wrong number pls.
3. Am I dreaming??
4. What is the matter!!??
5. What exactly do you mean??!!
6. You need money again abi!!?
7. Hey! Did you smash my car!!!
8.The message should be sent back to the intended owner!!!!
9. To hell Jor!!!!!!!!!
10. I will beat you to death today until you tellme for whom the message was intended!!!!!!
Enjoy!!!!

mike404: Virgin hunters

loool

SOFIA (Reuters) - Bulgaria accused Lebanese militant movement Hezbollah on Tuesday of carrying out a bomb attack on a bus in the Black Sea city of Burgas that killed five Israeli tourists last year.
The conclusions of the Bulgarian investigation, citing a clear connection to an attack on European Union soil, might open the way for the EU to join the United States in branding the Iranian-backed Hezbollah a terrorist organization.
Three people were involved in the attack, twoof whom had genuine passports from Australia and Canada, Bulgarian Interior Minister Tsvetan Tsvetanov told reporters after Sofia's national security council discussed the investigation.
"There is data showing thefinancing and connection between Hezbollah and thetwo suspects," Tsvetanovsaid.
"What can be established as a well-grounded assumption is that the two persons whose real identity has been determined belonged to themilitary wing of Hezbollah."
Israel blamed the attack in Burgas, which killed five Israeli tourists, their Bulgarian driver and the bomber, on Iran and Hezbollah, a powerful Shi'ite Islamist militia that ispart of the Lebanese government and waged a brief war with Israel in 2006.
Iran has denied responsibility and accused arch-enemy Israel of plotting and carrying out the bus bombing last July.
Hezbollah, designated by the United States as a terrorist organization in the 1990s, had no immediate reaction to Tuesday's announcement.
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu accused Hezbollah and Iranof waging a "global terror campaign", saying the Burgas bomb was among a series of such attacks carried out in Thailand, Kenya, Turkey, India, Azerbaijan, Cyprus and Georgia.
"The attack in Burgas was an attack on European soilagainst a member of the European Union. We hope the Europeans will draw the necessary conclusions about the true character ofHezbollah," Netanyahu said in a statement.
EU ASSESSING RESULTS
The Netherlands considersHezbollah a terrorist groupand said in August that theEU should also do so, which would mean Brusselscould act to freeze Hezbollah assets in Europe.
Britain reserves the designation for Hezbollah'sarmed wing but other EU member states, which haveblacklisted the Palestinian Islamist group Hamas, have resisted U.S. and Israeli pressure to do the same to Hezbollah.
The United States urged Europe and others on Tuesday to work on uncovering the Hezbollah'sinfrastructure and disrupt its financing schemes and networks to prevent future attacks. Hezbollah poses a growing threat to Europe and the rest of theworld, a senior U.S. official said.
A spokesman for EU foreign policy chief Catherine Ashton said there was a need to reflecton the outcome of the investigation and the bloc and its member states would discuss an appropriate response based on the investigation.
Bulgaria, a member of NATO as well as the EU, had previously said that the bombing was plotted elsewhere and carried out by foreigners. Even so, that attack stoked tension in a country where Muslimsmake up some 15 percent of the 7.3 million population.
All three people involved in the attack had fake U.S. driving licenses that were printed in Lebanon, Tsvetanov said. The two suspects with Canadian and Australian passports had been living in Lebanon, one since 2006 and the other since 2010.
No one has been arrested in connection with the attack and Tsvetanov saidhe hoped Australia, Canada and Lebanon wouldcooperate with the continuing investigation.
A senior Israeli official saidthere had been some doubt in Israel over whether Bulgaria's report might be changed at the last minute because of political pressure, and washopeful the EU would now blacklist Hezbollah.
"The key is getting Franceon board. That's where thecenter of gravity is on thismatter," said the official, who spoke on condition of anonymity.
French Foreign Minister Laurent Fabius said in September that an EU blacklisting of Hezbollah was justified only if there was a legal case to pin thison. His remark also appeared to reflect concern that such a move could destabilize Lebanon http://mobile.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSBRE9140TZ20130205

Ike Abonyi, Chuks Okocha and Senator Iroegbu
Anxiety over the possibility of being moved to less “significant” ministries gripped ministers Tuesday ahead of today's Federal Executive Council (FEC) meeting where a shake-up in the cabinet could be announced.
Signs that President Goodluck Jonathan would reconstitute his cabinet were strengthened yesterday with the announcement of portfolios for the twoministers – Professor Chinedu Nebo and Alhaji Kabiru Tanimu Turaki(SAN) – who were sworn in on Monday.
While Nebo, from Enugu State, has been assigned the power ministry portfolio to replace his kinsman, Prof. Bart Nnaji, who resigned from the cabinet last August, Turaki will not be going to the Ministry of Defence. He has been named the Minister of Special Duties in the presidency.
Turaki’s kinsman from Kebbi State, Dr. Bello Haliru Mohammed, was sacked from the defence ministry last June.
It was gathered that with the allocation of a different portfolio to Turaki, the Minister of Police Affairs, Navy CaptainCaleb Olubolade (rtd),is now under consideration to takeover as the Minister of Defence, while the Minister of State, Mrs. Olusola Obada, who has been holdingthe fort since Mohammed’s sack, may be reassigned ina cabinet change.
Confirming the possibility of a cabinet shake-up, a source in the presidency said if theannouncement reshuffling portfolios is not made today at FEC meeting, it would most likely be made when the president returns from his trip to the United Kingdomand France.
The allocation of portfolios to Nebo and Turaki, as contained in a statement yesterday by the Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF),Senator Anyim Pius Anyim, did not douse tension among members of the cabinet, as the non-assignment of a ministry to the defence ministry lent credence to the possibility of a cabinet change.
According to Anyim, the two ministers areto assume duties immediately.
THISDAY learnt that many ministers spentthe better part of yesterday making calls trying to ascertain their fate.
Several of the ministers, a source confirmed, reached out to their governors, close friends and aides of the president, and Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) chieftainsto safeguard their positions in the cabinet.
Although the president has kept his decision on the cabinet a closely guarded secret, those close to him say he is resolute about making changes that will bring a breath of fresh air and deliver on his programmes. http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/anxiety-grips-ministers-ahead-of-cabinet-reshuffle/138607/

Dear Boyfriends & Fiances This year's Valentine, we don't wantflowers, teddy bears, expensive dinners @ seasons or Galitoz, golden and silver pendants, Ice- cream, Emporio Armani perfumes or Chocolate.
We no longer want ipads, iphones, Galaxy Tabs or Blackberry Porsches!
We also refuse Brazillian hair, Peruvian hair and/ or shopping sprees at mr price or the most expensive Boutique in town!
All we are saying... "Justcome and say 'Hi' to our parents and families Because we wanna get married this year.
So Please kindly save the money for the wedding ceremony!!!!
Signed:-
Girlfriends Association ofNigeria

MIRACLE IS WHEN
1. You travel Abroad witout Visa
2. Slap an army at the front of barrack and go scot free.
3. Go to Boko Haram head quarter to preach and they offer you a seat.
4. Fail jamb but get admission.
5. Fold ur arms sleep all thru d years and at d end of d year u buy a car.
6. Park Aeroplane for sky and ordered everybody out dat u want to chek engine then tell everybody to com in and continue ur journey.
7. Usain Bolt chase you wit cutlass and u still escape.
8. Sleep inside river andwake up the next day.
9. Super Eagles win Ivory Coast on Sunday.
Add yours.....

uchlukez: This

wich part of kd u dey.....cs i saw when dt car was bin branded

Livas2: Afta 500yrs.....mehn onyinbo pple dn go far o#9ice one jor#admin dz na first page tins o

dt foreign archealogist 4 u...nt dz ones we av in 9ja

Vivaciousnj: It ROCKS to hang out wit such dudes!!

badt gal

striktlymi: ^^^
Good afternoon Hyperbase,
What you are suggesting is rather disturbing! I feel sick to my stomach when there are unrefuted evidence that a man was punished for a crime he did not commit.

There have been cases like that and for those who were lucky to get the truth out before they were executed, we say "Thank you Lord" but sadly there have been a number of innocents who never got the chance to prove their case before leaving this world. Christ was one of such victims!

If you believe that Rev. King is falsely accused, why have you not come out to say something? I don't mean online but during the trial? He was tried twice and you did not come out to say anything?

I will advice that if you are the evidence he needs to get out of this mess then please go and testify to the relevant authorities. You can start by speaking to his lawyers. Since you said some of those who testified against him went to him for forgiveness, then this same people can be the key to his freedom.

If he is innocent, don't keep quiet about it else you would be as guilty as the "Ogboni" people you accuse of this crime. If you need a lawyer to advise you on the next step, I can recommend a friend who will provide you with free counsel.


Thank you!

lool...u beta dnt go dia,cos u wud jst b wastin ur time.

HyperBase: hi striktlymi,

Rev King NEVER did kill anyone. I can authoritatively tell you this. In fact, he never did commit one out of all he is accused of. if I were not the kind of principled person I am, maybe I would have been one of the nine people who were said to be those that he attempted to burn with Ann.

This man got framed up by a couple of Ogboni top-shots who are in government because he was reducing their membership. The church members who testified against him were bribed, in fact, a couple of them repented and came to the prison and begged him for forgiveness.

The bribed witnesses actually were the ones that killed Ann in Rev King's quarters in a conspiracy masterminded by the Nigerian Police. we know what happened but I bet you, no matter how long it takes, Nigerian will know that the Almighty God, The father of our Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth is powerful, and that even if the entire world gather against him, they can NEVER defeat him. The entire world will know who Rev King actually is after this whole episode. To be simple and short, NOBODY, NO MATTER WHO CAN KILL REV KING. Take it or leave it.

anoda brain washed fella...dnt b deceivd dt man is worst than the devil

A skeleton witha cleaved skull and a curved spine entombed under a car park is that ofRichard III, scientific tests confirmed, solving a 500-year-old mystery about the final resting place of the last English king to die in battle.
Richard, depicted by William Shakespeare as a monstrous tyrant who murdered two princes in the Tower of London, was killed fighting his eventual successor Henry Tudor at the Battle of Bosworth Field in central England in 1485.
In one of the most significant archaeological discoveries of recent times, a team from the University of Leicester said evidence showed thata skeleton found last year during excavations of a mediaeval friary under a parking lot in the city was indeed that of Richard.
After a detailed academic presentation focusing on the life, wounds and physique of Richard III, the lead archaeologist on the project, Richard Buckley, announced his conclusion to cheers and applause.
"It's the academic conclusion of the University of Leicester thatbeyond reasonable doubt the individual exhumed at Grey Friars in September 2012 is indeed Richard III, the last Plantagenet king of England," Buckley said.
Academics said DNA taken from the body matched thatof Michael Ibsen, a Canadian-born furniture maker in London who genealogists said was the direct descendant of Richard's sister, Anne of York.
The skeleton showed signs of injuries consistentwith wounds received in battle; a bladed implement appeared to have cleaved part of the rear of the skull while a barbed metal arrowhead was found between vertebrae of the skeleton's upper back.
While the findings may solve one riddle about Richard, the last Plantagenet king of England remains a complexfigure whose life, made famous by Shakespeare's history play, deeply divides opinion among historians in Britain and abroad. http://mobile.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSBRE9130BW20130204