₦airaland Forum

I am confused, really confused. My wife lost her bosom friend to breast cancer after over 6 years battle with the ailment ( We are all members of our church choir). She is survived by two children, a girl (7) and boy (5). She is a British citizen by birth and had lived here in England for over 14 years before she went to meet with the Lord in May 2007. She met her husband during one of her numerous visits to Nigeria and eventually got married and they were blessed with two kids.
Three months after her funeral in May 2007, her husband travelled to Nigeria to re-marry ( we found out that he actually married his old love, the lady he jilted in Nigeria to get married to our friend).
He is a British citizen now based on his late wife's citizenship and he is already making plans to bring the new wife over to the UK.
He claims that he loves her and he even wrote a poem to this which he published on Nigeriaworld.com
Can this really be love? Is three months not too short to mourn a loved one? or am I paranoid?
Maybe your opinions can help.