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PoliticsRe: Tinubu Confers CON On Ex-INEC Chairman Mahmood Yakubu by otherway: 9:46pm On Oct 07, 2025
Godjone:
He should go and enjoy his loot but the crime of 2023 will hunt him till death
Will hunt his generation.

He has lost his human value.. He is a nobody and indeed his generation unborn will be known for bad omen.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Confers CON On Ex-INEC Chairman Mahmood Yakubu by otherway: 9:44pm On Oct 07, 2025
Reward for a job well done.

Mahmood yakubu will go down in history as the worst INEC chairman in Nigeria history.
Foreign AffairsRe: UK Govt Blasted For Spending £532,000 On Logo Design by otherway: 12:29pm On Oct 06, 2025
Buddy0:
Hmmmm something is missing in this info. Nobody fit pull something like this off
God bless you for your wisdom.

Anyone who believes this lie is gullible. UK has zero tolerance to curruption.
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Blasts Republican, Senator Ted Cruz by otherway: 5:46pm On Oct 05, 2025
Hahaha haha. When I saw BLAST I rushed to check what he wrote and realise he was at his best behaviour grin

If nah Peter Obi he for don write epistle.. Very funny individual with zero integrity.
PoliticsRe: Uche Nnaji: UNN Disowns Tinubu's Minister's Degree Certificate - Premium Times by otherway: 5:43pm On Oct 05, 2025
seunmsg:
Do you know what a certificate is? Is that nonsense you attached a certificate? Go and get yourself properly educated behind coming here to discuss what you don’t know. Making a false claim in a form is not the same thing as forging a certificate.
Dey argue with yourself.
PoliticsRe: Uche Nnaji: UNN Disowns Tinubu's Minister's Degree Certificate - Premium Times by otherway: 5:39pm On Oct 05, 2025
seunmsg:
Mr. President never forged any certificate. Agreed he made a false claim in his application form to the university but that’s not forgery. The Cambridge result he used to get the admission is authentic and easily verifiable.
Oh OK I guess it is ok for the number one citizen to make a false claim on a form.

Are you aware that it is a criminal offence called Fraud by False Representation which carries minimum of 10 years in prison.

May GOD have mercy on you.
PoliticsRe: Uche Nnaji: UNN Disowns Tinubu's Minister's Degree Certificate - Premium Times by otherway: 12:48pm On Oct 05, 2025
favor914:
Na always the ones wey no go school like yourself will be quick to comment.
At least I no lie sey I go and I no forge cert.
PoliticsRe: Uche Nnaji: UNN Disowns Tinubu's Minister's Degree Certificate - Premium Times by otherway: 12:46pm On Oct 05, 2025
seunmsg:
Mr. President never forged any certificate. Agreed he made a false claim in his application form to the university but that’s not forgery. The Cambridge result he used to get the admission is authentic and easily verifiable.
Are you OK?

Did you not see that one of the certs was forged.. The one he claimed was from Government college Lagos two years before the school was established.

Go and get your facts straight.

PoliticsRe: Uche Nnaji: UNN Disowns Tinubu's Minister's Degree Certificate - Premium Times by otherway:
This is what you see when the number one citizen also forged a secondary school certificate two years before the school ever existed.


Like president like minister.

PoliticsRe: Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour Reacts To Sego's Threat For 2027 Election by otherway: 1:26pm On Oct 03, 2025
Sego is an illiterate so I am not surprised
PoliticsRe: Lagos NURTW Chairman Sego Threatens Lagos Residents Ahead Of 2027 Elections by otherway: 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2025
What do you expect from an illiterate
CelebritiesRe: Stephanie Okereke Linus Celebrates 43rd Birthday Today by otherway: 8:52am On Oct 02, 2025
I was crushing on this babe in those days. Still looks radiant.
CrimeRe: Emotional Post By The Late Arise TV Journalist, Sommie by otherway: 10:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
AdolfHitlerxXx:
Isn't it same Nigeria that has happened to Otedola, Dangote and Dantata ?

Our mindset is critical to our outcomes.

Why not say may Alaygbo never happen to her ? Isn't why she ran to Abuja ?

Americans are trained to say " God bless America" old or young. The American Dream.

I am currently in Germany and I have to tell you - Oyinbo are where they are through collective efforts - Leaders & Followers.

Africa is where it is because of its people 🌍

RIP to her.
And you think you are making sense.. Smh!
TravelRe: World’s Tallest Bridge Opens In China (picture & video) by otherway: 10:07pm On Sep 30, 2025
China don waka far

Infact I'm begining to think there are some extra terrestrial beings involved in their developmental strides.
SportsRe: Tyson Fury’s Daughter Venezuela, 16, Gets Engaged At Her Birthday Party by otherway: 2:27am On Sep 29, 2025
AndroBlaze:
Would you allow you own 16 year old daughter to get engaged??

Anyway, they are gypsies, their culture is akin to the nomadic Fulanis of West Africa (obviously without the cows, riffles and so on).

Some of them get married even younger sef.
Some countries allow it.
PoliticsRe: I Love Jonathan But Will Support Tinubu In 2027 - Reno (video) by otherway: 12:35pm On Sep 28, 2025
Who cares. I don't know why this guy thinks he is so important with his pseudo intelligence.

A total abomination to GOD.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 10:09pm On Sep 26, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are alright? Are you not responsible for writing and posting the OP along with the image message attached, or something? huh
I have observed your comments on nairaland and I can tell you that you just love to make a pointless post just for the sake of posting.

This thread is straight forward and very very unambiguous.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 7:55pm On Sep 26, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You didn't answer my question to you, which is, where do you get this idea that bride price should only be paid for virgins when historically— across so many cultures worldover— that has never been the case.🙄

Another issue with your OP is that it assumes that the insistence by traditionalists that men be full-time providers has something to do with or is connected to the virginity of a woman. I would very much like to understand also where you obtain this preposterous idea of yours from, given that the traditional model of marriage — and this is across so many cultures world over — insists that for the man to become the head of household in marriage, he ought to take on, fully, the responsibility of provider. Essentially, when a man marries a woman traditionally, he not only acquires the title of head-of-household but also assumes the role of provider for the woman in the marriage; this is irrespective of the virginity status of both individuals in the marriage. undecided

Your entire premise seems geared towards perpetuating this victimhood mentality for men, without providing evidence for any of the insinuations made. I wonder if it is the case that you also believe somewhere in there that men are forced into marriage or something. undecided
You read to respond. Try reading to comprehend.

Go and read what I wrote again and this time, slowly so you can comprehend my point.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 7:54pm On Sep 26, 2025
Fiscus105:
Must you married? Why can't you leave woman for men that ready to go that route, have you even get your life together? Can you feed your mouth alone! I think that is supposed to be your priority and not woman.


THE TIME YOU GUYS SHOULD USE TO GATHER YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, IN OTHER TO TACKLE FUTURE CHALLENGE, YOU WILL BE USING IT TO WAIL ABOUT WOMAN 24HRS.

YOU WILL UNDERSTAND AT YOUR TWILIGHT.
I will feed you for a whole year without even flinching.

Small thing una go dey yarn nonsense. Focus on the topic without being abusive.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 7:38pm On Sep 26, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

That chapter which is directed at those of Israeli descent instead insists that a non-virgin not be offered as a virgin, it says nothing of bride prices being offered for virgins alone. undecided

Even the term virgin used in the passage can be construed as single/never married woman as opposed to previously married or divorced woman or widow. undecided
Check my post above
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op):
ravensckar:
It's like you folks are just obsessed with women matter!

Every time, women this, women that. Shey una no get work ni? huh huh

If we check very well, the OP will probably be a TEEN who thinks everything about marriage revolves around knacking. Which one be "enjoyed for free?". "Fairly used" and all the nonsense descriptions that depicts women as commodities. angry angry

Marriage goes beyond knack. Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady will make a good wife. e.g ISRAEL DMW's wife. And being a non virgin doesn't mean she'll become a terrible wife e.g una mama, sisters and wives. cheesy cheesy

As far as I'm concerned, women are not commodities that you'll equate with all these nonsense descriptions. Make una dey respect women nau, abi una no get mama for house ni? huh huh
Nah me cause your misfortune?
Kobojunkie:
Historically and this applies to pretty much most cultures across the world, bride prices were paid regardless of virginity status -- for both virgins and non virgins alike. So I guess you need to explain to use where you get off believing that bride prices were only required if virginity was for sale? undecided
No sir, the origin of bride price stems from the scriptures and it is only paid on virgins but in today's world, bride price is simply for marital commitment regardless of whether a lady is a virgin.

But then, will you say you are not aware that sexual chastity which includes being a virgin till marriage was the norm especially in Africa and even according to the scriptures.. So what exactly is your point?
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

That chapter which is directed at those of Israeli descent instead insists that a non-virgin not be offered as a virgin, it says nothing of bride prices being offered for virgins alone. undecided

Even the term virgin used in the passage can be construed as single/never married woman as opposed to previously married or divorced woman or widow. undecided
Exodus 22:16–17 (NIV) ​"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man must still pay the bride-price for virgins."

​Key Point: The passage explicitly uses the term "bride-price" (or a similar translation like "dowry" or "marriage-price"wink and ties it to the status of a virgin woman. It mandates the payment even if the father refuses the marriage, indicating a fixed value associated with her virginity


So bro when I put up this thread I wasn't trying to shade the female gender in anyway but just stating the fact.

RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 4:53pm On Sep 25, 2025
tanigororo:
What you fail to understand is that Men Virginity is different from womens virginity.
Why do you think women reduce their body count and men increases their body count


It's easier for a woman to get laid than for a man to get laid, meaning if a woman has more than 1 body count she is a free distributor. But if a man get more than 1 body count we should hail him.

A key that can open any lock is a good key, a lock that can be open by any key is a bad lock
Please lecture that simp.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 4:52pm On Sep 25, 2025
gunners160:
CRY MORE..... ONLY BOYS THINK THIS WAY, MEN THINK ON HOW THEY WILL BUILD THERE HOME...... VIRGINITY OR NO VIRGINITY, EVERYTHING WILL END ONE DAY. BUT PEACE OF MIND NA FOR ETERNITY. BESIDES, PERSON FIT BE VIRGIN AND THE WHOLE THING GO JUST DEY STIFF AND DRY LIKE DESSERT WHILE NON VIRGIN GO DEY WET AND NICE ALWAYS..
Crinkum Crankum.. You have made you point by saying you don't mind paying bride price on a lady that has gone through many men and that in itself validates this thread.

Any other thing you are ranting about is totally inconsequential
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op): 2:52pm On Sep 25, 2025
Instance:
It's not sad to me. As long as you are not a virgin as a man, u should not be worried about
Non virgins. I for one can't date or marry a virgin.
This is the way we have learnt to console ourselves as guys but deep down we know what's up. Where do you even want to see virgin marry?

Pray you find a fairly used lady cos many of them have been terribly used.

We just dey spend money on a lady wey another man don scatter.

So sad
RomanceThe Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by otherway(op):
This thread is not to throw shades on the female gender but aimed at echoing the sad reality many guys must face if they ever want to marry.

The tradition of bride price especially in many African societies presents a significant and often painful dilemma for grooms in the modern era.

Men are expected to fulfill substantial financial and material demands to the bride's family to validate the marriage and legitimize their future children. This tradition places a massive economic burden on the groom.

However, the core of the dilemma lies in the stark contrast between the groom's sacrifice and the bride's premarital experiences.

The very women whose families command such high payment may have previously engaged in relationships where other men "graced their beds" easily and willfully, receiving the same intimacy without any enduring sacrifice or payment.

This creates a deep sense of injustice for the groom, who must pay exorbitant rates to legally "keep" his wife, yet perceives himself as paying for a pleasure others enjoyed freely.

This disparity fuels the feeling that men are forced to uphold a costly tradition even though the traditional cultural value of exclusivity (virginity) is frequently absent.

TravelRe: Train Services: Lagos No Be Una Mate (Pictorial Evidence) by otherway: 11:09am On Sep 25, 2025
[quote author=beejay85 post=136913020][/quote]Why not?

You see my point?
TravelRe: Train Services: Lagos No Be Una Mate (Pictorial Evidence) by otherway: 9:40am On Sep 25, 2025
Kemetian:
I am actually OUTSIDE NIGERIA right now, and the Lagos Metro is far cleaner and more pleasant than what I'm suffering here.

And NO. Air-conditioned City Metro Railway networks are NOT ''common in ''third world'' countries, so stop lying out of your hate for Nigeria.
I'm not a pessimist but I will advise you calm down and post this in 10 years from now.

The maintainance culture is still challenging in Nigeria so desist from comparing 30years old rail system in Western countries with a new thing in Nigeria.
CelebritiesRe: 54 Years Throwback Photo Of King Sunny Ade And Chief Commander, Ebenezer Obey by otherway: 1:53am On Sep 24, 2025
I'm so addicted to ebenezer obey songs.

To think that as a Child, I found same songs so boring whenever my dad played them but now I can't get enough of it.

Iba lo ye ka se, fun eledumare, eledumare oba o, ajubo lo do re.. Eledumare baba mimo...

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