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I was crushing on this babe in those days. Still looks radiant.

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Isn't it same Nigeria that has happened to Otedola, Dangote and Dantata ?

Our mindset is critical to our outcomes.

Why not say may Alaygbo never happen to her ? Isn't why she ran to Abuja ?

Americans are trained to say " God bless America" old or young. The American Dream.

I am currently in Germany and I have to tell you - Oyinbo are where they are through collective efforts - Leaders & Followers.

Africa is where it is because of its people 🌍

RIP to her.

And you think you are making sense.. Smh!

China don waka far

Infact I'm begining to think there are some extra terrestrial beings involved in their developmental strides.

AndroBlaze:
Would you allow you own 16 year old daughter to get engaged??

Anyway, they are gypsies, their culture is akin to the nomadic Fulanis of West Africa (obviously without the cows, riffles and so on).

Some of them get married even younger sef.

Some countries allow it.

Who cares. I don't know why this guy thinks he is so important with his pseudo intelligence.

A total abomination to GOD.

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are alright? Are you not responsible for writing and posting the OP along with the image message attached, or something?

I have observed your comments on nairaland and I can tell you that you just love to make a pointless post just for the sake of posting.

This thread is straight forward and very very unambiguous.

Kobojunkie:
You didn't answer my question to you, which is, where do you get this idea that bride price should only be paid for virgins when historically— across so many cultures worldover— that has never been the case.🙄

Another issue with your OP is that it assumes that the insistence by traditionalists that men be full-time providers has something to do with or is connected to the virginity of a woman. I would very much like to understand also where you obtain this preposterous idea of yours from, given that the traditional model of marriage — and this is across so many cultures world over — insists that for the man to become the head of household in marriage, he ought to take on, fully, the responsibility of provider. Essentially, when a man marries a woman traditionally, he not only acquires the title of head-of-household but also assumes the role of provider for the woman in the marriage; this is irrespective of the virginity status of both individuals in the marriage.

Your entire premise seems geared towards perpetuating this victimhood mentality for men, without providing evidence for any of the insinuations made. I wonder if it is the case that you also believe somewhere in there that men are forced into marriage or something.

You read to respond. Try reading to comprehend.

Go and read what I wrote again and this time, slowly so you can comprehend my point.

Fiscus105:
Must you married? Why can't you leave woman for men that ready to go that route, have you even get your life together? Can you feed your mouth alone! I think that is supposed to be your priority and not woman.


THE TIME YOU GUYS SHOULD USE TO GATHER YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, IN OTHER TO TACKLE FUTURE CHALLENGE, YOU WILL BE USING IT TO WAIL ABOUT WOMAN 24HRS.

YOU WILL UNDERSTAND AT YOUR TWILIGHT.

I will feed you for a whole year without even flinching.

Small thing una go dey yarn nonsense. Focus on the topic without being abusive.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

That chapter which is directed at those of Israeli descent instead insists that a non-virgin not be offered as a virgin, it says nothing of bride prices being offered for virgins alone.

Even the term virgin used in the passage can be construed as single/never married woman as opposed to previously married or divorced woman or widow.

Check my post above

ravensckar:
It's like you folks are just obsessed with women matter!

Every time, women this, women that. Shey una no get work ni?

If we check very well, the OP will probably be a TEEN who thinks everything about marriage revolves around knacking. Which one be "enjoyed for free?". "Fairly used" and all the nonsense descriptions that depicts women as commodities.

Marriage goes beyond knack. Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady will make a good wife. e.g ISRAEL DMW's wife. And being a non virgin doesn't mean she'll become a terrible wife e.g una mama, sisters and wives.

As far as I'm concerned, women are not commodities that you'll equate with all these nonsense descriptions. Make una dey respect women nau, abi una no get mama for house ni?

Nah me cause your misfortune?

Kobojunkie:
Historically and this applies to pretty much most cultures across the world, bride prices were paid regardless of virginity status -- for both virgins and non virgins alike. So I guess you need to explain to use where you get off believing that bride prices were only required if virginity was for sale?

No sir, the origin of bride price stems from the scriptures and it is only paid on virgins but in today's world, bride price is simply for marital commitment regardless of whether a lady is a virgin.

But then, will you say you are not aware that sexual chastity which includes being a virgin till marriage was the norm especially in Africa and even according to the scriptures.. So what exactly is your point?

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄

That chapter which is directed at those of Israeli descent instead insists that a non-virgin not be offered as a virgin, it says nothing of bride prices being offered for virgins alone.

Even the term virgin used in the passage can be construed as single/never married woman as opposed to previously married or divorced woman or widow.

Exodus 22:16–17 (NIV) ​"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man must still pay the bride-price for virgins."

​Key Point: The passage explicitly uses the term "bride-price" (or a similar translation like "dowry" or "marriage-price" and ties it to the status of a virgin woman. It mandates the payment even if the father refuses the marriage, indicating a fixed value associated with her virginity


So bro when I put up this thread I wasn't trying to shade the female gender in anyway but just stating the fact.

tanigororo:
What you fail to understand is that Men Virginity is different from womens virginity.
Why do you think women reduce their body count and men increases their body count

It's easier for a woman to get laid than for a man to get laid, meaning if a woman has more than 1 body count she is a free distributor. But if a man get more than 1 body count we should hail him.

A key that can open any lock is a good key, a lock that can be open by any key is a bad lock

Please lecture that simp.

gunners160:
CRY MORE..... ONLY BOYS THINK THIS WAY, MEN THINK ON HOW THEY WILL BUILD THERE HOME...... VIRGINITY OR NO VIRGINITY, EVERYTHING WILL END ONE DAY. BUT PEACE OF MIND NA FOR ETERNITY. BESIDES, PERSON FIT BE VIRGIN AND THE WHOLE THING GO JUST DEY STIFF AND DRY LIKE DESSERT WHILE NON VIRGIN GO DEY WET AND NICE ALWAYS..

Crinkum Crankum.. You have made you point by saying you don't mind paying bride price on a lady that has gone through many men and that in itself validates this thread.

Any other thing you are ranting about is totally inconsequential

Instance:
It's not sad to me. As long as you are not a virgin as a man, u should not be worried about
Non virgins. I for one can't date or marry a virgin.

This is the way we have learnt to console ourselves as guys but deep down we know what's up. Where do you even want to see virgin marry?

Pray you find a fairly used lady cos many of them have been terribly used.

We just dey spend money on a lady wey another man don scatter.

So sad

This thread is not to throw shades on the female gender but aimed at echoing the sad reality many guys must face if they ever want to marry.

The tradition of bride price especially in many African societies presents a significant and often painful dilemma for grooms in the modern era.

Men are expected to fulfill substantial financial and material demands to the bride's family to validate the marriage and legitimize their future children. This tradition places a massive economic burden on the groom.

However, the core of the dilemma lies in the stark contrast between the groom's sacrifice and the bride's premarital experiences.

The very women whose families command such high payment may have previously engaged in relationships where other men "graced their beds" easily and willfully, receiving the same intimacy without any enduring sacrifice or payment.

This creates a deep sense of injustice for the groom, who must pay exorbitant rates to legally "keep" his wife, yet perceives himself as paying for a pleasure others enjoyed freely.

This disparity fuels the feeling that men are forced to uphold a costly tradition even though the traditional cultural value of exclusivity (virginity) is frequently absent.

[quote author=beejay85 post=136913020][/quote]Why not?

You see my point?

Kemetian:
I am actually OUTSIDE NIGERIA right now, and the Lagos Metro is far cleaner and more pleasant than what I'm suffering here.

And NO. Air-conditioned City Metro Railway networks are NOT ''common in ''third world'' countries, so stop lying out of your hate for Nigeria.

I'm not a pessimist but I will advise you calm down and post this in 10 years from now.

The maintainance culture is still challenging in Nigeria so desist from comparing 30years old rail system in Western countries with a new thing in Nigeria.

I'm so addicted to ebenezer obey songs.

To think that as a Child, I found same songs so boring whenever my dad played them but now I can't get enough of it.

Iba lo ye ka se, fun eledumare, eledumare oba o, ajubo lo do re.. Eledumare baba mimo...

Righteousness2:
It is an ABOMINATION to even think to Divide GOD'S land. It is an act of Begging for GOD'S WRATH.

Not even the Children of ISRAEL can do it.


I Perceive something heavy like a Monumental Earth quake , Tsunami or Disater will Hit these unwise nations and the Earth this Month.

For the mere fact that these leaders who have lost their minds gathered together to even try such, I Perceive something Crazy will Hit the Earth and Nations.

I thought you have a knowledge of the end time since you are always quick to write stuffs here about scriptures but now I know you are just a noise maker.

This must happen before Jesus returns.

justwise:
This is not true, watch her video because i don't think you did

The story is so freaking confusing.

1. What prompted the home office to detect she was working over 20 hours? Cos ordinarily, except she was caught in the act or she tried to apply for something.

2. If she has been in UK for 3 years it is believed she must have finished her studies and in a form of post graduate visa.

In short the story no just dey straight forward and her tears dey even cover her words which makes the video hard to comprehend.

Which ever way, she did not have a good adviser.

ufotunang:
..she can appeal the case

No right of appeal for post graduate visa refusal but she can do admin review which she will most probably lose.

Her best bet is to find another viable reason do apply to stay in UK.

BreconHills:
She should appeal to the local MP and make sure local papers and networks pick it up. Likely she will be allowed to finish her degree on compassionate grounds.

I would be 90% certain of this were it not for the anti immigrant campaign by Farage's Reform Party and that Robinson chap!

We dont know all the facts though because there is also a quota of classes that must be attended.

I think she has finished.

Its her post graduate visa that as refused... I believe this is the case. In most cases this is discovered when they want to apply for the post study visa

Only an Atiku/Obi ticket can remove Tinubu even before the election date and no type of rigging can save Tinubu.

But tell Obi that if he dares run without Atiku, he should as well not bother contesting cos he will be easily rigged out again and nothing will happen except the fact that he will never ever near Aso Rock again in this life perhaps in the next life to come.

Only a delusional person will argue this.

maxiuc:
Looting through construction contracts,you will think he has people's interest in heart lie lie he's after his own interest

Wike loots through construction works

You are smart but then I kinda think that is a good way to loot and far better than those who do nothing and still loot.

Not supporting any form of looting but if past governors and presidents actually looted through projects then Nigeria would have been a million times better.

Wike is an error of a human being just oportuned to be at the corridors of power.

When Sowore speaks, woke should take cover.

In another 10 or 20 years, people will hardly buy the current design.

Life is so funny

Gerrard59:
Anyone who makes £3K in the UK can double it (pounds equivalent) in the US. That's what the US offers - limitless opportunities.

With all the doctors and Plab 1&2, no doctor let alone a Blackie has become so wealthy in the UK. A Haitian even got there before anyone from the UK 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is why you fail woefully..

Focus on the crux of the matter and stop changing the narrative... 3k in UK pounds vs 4k in america dollars.

That is the focal point.

Gerrard59:
This is the same country Otherway compared to the UK because of £3K per month?

Chai! America don suffer no be small

This America dey shark you no be small.

Glorified Nigeria is what America is.

My comparison was never about America or UK but making 3k in UK and 4k in america

Common sense.

brain54:
It wasn't a genuine suggestion probably...

She thought you were eyeing her daughter and was trying to snare you or set a trap!

Nope.. She meant it.

I once dated a lady but we parted ways amicably.. Before the breakup she suggested that I start dating her daughter and I was like WTF!

The Bible expressly forbids it

Leviticus 18:17 states: "You shall not uncover the unclothedness of a woman and her daughter, and you shall not take her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter to uncover her unclothedness; they are her close relatives; it is depravity."

​Leviticus 20:14 also addresses this with a severe penalty: "If a man marries both a woman and her mother, it is depraved. Both he and they must be burned in the fire, so that there will be no depravity among you."

But God is the ultimate judge cos sometimes there is more to things we see.

And some clueless people will believe her.