₦airaland Forum

Rapmoney:
Right man! This is the same reason some men have ended marrying parasites because they want someone they can control easily!

you know some prefer to eat and drive cars than to live as a man and be in peace. I prefer peace

bukatyne:
Absolutely!

Their reasons might be:

She will be heady
She will be uncontrollable
He will not have a say
Etc. Etc.

All back to 'headship'

and what's wrong with headship? Who says headship is about being a "control freak"? In every institution there must be a head? Like it or not. Just like you have you president, manager, governor, name them? Are you a xstian? If so then your bible gives room for such, same bible also says we should honor and respect our wives. oh I guess you want " total equality" abi? Ohyh tell me about how you toasted your husband, and also tell me how you knelt down to propose? Tell me how you showered him with gifts and flowers!!! Are you in Nigeria?

theplanmaker:
You are free to draw your own conclusion. But the truth is you fo not know the guys intention. I have dated a girl who is very rich. Her father was a politician, she was a successful doctor. I never felt inferior, even if i was a fresh graduate with no job. I even drive her car sometimes. She was more than ready to sponsor our wedding too. But i had to end the relationship at a point. Why? She forgot that she is a woman, and that her man is supose to be in control of the family. She is never open to suggestion, and she tries to give me instructions! Even my parents warned me. Did i break up with her because i felt inferior? Far from it. She was just not wife material, and her money made her so. So my dear, the truth is that for most wome, as ttheir social status grows, so does their ego. If a man percieves that your ego has grown to the point were you cannot becontained, he will walk away. A man would not marry a woman who he cannot control period!

you did great man. Keep the points rolling in. Let's shame that azz licking OP. What they fail to understand is that there must be A head of a family and by nature and by God's approval it is the right of a man. The bible also says we should respect the wife as a partner. Any lady who faults this laws is insane. #MyOpinion

RedBenson:
Gbam! You've said it all bruv. It's far much better a man earns money and control the lady with it than the other way round.

you see those "feminist ladies" rallying around the OP. They are up to no good. Most of them don't live here in naija and they spew out ridiculous advises which contradicts the real situation on ground here in naija. I don't just like it. Girls don show me pepper so I know what am saying. I wouldn't want to marry a poor uneducated girl but marrying a rich girl(who has no respect) would worsen the situation. An average Naija girl's attitude is just to dangerous when topped with riches. I can't relate

Jagabanthelion:
I have an uncle who married a village girl,brushed her up,took her abroad and somehow he found himself doing d dishes n homechores after she started earning some income.She even demanded payment b4 he gets his conjugal rights every night.Today,they are divorced.Hav anoda aunt who her hubby took abroad too n today,they are divorced. Finally,I remember a humble but rich female colleague of mine,who refused to buy a car because she was still single n over 30. She persevered for a while,begged for lifts and used public transport till her humility paid.A man noticed it,liked her and married her.She later bought one of the most sophisticated Jeeps I have ever seen after marriage,of course with the love and consent of her hubby. what I can coin from these 3 experiences of mine is that a lot of foreign culture has corrupted our once-humble women.Only a few still keep their heads low after getting richer than their hubbies,very very few.

I hope the OP and other soldiers of his are seeing these. If they like let them shout inferiority complex no one bloody cares. Naija girls are too not cool. You will see a broke girl calling a broke guy "broke"(you will even see such in romance section)... Imagine what she'll do if she was rich. And some rapmonkey is talking trash.

RedBenson:
Not really about possessing inferiority complex. Most atimes, such women are very rude in their manners and no man wants to be with a woman who lacks respect for her.

Even a poor girl sef can run her mouth anyhow at the slightest opportunity. That alone is enough headache then you want me to go for a super rich one again. You want to kill someone of high blood pressure. I know a friend of mine back then in school who was broke(always broke lol* and his GF offered to help him with recharge card, now after the card sent the friend used some to call friends and family members and also call the GF, the said GF complained that "shabi she's the one that sent him the credit, that he's suppose to call her more with it" now can you just imagine just because she helped him with 400 naira recharge and this happened several times always cursing quarrel. Now tell me what such girl would do if she earns way more than the guy.

jaysan82:
This is a very interesting topic. When a man feels inferior around a lady with high earnings, it says alot about his personality. Real men dont let their financial status influence their decisions, d real asset is d wealth of ur mind and level of exposure. At d end of d day dats all u ve, trust me, it doesnt matter if a woman makes a milion dollars daily, she would b submissive if she feels more complete around u, in a nutshell, her money is garbage if ure not in her life, u dnt need 2 b rich to attract or even marry a very successful woman but u do need a trophy mentality

@the bolded, pls tell me where such women are. Comon tell me like I said, talk is cheap. From history/present we have seen opposite here in nigeria, what do you expect us to do? Keep diving in what precedence has thought us? You don't see people make such mistakes and still jump into such. And like I said, tell me where such women are let me go and marry quick.

Tallesty1:
Married? I think No?

Dated an independent woman? I guess NO too and yet you are talking?

Isn't experience the best teacher?

Do you think wife and girlfriend are thesame thing?

Do you have friends that are married to richer women? Have you visited them at home to see how they are being treated?

FYI, Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks. The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her. These are the women that my brothers are scared of.

I have said this before and I will say it again, every man prays for his wife to be successful too. That's why most Igbo men I know open shops for wives once they marry them so that they will start hustling. Are you saying that they open shops for these women and then turn around to pray against their success?

You amaze me op.

Most men insist that their wife must be a graduate, why?

Don't just jump from nowhere and start writing stuffs just to get likes without researching your topic properly. Sha, you have given some half-baked-feminist on here something to talk about but who cares?

NOW LISTEN.

Picture a woman who has personality disorder, someone who automatically become enraged or sullen and withdrawn if she doesn’t get her way. Someone who needles you endlessly until you capitulate, someone whose mood becomes buoyant as she cuts you down. Someone who makes you feel useless, disoriented and helpless.

Then picture where this woman is richer than her husband.

What Do You See?

LISTEN AGAIN.

There are things one needs to succeed in business and work. These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.

To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are fuked. Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility. Who Wants This?

Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.

Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right; I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone

Money brings out the demon in everybody and most women do not know how to control this demon yet.

I Have A Feeling That You Are Eyeing A Rich Sister.

thank you so much for this. I have seen even relationships get blown up because the girl feeds the boy. She totally turned him to a dummy and always reminded him that "is it not my money"" A rich naija guy can comfortably date and marry a poor girl and his senses will still be intact but a rich girl and a poor husband you and I know what she'll become. If a naija lady loses her job the husband can endure forever and manage without reminding her that he pays all the bills but if a man loses his job the woman turns him to something else and this OP can spew thrash here. Comparing naija to western world. So much for the high divorce rate in your "Perfect western world"

Luchiana1:
na now nepa dey always bring lite...so by default i go just wake charge. Check NL estate small

Looolz* no worry buhari is coming to give us improved power supply.

Personally, I am not scared of "successful women" but the outcome of the success is scary. OP I guess you live in limbo cos if you lived in naija here you'll know how "disrespectful, arrogant, and sussy" a lady becomes when she earns more than the man. You can't ask her questions, you complain and she tells you "after all I pay the bills" you can't question her movement lol I don't think I can take that call it whatever you like. When I see a good rich woman I will only hope she'll be different but you hardly see that. And answer this, how many women richer than their husbands have a peaceful home here in naija? talk is cheap

Luchiana1:
oncu owliver ow r u. I see you

am just here oh. You dey always dey awake for midnight ahan.

Luchiana1:
3.30am Call up Letter don show? CcOwliver,tolustx, noordean nd other night walkers..

lol* go sleep babe.

noordean:
now u don cum join am. So na d two of una dey duty?

naaah am not staying.

tolustx:
U nur sabi wetin u dey talk. U dey sleepwalk abi? Contunu.

sha watch the fence well ehn

I pray dey won't disappoint today

noordean:
tolustx na u dey guard this place tonite??

na him be OPC here na.

arceleeleo:
To all the PCMs who have influenced their state of deployment in one way or the other; @nysc_ng is presently applying Ctrl+Z to the list!...na wetin been dey cuz d delay in case u no know...

^

Ahmed4002:
chibok girls about 200 of them are alive ...

them go release them .. nigeria army

Wow!!! This is good news. Not too late for them to start new life.

Rori:
Tanks Opeyin hmmm

you need it. To be active. Slammer.

Rori:
OBUMNEME.
ATBU
ELECT/ELECT ENG
PH

welcome. Although your late. *hands him opeyin**

femolala001:
i cant believe that we are in page 2000 not to talk about page 2027.... u guyz are the best.........
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leemah4u
tunbebes
sugarbabekemi(my one and only boo)
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u guyz are simply the best.;..the list is endless though

gbayi brother. Its all E-fun

fxstory:
on point.forex trading is taking new shapes, some rules have to be blended to suit your trade. I for ones don't really fancy sticking with ratio things because if not used properly in practice, you may get burnt.

Imagine you saw a strong support or resistance zone and still went ahead to stick with ratio 1:3, sorry will be your next name by the time price got there and bounce back to hit your stop loss. Best is to use trail your trade by adjusting to break even, at the end of the day, if price knock you out at break even, you did not lose and if price breaks the support and resistance zone and continue moving to your direction, then good for you, you just have to continue trailing.this is how most traders now trade and before you know it, you will even banked over 1:8 or 1:10 as a result of trailing little by little instead of just allowing the price to move base on your static mind on risk reward of 1:3 or more.

The bone of contention here is to make sure you don't buy or sell when price is not oversold or overbought so you can manage your risk reward.most people buy when traders are selling and sell when traders are buying which is a major error newbies keep making.

thank you for putting more "enlightment". You've said it all sire. Good evening

angelawoko:
Just got this from nysc

you dey answer them? Me don give am shepe for that insult sef. And yh he/she operating the handle deleted it.

Sodiqyinka pls where are you ooh. Do you have any idea what's going on with the letter things?

temmyt007:
Fellow 2015A PCMs, isn't it hightime we demanded a refund of our 3k from NYSC? They've failed Nigerian students. Infact, they've failed Nigeria! Its almost 48hrs after April the 27th and less than 48hrs for those who didn't pay to get theirs in the schools.

My thought tho....



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where are our law students? Let them come and tell us the chances we have in succeeding in this case. Cos we know naija now nothing dey go straight.

tolustx:
Abeg all dis guests wey dey view dis thread, wetin dem dey derive frm only viewing sef. And to think of how fast d thread dey speed, dem go fit dey read am dey go like dat?

no mind dem.

sparkleRed:
Military

hahahaha* that's unusual. But this shouldn't stop you from getting married na. How you go take dey fork? Haha

sparkleRed:
I no want ni na, everybody must nt marry

ok what career do you intent to live with?

sleekyonyx:
Definitely not Cathy, cos i've married her off to a rich hunk. quote the queen and face her wrath

rich hunk? Lolz well, it could be cath who knows but not likely

sparkleRed:
The amen na 4 u ooo
Nothing concern me and marriage

lolz. Why nau?

sparkleRed:
Amen

hahahahaha* see prayer nice one

Took this to say "I love weed"