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You just summarised his post

spiceemman:
Even for an African man than I am , this is utterly ridiculous and way too much a set of rules to keep a man happy. Like she got to have/do all these? keep it simple, respect a man and he'd love you!

Hmm..i actually agree with his post tho im a lady. Any wise woman shud actually not be offended with d post. To me,it portrays the woman as being powerful,nd d men as our babies dat need to be pampered. Ofcos God created us women to be the gentle one in a relationship. A wonderful wife can make a man do anythin for her without being manipulative. This post just shows that men can be putty in our hands if we treat them well. There even needs to be a counter thread sef. A man that has a good wife shud also know how to treat her well. Cus there's only so much a person can take #ok odabo

dbanj on TED IM KINDA surprised

Can u tell ur bf all dis u r doin with ur bestie? If u cant,that means sumwher in ur mind u know it is wrong.also,wud u like ur bf to do all dat with anoder lady? I think not.
[qquote author=Lerato9]Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M[/quote]

atobz: C'mon guys...I haven't seen anyone mention Game of Thrones....Season 3 resumes March 2014.

asiiin!! i had been waiting for ppl to mention game of thrones. just hearin u name it gave me goosebumps