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It is actually the dream of every couple to have issue after being joined as husband and wife.Many are considered fortunate to get their pregnancy soon after they were joined while many need to wait for some times before the almighty God says Amen to their prayers.

Either it comes soon after marriage or waiting for a while, it is obvious that every pregnant woman should consider the issue of safe delivery as paramount.I must say the journey of safe delivery starts from conception. Many people ignore this vital period; by eating what they ought not to have eaten and drink putting their yet-to-be-born babies and themselves on danger list.

To start with, every pregnant woman must ensure that they are not suffering from any ailment or disease that can be passed to the foetus. Proper treatment of malaria should be embarked upon by using; the use of mosquito net and other preventive measure of malaria should be adopted.

Another issue is that of diet. Every pregnant woman should understand the kind of diet they need at every stage of pregnancy.It is required that in the first three months of pregnancy, the woman must take the diet that is full of protein and an average of carbohydrate to build up her body and that of the baby. Fatty food and all Junks should be avoided ( eating fatty food and junks could lead to over weight of the baby which could lead to surgical operation or VVF (Vesico Vaginal Fistula).

During the second three months, tthe woman must eat diet that is full of carbohydrate and an average of protein plus vitamins in other to achieve rapid growth of the baby.

In the last three months the pregnant woman should eat food containing a proportionate amount of protein,carbohydrate and plenty of vitamins to control her body and that of the baby. Lot of fluid should be taken to prevent constipation.

See you alive with your Baby.

TOWARDS SAFE DELIVERY

pls suggest possible way out

What do you think is wrong with a man or a woman of 40 years of age who has every thing you may think of- Good Job, cool cash in the Bank, hIghly socialised and educated yet still disturbed by the situation of loneliness.

Hear what Bunmi Says about her frusration.

"I don't really know what is wrong with me. I've had all what I desired in life but only one thing is making me to feel so bad. I desired a man who I can really call my husband. Anytime I got one, I'd just discover that things are going in another way round. Now I'm approaching 40 will I still remain single".

Bunmi situation is a case of one in many. Many people are asking this question- what will I do to be married. Time is not on my side.

What will be your own suggestion to this question.

Late marriage early marriage um!

To help us further I want you to think about what this great men and women have to say.

Alfred Adler:

"We only regard those unions as real examples of love and real marriages in which a fixed and unalterable decision has been taken. If men or women contemplate an escape, they do not collect all their powers for the task. In none of the serious and important tasks of life do we arrange such a "getaway." We cannot love and be limited".


Ambrose Bierce:

"Love: a temporary insanity, curable by marriage".

Barack Obama:

"Most people who meet my wife quickly conclude that she is remarkable. They are right about this. She is smart, funny and thoroughly charming. Often, after hearing her speak at some function or working with her on a project, people will approach me and say something to the effect of, you know, I think the world of you, Barack, but your wife, wow!"


Barack Obama:

"My wife has been my closest friend, my closest advisor. And ,  she's not somebody who looks to the limelight, or even is wild about me being in politics. And that's a good reality check on me. When I go home, she wants me to be a good father and a good husband. And everything else is secondary to that".


Georg C. Lichtenberg:

"Love is blind, but marriage restores its sight."


Georg C. Lichtenberg:
Love is blind, but marriage restores its sight.

[b]It is actually the dream of every couple to have issue after being joined as husband and wife.Many are considered fortunate to get their pregnancy soon after they were joined while many need to wait for some times before the almighty God says Amen to their prayers.

Either it comes soon after marriage or waiting for a while, it is obvious that every pregnant woman should consider the issue of safe delivery as paramount.I must say the journey of safe delivery starts from conception. Many people ignore this vital period; by eating what they ought not to have eaten and drink putting their yet-to-be-born babies and themselves on danger list.

To start with, every pregnant woman must ensure that they are not suffering from any ailment or disease that can be passed to the foetus. Proper treatment of malaria should be embarked upon by using; the use of mosquito net and other preventive measure of malaria should be adopted.

Another issue is that of diet. Every pregnant woman should understand the kind of diet they need at every stage of pregnancy.It is required that in the first three months of pregnancy, the woman must take the diet that is full of protein and an average of carbohydrate to build up her body and that of the baby. Fatty food and all Junks should be avoided ( eating fatty food and junks could lead to over weight of the baby which could lead to surgical operation or VVF (Vesico Vaginal Fistula).

During the second three months, tthe woman must eat diet that is full of carbohydrate and an average of protein plus vitamins in other to achieve rapid growth of the baby.

In the last three months the pregnant woman should eat food containing a proportionate amount of protein,carbohydrate and plenty of vitamins to control her body and that of the baby. Lot of fluid should be taken to prevent constipation.

See you alive with your Baby.

TOWARDS SAFE DELIVERY[/b]

This topic has generated a very crucial question that I need to give kudos to those who made me to understand that late marriage isn't a disease, so we shouldn't be taking about cure.

Okay! Choice is good because you desire it to be so. what can we say about those who desire to be married but the right person is not coming. what can we say that is doing them?. What are they suffering from?

And again I want to say that whenever we see someone who is not financially okay we can conclude that such person is financially sick. Don't we think that someone can equally be sick morally. So why should that of marriage should be seen different?

Apart from those who had chosen to live their life in such way- staying aloof, those who need some one in their life for companionship should be helped.

I share in their pains and feelings.

They need to be helped.

Though some of them are suffering from their past mistakes. The Ghost of their errors is hunting them. should they continue to live like that?

And to some of them they are suffering form Acquire Ignorance Disease. Information could help cure this.

There fellow posters, Please let offer solution to this problem.

[b]There are many reasons why I consider late marriage as a disease. when you are infected with a form of disease you either cure your self or you will be avoided by people.

Take for example, a man or woman who is being infected with leprosy will have two options

one: to be cure of his leprosy
two: or to be excommunicated from his people.

So, this can be likened to late marriage,

In some settings especially in Africa, you are believed to get married as soon as you are of marriageable age .Therefore, if you are not married as at when due you will be seen as some one who needs some kind of spiritual help.

So, if truly people around someone who is not married see this as ailment or disease is this not the right time to see it as one yourself?

Be true to your self never say that it is a choice; some choices could be dangerous; dangerous that they may not have solution.

You can't eat your cake and have it. You can't be single and enjoy the benefits of marriage.

Change your view about being  single today and enjoy the full joy of marriage.

Life is beautiful! isn't it.[/b]

tgirlfor real.
what is my offense that make you to lock my topic- cause and cure for late marriage.
pls be real

ebony!. that topic is thoughtful.

but sincerely speaking any woman that fails to zipped the mouth of her husband through the delicacies of her kitchen

has authomatically send her husband to an exile of fast food.

remember everything happen there.

so keep you kitchen, keep your husband
loose your kitchen loose your husband

oh! keep it cool. that's my own opinion.

remember i respect your view.

please may i know your status?

yes! discipline is good. parent ought to be a role model

i agree with you. media and other means of communication often pollute the mind of our younger ones.

but there is a need for parents to be in control by first discipline them self. any parent that will loose control by first discipline himself will leave the control to the children, guest what
it will lead to disaster.

good! choice, hym,
it's good to make choice but not to make the wrong one.

many choice had ruined life.

many had build life

and many had stiff life

we better make choice that will not make us to regret in life.

consider many factors that affect a woman that marries late if it was her choice.

menopause,

little or no strength in child bearing,

infact what would have been enjoy while younger now become stressful at old age.


think about it.

I want to thanks all the readers of my last article- causes, cures for late marriage. you all do well by making your point of view known.

Anyway, let me add to my words. career is good, money is awesome, fame and honor are better but if you have no home you are just like snake crawling on mountain top. guest what: no one will see the trace of a snake on the mountain.

Do you know that many have died of loneliness; due to lack of love. look at it this way- you are put in a house full of all goodies that you can ever imagine but there is no one with you. how will you feel? absolutely suppressed

loneliness had cause many to take on drugs that made them to be addicted.

the fear of many is how to finance a wedding. remember you don't need to have much before you can organize a befitting wedding! GET IT! Wedding is for a day but marriage is for life.

are you afraid to marry because of money? ask me i will tell you how to organize your wedding without breaking your bank.

ps: oh you haven't read my article- causes, cure of late marriage
read it now to get more understanding

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i can see as you see.

a disease can be cured.

what are the ante-dote you will prescribe

yes! it is . but can be cure. are you married lice? don't be caught unaware.

many parent do think in line with this topic
but are confused on what to do

many buy pankere (cane) to correct any anomaly practiced  by their child

to some they denied their child food.

even some give capital punishment

but for me i believe, or should beg the parent that

we should think on how we must be disciplined instead of thinking on how to discipline our child on any wrong doing.

by discipline yourself,
your child learn how to control himself.

children learn by imitation so what you give them is what they will return to you

remember ROI
return on investment.

thanks

Marriage is honourable and enjoyable only if the right things are done at the right time. To some people, marriage is been endured instead of been enjoyed while so many marriageable man and woman are seen not married. Now here comes this question why is it so common that we have so many people not married?

Many had made the choice not to marry. their decision could be traceable to their former experiences with the opposite sex which led them to cross their mind to anything called marriage.

To some they never want to be burden by any man or woman. they felt they own their lives and should maintained a status quo.

And to some, they are cursed, maybe by man or spirit that is why they find it so difficult to have their right man or woman

And again many believed in their youthfulness. The test and trial of the present time had blindfolded them and even close their mind to marriage

Joining the list are those who had made fun of their youthful time due to lust and bride. they never believe that time wait for no man.

While it's good to lay claim on our past because it was a channel in which we get lot of experiences but we should remember that we can't correct what has gone wrong in our past; we can only learn from them. therefore your past shouldn't be the yard stick of your judgment on why you shouldn't have married.

We must see our self as a need of some one whether you are a male or female you are a need of someone. if you can reason or you should think like this: if you're the only one in the world, what could have become of the world.
the answer is no single tree can make a forest. therefore no one is a burden to you but a need to you

I don't know may be you think you're cursed that's why you're not enticed to the opposite sex. listen carefully you're what you are because of what you believed. so be positive in your mental attitude.in all thing Get PMA (Positive Mental Attitude)

You should remember that some one has author you to this world so you should do to someone.
The effect of the present so called enjoyment to your future is so harsh. so think about it. We must not live a care free life and forget our future.

Above all, you should understand that men are attracted by what they see and ladies by what they hear so make yourself attractive and speak right. I can see you smiling to the altar.

Ps : want more cures for late marriage call +234 803 5823 285

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meaningful contributions are welcome.

recently i was reading one of my dailies. i saw a caption that says PDP Govs refused to have meeting with Atiku. Is ATIKU the next president?

hey get that out. just imagine it. if there is no legal marriage there will be a lot of bastard. so don't produce one. get married

THANKS. get it right

I want to thanks all the readers of my last article- causes, cures for late marriage. you all do well by making your point of view known.

Anyway, let me add to my words. career is good, money is awesome, fame and honor are better but if you have no home you are just like snake crawling on mountain top. guest what: no one will see the trace of a snake on the mountain.

Do you know that many have died of loneliness; due to lack of love. look at it this way- you are put in a house full of all goodies that you can ever imagine but there is no one with you. how will you feel? absolutely suppressed

loneliness had cause many to take on drugs that made them to be addicted.

the fear of many is how to finance a wedding. remember you don't need to have much before you can organize a befitting wedding! GET IT! Wedding is for a day but marriage is for life.

are you afraid to marry because of money? ask me i will tell you how to organize your wedding without breaking your bank.

Marriage is honourable and enjoyable only if the right things are done at the right time. To some people, marriage is been endured instead of been enjoyed while so many marriageable man and woman are seen not married. Now here comes this question why is it so common that we have so many people not married?

Many had made the choice not to marry. their decision could be traceable to their former experiences with the opposite sex which led them to cross their mind to anything called marriage.

To some they never want to be burden by any man or woman. they felt they own their lives and should maintained a status quo.

And to some, they are cursed, maybe by man or spirit that is why they find it so difficult to have their right man or woman

And again many believed in their youthfulness. The test and trial of the present time had blindfolded them and even close their mind to marriage

Joining the list are those who had made fun of their youthful time due to lust and bride. they never believe that time wait for no man.

While it's good to lay claim on our past because it was a channel in which we get lot of experiences but we should remember that we can't correct what has gone wrong in our past; we can only learn from them. therefore your past shouldn't be the yard stick of your judgment on why you shouldn't have married.

We must see our self as a need of some one whether you are a male or female you are a need of someone. if you can reason or you should think like this: if you're the only one in the world, what could have become of the world.
the answer is no single tree can make a forest. therefore no one is a burden to you but a need to you

I don't know may be you think you're cursed that's why you're not enticed to the opposite sex. listen carefully you're what you are because of what you believed. so be positive in your mental attitude.in all thing Get PMA (Positive Mental Attitude)

You should remember that  some one has author you to this world so you should do to someone.
The effect of the present so called enjoyment to your future is so harsh. so think about it. We must not live a care free life and forget our future.

Above all, you should understand that men are attracted by what they see and  ladies by what they hear so make yourself attractive and speak right. I can see you smiling to the altar.

Ps : want more cures for late marriage call +234 803 5823 285