Chazzyboy:
hi sweety

hello dude

chikoloo:


we could share your bf

hahaha....no wahala now! there is love in sharing but u won't be the one to tell the story

FTC!!!! go search on Google....mtcheeew!

Abeg without money ts all thrash....get money nd girls gonna chase u!!!!

TheSlyone:
Ffuck messi
Ffuck Barcelona
Ffuck Spain
Ffuck Barca Fans
Ffuck UEFA
Ffuck FIFA
Ffuck everyone who is against Ronaldo

haha...easy dude....MES5I must av bn a pain in your ass!

oops....400l? he saw it coming! our glory won't be cut short IJN!!!!

oops....400l? he saw it coming! our glory won't be cyt short IJN!!!!

mehn....back in the days? anyone remember dis? "e ma wo eyin o wenwe, e ma se ofofo ofofo o da, idi ore mi le mi oju si idi ore...." it was fun....afer round one nko? If som ppl slap ur hand ehn...u no go fit use that hand chop for three days

nd d days of mummy nd daddy sef? huh?

daretodiffer:


Nah! She doenst have to represent your mother. She is your step-mother, not your mother. You are related by marriage. She is going to be there mainly as your father's wife, you can always get someone else to represent your mother if you do not want her.

You are making things co.plicated for everyone else

so I invite someone else to represent my mama while she is on sit? ow do u think she is gonna feel...ts not until she voice out that u know something is wrong.

am not complicating anything dear....just looking @ it from a different angle.

daretodiffer:


She is your step-mother, deal with it!!!

Make new friends, confide in bf/fiancee


Why would you accord your stepmother the same respect your father? She is your step-mother not your mother!!! It is not that hard to perdtend to be polite and civil.

I still don't understand how it is such a big deal. You are not going to live with your father; you are going to see him once in a while; you are probably going to call him once in a while to check up on his health.


I understand you. You are too emotional.

well...maybe am too emotional!

one final straw dear....take a look at dis scenario? on my wedding day who is gonna be there to represent my mama? ts a clear answer! she is considering she is my dad's wife...I believe u don't wanna give me that crap that it's not mandatory she is there to represent my mama...dats a big slap on her face! she is my dad's wife nd ideally she should be the one.

but my dear ts never gonna happen...I can't even imagine it.
am not saying my dad shouldn't get married again (m not selfish, he needs someone to take care of him wen am not around...I won't be with him fir life) but not to my friend.

ts not just right for me!

daretodiffer:


You make me cringe with the respect thing! Ewwww! You address her the way you address every one. Be polite, don't be condescending, don't butt into their affairs etc etc

Besides, you have a life outside your father. A career to worry about and a family to make! Get at it and ignore your father. Easy-peasy!


She has a name If you can't use it, call her Mrs Whatever-her-name-is!

You don't know me at all!

well we c things differently.

exactly my point! my so cald friend all of a sudden coz she is engaged to my dad we can't share things together again....I can't even confide in her again....do u stil expect me to regard her as friend or stepmother? tofiakpa!

I believe my dad's wife should be accordd the respect I gv my dad but in her own case ts a hell NO!
I should call her mrs? hahaha...joke of the century nd I can't call her by name....ts disrespectful considering she is my dad's wife.

it just can't work out coz we are gonna disagree ova a lot of things...she cnt have a say ova me

well Ion knw if am takn dis too far but fo me ts a NO NO!!!!

malele:


What if the person u love does not love u back? Or maybe he is a player?

u simply move on...he is not the only one on planet earth! eventually u ll meet someone u love nd he l also love you in return.

daretodiffer:


What names? They don't call me names, they call their mothers' names. You are the reason some guys treat women like trash.





What is wrong with having a relationship with your father's friend?

so many things dear...I can't stand it! ion know about you. do u think the respect ll b dere....ow do u expect me to address her? c'mon girl...well ts my view sha.

Slikbae:
But there's also no guarantee that that someone I love cares or will even be back. Anyways I think I'll heed to your advice.

thanks.

you are welcome

daretodiffer:


What is moi?

Like ypu have never fantatsised about your friends' dads

If he were Dangote, you wouldn't think twice o


Hypocrite!!!

my

c'mon girl....I've never don that! v got integrity....ppl lyk u mak d guys out there to call us name that are not ours.

one man's food is another manx poison.

greatme2good:
what's the big deal...afterall the man is single. Her father can decide to marry her tomorrow. Both are matured.

It's not everything u make a fuss about.
To me I don't see anything wrong in it.

my dear what is bad is bad! dere is no excuse for it....her dad is single? nd so....does that mean u have to s*x moi dad....ow d u expect me to luk @ ya? fake friends everywhere.

enny4real23:
thank you.........can I have your number?

hahaha....ts no biggy...but I have someone m dating now

Amberon:
Then what do I do?? I know I will never love again. The only person I've ever loved, which I still have feelings for doesn't seem to care. ( moreover, its been years since we broke up). Is it not better I date someone who I know loves and cherishes me and has proven himself worthy?

If I leave this guy now, its the same NLs that will call me a mumu for leaving him.

I understand u girl....it happns like that. sometimes life is not just fair on one but think of it don't u think of the emotional trauma dis dude ll pass thru if in d future he fnds out u don't av a pinch of love for im...if really u like him as a friend nd u don't wanna hurt him tell him straight to his face u can't settle down with him nd back it up with reasons y it can't work out...I believe he ll understand u....ts better u hurt him than wen u are married to him....think of dis scenario u gt married to him nd ur so called bf now dat u love frm d depth of ur @ showx up in d future nd com begging fo u....won't u go with him dts a question fo u to ponder over....we ladies are movd by emotions, den t ll be too late for the 'poor guy' to move on....nd he ll never forgive u for that...
to NLs bashing u....do u care ts ur life not thiers...dey are not gonna stay in d house with u.
to round up moi epistle....GO FOR SOMEONE U LOVE NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

abeg joor...I like yoruba guys die....I wl date dem ova nd ova again. yoruba guys==>y'all rock!

Amberon:
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex.

he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged....

Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well.

PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister.

u don't date someone out of pity...ur NO should be ur NO! I won't be surprised if in the next few years u com here on NL nd start ranting bout the downfall of ur marriage (I forbid it tho) cox ts crystal clear u don't love d dude, u are only trying to put up with him coz of his persistence...marriage is a challenging institution, you have to think twice bfo venturing into it.

Nina4u:
Yes i would .. I would die for him if it means he can live on ...i could also kill to defend him ...

it's easier said than done....enu dun rofo!

gosh....4 wat? relationship is not a do or die affair now...you cheat I drop ur sorry ass! ts high time we ladies realise that not every relationship leads to marriage.

jeez...do u need a soothsayer to tell u that u are bn usd fo ritual? or u sef dey add honey fo ur menstrual blood nd urine...hahaha!

Ayo199:
what is now d point in trying to discourage d ones that still kept theirs

am not discouraging anyone here...my point is they shouldn't look down on those that are not...ts a thing of pride but dey shouldn't go over the moon....there is a reason behind every action!

slim19:
Gold diggers everywhere

mtcheeeewww

abeg joor....all I wanna hear as a female is hey bae I have deposited 1m in ur account for weekend. hahaha

Love Machine:
Toasting na toasting.You have already known what he is up to.Why forming again?

ts not forming....ts manner of approach...first impression lasts longer!

no girl with er senses l raise her hand to slap a dude....ts arrant nonsense....but u guys just need to understood our mood bfo approaching....ts not every time I ll b in the mood to have a chat with you....Some guys are just damn annoying, even after telling dem u are not interested dey keep pestering u nd saying som stupid finx. your approach matters a lot....Some guys b like "ur face is familiar, seems I know you somewhere". huh spare me dat....na secondary school format!