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Unik3030:
though I won't tell u yes or no, but I have something to tell u. do u know that d love b4 marriage n 5 years after marriage is called until gra gra? during this period u are the king, but gradually when u start having kids n more responsibility it fades away gradually n what u have left is maturity n endurance. do u think u will b able to cope when d chips are down? do u think u will still b treated like the king u used to b? just think about deeply without considering the shine shine love u have now. think of possibilities in d next 10years

you are very correct

Memories12411:
No one will tell you that it matters because there's nothing to hold on to in terms of religion and traditions. But let me be sincere with you "it matters". Women get older earlier than men because of the nature of their bodies. After some years into the marriage you will begin to see people giving her unnecessary respect thinking she's your elder sister or mum. How will you feel?. When your friends marry younger women your wife will not be comfortable with the relationship because she will be the older one and inferiority complex will set in. Like wise when you you are with her friends and their husbands you will be treated like a small boy because you are the same boy her friends know. Again, your family will be telling her to her face that you married an old woman. Finally, the two of you at home. Will she respect you when she knows she is older? I'm not saying it doesn't or it can't happen but if you can stand what comes out of it you can go ahead. I stand to be corrected.

thanks alot

please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice

Olalan:
If you truly love each other been age mates isn't a barrier

but do you think the society will be happy with that

taylor89:
Are you the boyfriend to one chelsea currency?

sorry i have corrected it i meant current

please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice