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YourMain:
BREAK UP WITH THE SECOND GIRL. jeez

IamLEGEND1:
An interpreter huh? You'll come in handy when I come across something that scrambles my neural networks.

And as for the guy's comment........Petty,pity

Either way,the guy is on his own.
saying one thing now and something else entirely the next second (or next comment as it were). He obviously has his mind set on getting back with the ex.
So I have no idea why he bothered to create this thread in the first place.

Adaeze003:
Like you know me ...

I guess you need to look up the meaning of "probably".

Knowing that you're not a teen and probably old enough to be my father is no consolation either, it woulda been easier to imagine you're very young with all you've written here...

Adaeze003:
He wanted to say "pity" not "petty" in his question.
And yes, I'm an interpreter of English...

Oh ehm... the only person using 2go in my house is my 14yr old brother and I was literally in shock when I found out from him the app is still "alive". Yes, I am insinuating that you are probably a teen

Nina4u:
I didnt read all the reply ..i just wanna say u first gal left u for someone else ...she will do it again ..u cant trust her ... U will only hurt u self ..leave her..its an x for a reason ..oh by the way i dont have any x ..only Y ...y did i date u again? Hahahaha joke aside ..she will crush u ...be smart ..eighter tell her to marry u ..se her respond ..and boom u got u answer ..me i had guys in naija sayin i love u ..i love u ..i said ok ..how bout me comming to live with u we get married ..nooooo they dont want that they wanna get out of the country ..u gotto b smart my dear ...

Mcslize:
Damn! Did u just type u luv her more? Do ladies reason wether a guy luv them more or not? It seems you are still yet to understand how ladies minds work.

Love supposed to be shared on equal level. When your love for a girl supersede hers for you, she will gamble with your emotions. You will live like a slave to her. She will treat you with lots of disregards cuz she knows you love her more and there is nothing you will do about it. The world is for the risk taker. If you are not ready to take risk then you won't get that which you want

She will be in control of your emotions making you look weak in her eyes. You being weaked , placed her as the dominant partner which supposed not to be.

Let me ask you these; will you like to be placed as a side guy to her? Will you like her to be sleeping with the other guy while still dating you? I am as right as the answers that are piling up in your heart right now.

There is 100% assurance that even if you have her back as you've already done, she will still be sleeping with the other guy 24/7 and there is nothing you can do about it because you've made yourself a puppy to her. She will even call the other guy in your presence and flirt with him on the phone in your presence knowing that you have no rights over her due to your excessive love for her.

That girl will cheat on you with the other guy on a daily basis.


Keep in check your emotions.

A word is enough for the wise

jhidey08:
life itself is not fair. U don't love or date out of pity. Allow him 2 follow dat 1st gal and if she dumps his ass again he'll b fulfilled, and if she eventually does well afta d 2nd chance, den he's considered lucky. It's a gamble.

YourMain:
Yes. But it's really unfair to the other girl. It's hard but you're hurting some one regardless.

jhidey08:
well, I understand d op's troubles, it's a common thing here, "who we want doesn't want us, we don't want who wants us", if we av d ability to choose who we want and who wants us lyf would av been a lot easier. Dat's d luv cycle 4 most pple. I guess u haven't been in dat situation b4 and dat's y it's easier 4u 2 judge him. It's a difficult thing yourmain.

bolagabriella:
yea you don't but that doesn't make you bad or stupid, just that you are not ready. you need to take some time alone to figure out what you really want before dating someone else.

dmola:
i hate to be caught up btw ex's






she ll dump u the second time ode use ur head

Michellla:
with what i'v read so far.the guy is too smittened with his ex.
nothing y'all say would stop him from dumping his current chick for the girl.

bolagabriella:
simple truth, you can't eat your cake and still have it. it shows clearly that your heart is not strong enough to make the right decisions that you need to make or maybe you are just been stupid. the first girl don't deserve you and you don't deserve the second girl.

noblemails:
indecision is ur problem

itsphumbieee:
You're both contradicting yourself and making excuses for her. Just follow your heart...it won't be fair to your present girlfriend that you love someone more than you love her so let her down easy.

YourMain:
Oh my Lord.

You don't like her. Just meet her and be honest.

YourMain:
Yes. But you're hurting both girls by dating two girls now aren't you ?

Just break up with girl number two.

IamLEGEND1:

now I'm honestly beginning to think you're just an ídiot and a wimp.
you think by dating the 2go girl you're settling for less?

ur ex is the one who is settling here..... u were her side bítch before she broke up with her boyfriend and then you became the rebound guy....... after you served ur tenure as her emotional punching bag she dumped you in the trash can and went running back to her ex.

Ex saw she was damaged goods and sent her packing and now you're coming back into office......but in a different capacity: you're now her full-time bítch and you wasted no time in shoving ur head up her àss.

So keep on Deceiving urself that you're in love.
You're only being a síssy.

YourMain:
You're just being selfish at this stage.
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If you want to ruin your life with girl number one. That's cool. No one cares

At least leave the other girl alone. 've told you how.

YourMain:
That would be an ideal.

YourMain:
Lol and so ? Being a virgin doesn't not make you all goody goody two shoes.

And it's easy to say you're a virgin when you're not...

YourMain:
Okay. So you can see yourself she's not very loyal. So she was cheating on a guy with you. That means all the times she told him she loved him were all lies. She probably cheated on you with her ex. Then she leaves you for him. So when another guy comes along, shell cheat on you with him then leave you for him . Maybe come back to you for a joyride and go back to him again.

I know it's hard to love someone and know they're no good for you. I think you need to love yourself more and don't rely on her love. Allow yourself to realize you deserve soooooo much better than a wishy washy girl. Plenty of fish in the ocean. But it's very clear that you love her. Go for it. But know you will more than likely get hurt.

Leave the other girl out of it. She deserves so much better than you. No offence. Just end it with her. How you feel about her is exactly how the girl you love feels about you.

Largas:
some guys are dumb. that's why she left him and returned, playing with his emotions. she would do it again, because she knows he won't reject him whenever she returns even if it takes 20years

IamLEGEND1:
why can't you apply common sense

So you went to shop online and you were told there is only one Samsung smartphone left and it has already been purchased by someone. you're disappointed but you decide try ur luck with an iPhone.

You use this iPhone for 6months with zero problems only to have the delivery guy show up at ur doorstep with that same Samsung Galaxy......obviously, it was ur first choice when you went online to buy a phone. so you decide to ask why that same phone is now available after they told you it was already sold.

they inform you the other buyer suspects the phone might be faulty so he returned it..... so now they are willing to trade it with ur 6 months old iPhone.........

YourMain:
I apologize. But think about it logically, when you started dating her she still had feelings for her ex. So all the times she told you she loved you or you're her only one or what not were all lies. And after she broke your heart. She then has the audacity to come back and you're taking her back ?. Obviously she has no respect for you. What do you think will happen when her ex changes his mind or someone better than you comes along ?

She's only with you cause her ex doesn't want her. And you know it.

osaslord500:
Op grow up

YourMain:
I can't believe you're choosing the first girl. Who is obvious using you as a rebound.

Anyways, just be honest. Sit her down tell her you have unresolved feelings for someone else and she deserves so much better than the half commitment you're able to give her. Make sure she knows it's not her fault. And it's not cause she's not good enough. Just that you're incapable of getting over this girl. ( And you're an idiot. )

Largas:
don't just love someone who doesn't return the emotions
you'll hurt yourself in the process. appreciate that girl that never left you - second one.

Once a cheat, always a cheat. If she could leave you before, she would do it again. forget this second chance shiit you're about to get yourself into emotional shiit.

onstelly:
OK nah I think you know the answer already, why ask us then

YourMain:
I'm sure you can read what you wrote. She came back to you because her ex didn't trust her ( I'm sure he has his reasons), that means if he did trust her she'd be with him. The part about thinking about you is a side effect of all breakups and will wear away over time. That's extremely disrespectful to yourself. You deserve so much better than someone who's going to treat you like a second option.

Well it's up to you anyways. If you feel like she's worth it then go for it.