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Bongadu:
Stop acting like a forking man child, you mf beta cvck



Nigger grow some forking balls and deal with that bitch next time she no go mess with you


If she calls you ngubu, call her ching chong


I hate when niggers are simps

Nice one you got me
lol

iyatrustee:
You went overboard, period!

First, you said as a student, "you are not supposed to do much". That notion is wrong, you are there to learn and be actively involved as much as your competence and skills allows. I may be wrong but you allowed this 'I am a student attitude' and her 'giving command with a racial vibes' affect your participation in caring for the patient you went to see.

Secondly, she slammed the door slightly against you. Have you worked with her before this day? What if she didn't know you were following closely when she opened the door and let go of the handle? Except she has done this repeatedly, it wasn't enough to trigger your reaction.

Then you told her " she should f**cking say please if she needs someone to help her with something, or she should ask nicely" you were a team in providing that patient care. Like she rightly told you, you are co-workers and not your friend. Everybody has a role to play, at times you use your initiative to take up what you think you can do within the team, other times you wait for a team leader to allocate duties. This is definitely no case of her needing help. The only person who needed help was the patient whose room you were in.


My advice to you is to work on how you react to perceived discriminations because you will definitely meet loads of these in your practice. Swear words will only make you the aggressor when the chips are down.

All the best!

personally I am not a person that talks too much or react rather.
I made a mistake and I realized it
but I wondered how long to keep silent and being pushed around.
so school policy is that we aren't suppose to be a replacement for staff.
and believe me I have taken alot of racial slurs but being a Nigerian I am still getting accustomed to making a report. that is a new thing to me. my last place of work sometimes I felt abuse and over used, they overwork us as students. I try to ignore but for how long will I do that, lastly I missed my old supervisor who fought for us about this now I have a new supervisor who is new to the job and wants them happy.
All I can say is I learnt my lesson.

Goodman247:
Fake story

how is it fake?

RepoMan007:
If you have concrete evidence against her, okay. Otherwise, you are fight a tough battle.

it's just my word against her
reason I told my supervisor I don't want to push that

also thinking of putting in a transfer request to another facility.

Anybody give me ideas on how to move foward. I will be reading the comments

I will make it brief
I live in Canada and currently working as an intern, so far I have been an intern for 7months working in 2 different hospitals. I will be ending next week.
in my first placement luckily I got a Jamaican and working with her was the best thing that happened during my placement in the hospital. I will finish next week and I am in a different facility from the first one here I work with mostly white and Asian, so this girl came in yesterday and was all bossy. so today I went to see a client with her (normally I am a student and not supposed to do much) we went into the clients room and she started giving command with some racial vibes, I did all those (I want to graduate) while we were going back to the office she slam the door slightly on me (and that was it for me, I lost it) we went into the office and told her how I felt then she started whynin I told her Atleast say "fu***xn please when you need someone to help you with something or ask nicely) next she said I am not your friend I am your coworker she keeps whynin (she couldn't even apologize) she kept whynin and I told her" $#ut the fxxk up" she shut up and left the office and headed to the team lead that I used a swear word on her
now I am not working tomorrow, I wanna make a request to be changed from the facility.
I don't even know that to do
before I engaged her there is this Nigerian student working with me there
she told me the girl did same to her but she doesn't want to report cause she just wants to graduate
me being stubborn told her if you don't talk to them you will never get respect from them
after everything the Nigerian student called me this night that I should have seen how the lady started talking to her after the incident that they were all nice with her and I replied at least you are reaping the fruit of my labour
now my case is been handle and the Nigerian lady said she not coming fort to bear any witness of abuse against that she wants to graduate and I felt bad we can't even stand together even in a foreign land
I am left with battling the incident alone, I don't feel bad because I stood up for my self. my only issue was using a swear word.
Now some Nigerian staff in the facility is telling me to keep the case low that since I used a swear word it could be a show that I will fight with clients(now I am kinda scared) but I told the Nigerian staff all I did was to stand for my self the truth will find its way. I stood tall
finally the girl I had the incident with now saying that she apologize while we were talking (I didn't here nothing). I wasn't even given a chance to explain before I was sent home, reason was for using a swear word in the office.
That's just it now I am here thinking.
my supervisor from school wants me to write a detailed report I told him about the racism stuff
like I don't even know how to write it
racism is no longer like calling people black monkey but if you see it you know it
right now I don't even know how to explain it
all this because the will have to sign my school evaluation.
I want to transfer from the facility because I have been there for 1 week and 5 staffs left saying it was toxic and only black people are sacked on the spot with out any caution which is wrong.
so I have a feeling my team lead might be just waiting for me toward the end of my internship to fail me.


pardon my bad grammar.

I used to spend countless nights in prayer, my hands clasped tightly, pleading for guidance and prosperity. My prayers seemed to echo into an abyss, unanswered and forlorn. I felt trapped, my life a stagnant pond while others around me thrived. In my desperation, I turned my gaze toward other gods, seeking solace and fortune from deities I had once ignored.

As I prayed to these new gods, an unexpected change began to unfold. Prosperity graced my life. Opportunities blossomed where there had been none, and my days filled with a sense of purpose and achievement. It was then I realized that the shift in my fortunes wasn’t just divine intervention—it was my mindset. The act of praying to different gods had altered my perception, opened my heart, and realigned my spirit.

With this newfound clarity, I began to recognize the noise that had cluttered my mind—the doubts, the naysayers, the endless comparisons. I decided to ignore these distractions deliberately. My silence in the face of chaos became my shield, my sanctuary. Friends and family noticed the change, their frustration mounting at my refusal to engage in their drama. But I remained steadfast, undisturbed by their discontent.

One evening, a wise elder approached me, his eyes twinkling with ancient wisdom. He shared with me the secret of life: to deliberately ignore what you consider noise. It wasn’t about shutting out the world, but about choosing what to let in, what to value, and what to let go.

Embracing this philosophy, I found happiness. It wasn’t in the wealth or the success, but in the peace that settled within me. The noise faded, and I was left with the symphony of my own contentment, a melody that resonated with every beat of my heart. My journey had brought me here, to a place where silence was golden and happiness was found in the quiet moments of deliberate focus.


#Papikushz

Growing up as the last my siblings always don't wanna hang with me, the would rather be with their friends and tell me to get lost. I am grown now they wanna talk with me but I don't even know how to act around them or even know what to talk about while with them. It's like we are trying to force it but nothing most times I spend and express myself amongst outsiders than to then.
I learned to do things on my own, I only seek help when it's so bad, I don't even know how to ask them for help when I need, I just keep going till am stuck (being too judgy is part of why I just keep to myself and bear my cross and while at it I blame no one but sometimes it gets so heavy.
I just want to unwind here.
At some point I felt so isolated

Why does most most programmers end up on YouTube channels teaching or selling a bootcamp
why not design the next Facebook or next big tech

iLegendd:
Una don start.

na business na
as I dey away make I see food chop
withdraw to my foreign account and send to you in naija

if you need to withdraw crupto I will do that for you

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