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pansophist:
This is a shit test. Don't fall for it. Since she didn't consider you worthy to tell about her sickness, then you should not feel responsible about asking her about it. If you disregard and bail her out of her shortcomings, she will not step up, while you continue to keep bailing her out.

You have to hold her responsible. This is a typical example of men being the enforcer. She doesn't create the rules in a relationship, but integrates into it. Just as she adopt your surname during marriage and move into your house, you set the rules, not otherwise. Its not cruelty that you didn't ask about her sickness. If she wants your input, she should have called you, a man she is dating for three years. it is just common sense.

Also, the most important thing to know is that every of your actions, especially in a situation like this creates a precedent, meaning that she would calculate and judge your future response base on your past actions. So if you call her because she has malaria, then will know in the future that she can mess up, and she will be absorbed of her guilt if she say she is sick, and you'll be the one running over forgetting her misdeeds.

Be vigilant.

Thanks very much.. Maintaining standard .. thanks to TRp. Would have simp-ly messaged her.

CaveAdullam:
If a man lacks purpose and a good legacy, he will be considered worthless by the ugliest amongst women. In other words, women want to be saturated by winners as they have nothing to do with losers. It is their only survival mechanism, and without it, they will run into extinction.

Just imagine what we happen to our so called "independent" women; celebrities, influencers, and socialites, when politicians and rich men start withdrawing themselves from them.

Looooool.

Authority: Ascend.

Blessed the day I stumbled on this thread . Thanks ya all for the red pill dose.
This thread did open my eyes to a lot..

Presently , there’s this gf of mine, almost a 3yrs relationship. we were at the middle of a conversation which goes...

Her.. come and eat

Me.. Thanks

Her..
Always say thank you... it's not difficult ehn.

Me.. I use to tell you the intention with thank you is same

Her...You have to help me like whatever I like and you have to help me dislike whatever I don't like
Same way I do to you.

Me...This isn’t healthy. I can’t help u like what u consider wrong that’s not.

Her...Do what pleases you then

Me...Ok.

Ever since that day ( now 7 days) she didn’t message nor call..

Now her status reads that’s shes having malaria blabla. she’s sick...

I’ve decided not to message her since she didn’t deem it fit to after the chats up there . Do I also over look the fact she’s sick atm too? Cos my stand has been if she doesn’t call nor text, I don’t want to..

Thanks in advance �

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I Was able to gather some amount of money almost 100k. Respective agents in the house, can you please highlight the challenges you’re/you’ve facing/ed and how you were able to solve them and items needed in starting the business . Thanks in advance..

Hello Guys , please I need help on the pros and cons of starting a Paga or paycenter agent shop where one can be sending and receiving money for people alongside paying bills .

I Was able to gather some amount of money almost 100k. Respective agents in the house, can you please highlight the challenges you’re/you’ve facing/ed and how you were able to solve them and items needed in starting the business . Thanks in advance.