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For me it's disrespect and I can smell it from a mile off.

A dead penis is worse than poverty

tensazangetsu20:
For the future, use a burner phone when you want to do stupid shit like this.

Won't be trying such anymore in my life. Frankly I don't want her to accept me back. Na very good girl, and so many comments here has shown that am in the wrong. I acknowledge my mistakes

Double0h7:
I think you need to focus more on why you care about prostitutes and their economics as a man in a relationship with a woman. It portrays you as an irresponsible man. It’s not about whether you can explain your way out of this but the fact that you’re that kinda guy. Look within and ask yourself questions. I don’t think about the price of drugs, and start phoning drug dealers to figure out the price of crack on the streets! Why did you have the need to know and go to the extent of using your own phone. These prostitutes now have your number on their phone! They can message you directly offer you discounted rates. You’re not ready for a serious relationship so please leave that lady alone and let her find her husband.

I don'tcare about prostitutes or their economics, and I didn't have intention to do anything with them, and they aren't messaging me for discounted rates. I have left her alone she deserves better actually. I have learnt my lesson though.

Maeve7:
Even if you didn’t want to sleep with those girls, you made the effort and took the time to confirm how much they charge. You have energy. I couldn’t take you seriously even if it was true. Market researcher.

I know i messed up but it was just an in the moment kind of thing. It looks suspicious and if tables were turned I'll never accept it. I like to use scenarios to check myself too.

If she doesn't come back I'll accept my loss and move on. I have pleaded and it's falling on deaf ears. I have stopped begging and let her be.

Double0h7:
Give her time and space. If it’s meant to be you can get through this and if it’s not then you’ll get over this. Grow up though! Why would you do something so dumb? Wgaf about what a prostitute charges in different locations? I personally would move on because everything about this situation is giving undiagnosed STDs 🤢

Truth is i have never had sex with another woman since I started dating her. The chat with h00kup girls only happened on 30th June. I know i messed up but I had no intention of meeting any of those girls.

KillahPriest:
Get your sister or an aunt to beg her for you promising never to chat online babes again

I'll never do that, if she no fit believe me then that's her problem

MaziObinnaokija:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE. Stop begging her.If she lacks TRUST,FREE HER

U mean I shouldn't call her again?

LilMissFavvy:
A responsible man wouldn't have the time or interest to download an app like that to make $illy findings. Change your circle of friends. Send your woman a text message explaining everything that happened.

I have explained through calls and text but she's not having it. I don't know what to say anymore. I have never in my life patronized 0l0shos before and I aint about to start now

I will try my best to explain the details of what happened to the best of my knowledge without any bias, I need pure advice please.

I have been dating this pretty girl for the past 8months and she's everything I need in a woman she's smart, business oriented and very homely.

My friend came to my place and we were having argument on burna boy and that girl he wanted to buy Lamborghini for and this led to us talking about how expensive lekki girls are I doubted it and my friend asked me to download tinder on my phone which I did on that my second phone, chatted 3 hookup girls up and they charged 150k, 200k for all night sex, which means I have confirmed what my friend said . I didn't have sex with them I only asked them for price to confirm what my friend said and I deleted the app immediately but I didn't delete the chats I had with them on my phone.

My girlfriend saw this chat when I forgot my phone at her house when she checked my second phone because the phone wasn't passworded, I tried explaining to her that I wasn't lying and I didn't have anything to do with those olosho girls, She isn't listening and called me several names, saying that no wonder I sex her with strength that's it's because I patronize prostitutes that's why I have sex with her like one.

What do I do to salvage the situation please 🙏

PROPEACE:
As we don't know your aunty, she will definitely be married, the ex husband may even be her driver.

Lol you fit believe anything way you won believe. But if you marry woman way get money and come still get self worth then you'll understand what am saying. Cheat on such women and she'll dump your sorry ass.

richie240:
Females and brash reasonings.
When d woman divorces him finish, sebi na u and your husband go help her feed the children, pay house rent and pay their school fees - amongst other responsibilities - abi??

Keep playing!

My man if you marry woman way get money all this things no concern her oh. She'll comfortably foot the bills and tell you to Bleep off. Na y some men dey feel threatened when their wife get better money for hand. I no dey cap

richie240:
Come hear biko.
That it worked for your 'cousin' doesn't mean it will work for the vast majority of women abeg.

The ones wey still dey 'cha-cha' sef never see husband how much less 'tokunbo'.
Your cousin is the outlier here - the exception to d rule! For every 10 women that divorce, far less than the average remarry.

Some women are just in marriage just to have the "Mrs" title. They go through hell and treat infections from their randy husbands. Some women will prefer to live alone with their kids if they have their way but as per say money no dey , they'll choose to endure with the man.

yemmit90:
Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

That's a bleeped up excuse sir, nothing like men are polygamous in nature. She loved her husband dearly, from my point of view anyways.

Can you take back a cheating wife? Am sure 99.9% of we men won't accept such, so why should your wife tolerate it? Some women get self worth sir, if you wanna cheat marry women who understand your ""men are polygamous sh!t talk"". Some women won't take such and they make it clear to you before marriage. It's your choice to make

PROPEACE:
Mark my word, she will end up being the side chick of a married man.

lol ..na plenty mad misogynistic men full this nairaland oh. All the mentions have had keep saying she'll regret. Bros she's happily married now and not a side chick. So I no understand your point.

nams77:
Her loss.
Nature abhors vacuum. Someone will replace las las

That's your problem. She's happily married now so what's your point

Bukola94:
this is deeper, your cousin is a woman of substance and is discipline. What's her discipline.... Let me guess, lawyer, doctor

She's a civil engineer/ architect

richie240:
Women an fuulish questions.
1. Now that she has divorced him as she gotten a replacement? No?

2. Oh, she has found one?? Is the new catch more valuable than the 'cheating husband' she threw away?? No??

3. Na 'spirit of ignorance' whisper to her that "men cheating" and "women cheating" are d same, if not she for nor ask that yeye question.

lete answer your questions

1. If your wife can tolerate you cheating on her that's her problem, every mallam with him kettle

Elxandre:
The sad reality is the next guy will very likely do the same.

well I can't say 4 sure, but they seem happily married, not all women tolerate cheating. It's the women without options that endure all sorts of rubbish all in the name of marriage

DrAkpa:
And she is dating married men now I believe

Nope. She remarried and still married now for 8years. Not every woman tolerates infidelity especially if they are educated and have small change

Obakoolex:
Riches is not only the valuable thing.


I pity your cousin by the way, if she doesn't remarry in 12 months she will regret her decision cos she might become another person sidechick.

She's been remarried now for 8years if am not mistaken.

UrPapa:
lol “rich and valuable”

No be every woman dey worship money

Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Porn and masturbation is the toughest to quit. It's easily accessible and you don't need money to indulge in it.

Goodnewsforlife:
na small money dem Dey hide

If u get money reach one stage to use leg waka go turn shame, even to chop for road side buka go turn wahala.


A man with over 70 million in his account won't wear a boxer of 200

That's just d reality


A man with over 50 million in his account won't wear a slide of 3k, even abokis wear better

lol I have a friend who owns 3 big houses in lagos and a multi million naira business with over 20 staffs. If you see him you'll think he's a housboy lol. He no Sabi dress and he's stingy to himself. Wears cheap stuff all the time but he's a billionaire at just 31years . Drives a small toyota pencil light. I know all this about him because he's my friend and we are quite close. He will rather take night bus than enter flight

Greenlandz:
I am proud to be an indigene of Ilorin

We have ye highest number of professors living in the state

We have the highest number of Muslim clerics in the country

Ilorin still belongs to Yoruba despite as some people might have opposed.

Yoruba tribe still makes 70 percent of the tribes in the state

Ilorin ni mi anywhere and any day

👋

Omo Eru

Pious101:
bros just share with us....everybody no dey Lagos. I'm asking because I truly want to know

It's location dependent business. Works better in lagos

Pious101:
what kind of business would likely generate such income ....I'm interested

Enter any popular market in lagos

10M cash for your account no be beans oh. Use that money wisely. 10M at 30years means you're a big boy here in Nigeria