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EroticAngelina:
Oh dear wipe ur tearz. wats done z done. so go nw and test urslf, and nvr make dat silly mistake again! e-dating z bad!

Some guys will still dump a girl even though they didn't meet online, it happens. E-dating isn't bad, the guy was just a good player.

reminiscing:
please I need advice

So sorry... Sometimes the good girls meet the bad guys while the good guys meet the bad girls... That's one thing I've come to notice about relationships... Cry your heart out, after that dust yourself and continue life...

mrjojo:
Going straight to the point.. 2 years ago i was dating this damsel, she was young, innocent, Loved her to pieces, then she was childish and never took the relationship serious even with my constant plead and patience so i broke up and i planed to make up within a week, just wanted to let her see how things are going to be without me..
Within a week i heard she was already dating someone else, got so angry and started dating some she knew quite well too, just to get back at her...I realize later she wasn't dating that person but it was already late, cos i was deep into dating someone else...
I never for once stopped loving her even though i acted like i don't, Now it 2years and i still love her so much..How do i get her back please, just confirmed she is single...
Some is going to ask, What took me so long? Well i was waiting for the perfect time, which i later realize there is non and both us were dating and non-worked, non compared to what we had, I WANT THAT BACK!!!!

Are you dating now? If yes, will you break the heart of one just to get her?

adorable29:
This can't be your main crux. I mean, 70percent or more of Nigerian men cheat on their wives and some men still sleep with other women a day to their wedding, yet women are still getting married to men.

My point is, its both ways but the men are worse culprits yet we aint whining.

It isn't my main crux, but it's among... I keep telling people, I'd love to marry, but I don't want to, I hate how ladies of nowadays interpret marriage

See as she package the boobsy like say e still stand

AnnieBeyonce:
So...watch'u. gana do to make him trust u.

Nothing... Know your self worth

AnnieBeyonce:
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?

No trust... Maybe you've done something before or he heard something about you

8,9,10

That second chance own na im dey vex me pass..

There's also this: Girls don't look for guys with cash, they just want to be loved

After everything she'd be looking for a God fearing man to settle down with, she'd start saying men are scared of commitment... Why won't they be?

If she enjoyed it, she'd be the one to ask for it after 5 minutes

bebe2:
Yes, stronger and fatter with big belle

yuck

voodoo85:
thats why there is a joke- fucck your wife first thing in the morning and be first

I don't get it

voodoo85:
somebody got heartbroken

No... I'm just scared, the things I see and hear is just sick. A lady sleeping with her boyfriend 2 days to her traditional wedding to another man, I mean who does such a thing... That girl might just kill her husband after their marriage or she might invite her boyfriend to live with them and tell the husband that he is her relative... The man will allow the "relative" to stay, not knowing that he will be feeding and housing his wife's boyfriend while the boyfriend will be servicing the wife on a daily basis

LaurelP:
Not all of dem bro
They just like money d same way guys do
Are you saying you've not met humble and loyal Naija girls?

in Faze voice, where dm dey

farano:
11. Beautiful ladies are programmed to be unfaithful while average looking ones are made to be loyal

They aren't programmed to be unfaithful, it just that they will get a lot of toasters, men will make pass at them, some might fall with the excuse of "my husband doesn't take care of me well... I have seen/heard where girls say they won't like their husband to be too handsome, that girls will be after him

LaurelP:
1.Ladies who are social are promiscuous:The average Naija guy beleives dat ladies who are very social and confident are wayward and love sex a lot. This is actually wrong as many girls who are free and mingle with guys are actually virgins.

Many girls who are "free" and mingles with guys are liable to be toasted by guys, and if she agreed for one of them, that one will tell the others how to go about getting her. They will share her, after all, there's LOVE in sharing

LaurelP:
2.Ladies with big bosoms is a result of constant handling by guys: Even me I used to have this impression before I got to know that a lady can be busty naturally without having guys constantly handling her breasts. Those days, we will be making jest of girls with big bosom and calling dem all sorts of names. That's wat ignorance can cause, now I know better, lols!

Ladies with saggy bobbi is as a result of too much sampling techniques... If they can check the finger prints on that boobibenson, they might even find those of her "pastor" among.

LaurelP:
3. Ladies with big bottom is a result of excess sperm: Many guys believe dat ladies who have big backsides get it from excess sperm from guys. But this is not true. There are ladies who acquired their assets naturally, not a result of guys sleeping with them.

Na shyte full there o.

LaurelP:
4. Ladies who are quiet are decent: This is not always true. My experience with women have taught me that quiet and calm ladies are usually worse dan the social and talkative ones. Its when u are alone with them dat u will know who they really are!

Most Quiet ladies are "More" decent than most social and talkative ones

LaurelP:
5. Those ladies who cover their whole body and don't wear trouser are decent: If I hear! It could just be as a result of fear of parents or religious beliefs or just lack of modernity. Decency or being responsible has got nothing to do with whether a lady wears trouser or Mary Amaka! Its in the mind.

hahahaha, I remember those niqab girls at A.B.U longest corridor.... Those Ribadu hostel babes do things die.

LaurelP:
6. A rich young lady must be a runs girl: Not in all cases oo. There are many ladies who are working hard and making their cool dough legitimately. I know of one in my town who's building a house for her family. She's d only female in a family of 7 men and she's the only one dat got a very gud job in an airport.

You don check how she take get the job? E fit be one of her "uncle" wey pull strings for her to get the job or she get am because she blow breeze or maybe she get am as a serious girl.

LaurelP:
7. All Naija ladies love Money: But really is there anybody that hates money? Both male and female? The way guys paint it is wrong though, as if all they care for is money and no other thing. There are still Naija ladies who will love you for you are, and even support you (financially) if need be. Abeg, make we hear word.

Na today yansh dey smell? @bolded, Naija girl help who? I read a post here on NL where a girl was advicing her fellow girls not to financially help their guys out, that if they go to the guy house and met him soaking garri, that they shouldn't help him that rather they should join him to finish the garri. See wickedness in high places

LaurelP:
8. Naija ladies can't do without a guy that has got a nice car: That's for hungry ladies. I've seen ladies who have turned down guys who have really nice rides for guys with Legedez Benz, lolz.

Story, is it not here that a lady said she can't and won't date a guy that isn't a car owner?, where a girl said she went on a date with a guy, she liked the guy but when the guy asked to drop her off at her residence and she saw that it was an okada that he came with, she decieded to trek home, she was shy because her friends will laugh at her. Guys dey suffer o

LaurelP:
9. Thß
ey are not smart or brilliant: Na lie! The last time I checked, more ladies are making 1st Class these days than guys. Besides we have many ladies who are doing pretty well in their fields. I no get power to type their name abeg, u know them.

To those guys that say this, I will just tell them this "WAKE UP"... IN my dept. Whenever we are approaching examination period, it's a girl that I run to...

LaurelP:
10. They are too pompous and proud: This may be partially true, but not all of them. Besides, what guys mistake as pride may be a result of shyness. Many of them are shy but they cover it up by putting on a facade of pomposity and pride to avoid guys taking advantage of them.

nnamdizen:
ehn! so you use and re use untill they wear out abi let me see you near my sister

I don't even use

firstEVA:
that's why I'm against a girl asking a guy out cos a lady may not take rejection as calmly as a dude would.

Some dudes don't take it calmly, they just pretend to do... I can't take rejection, I dread it, I will avoid that girl for life, it will wreck me.. That's why I don't approach babes. So not all guys take it in their stride

firstEVA:
so what happens when she shows all the green light and she's not your type?

Do you say "YES" to any guy that toast you?. Must a guy agree because a girl show him "green light" or toast him?

I Passionate88, the President of the association of ugly guys on Nairaland don't turn down "fine" babes when the toast us, except we don't know when they flash their "green lights" at us... The life of a broke ugly dude is very tough in Nigeria

ArchEnemy:
10. Too scared
heard about the unpleasant experiences of some guys and does not want the same to happen to him

True... Like what happened when a husband found out that the wife's"brother" was actually his wife boyfriend... And that boyfriend has been staying in his house for the past four years.. The wife brought him in four months after they got married, the mother of the wife even vouched for him.. The man locked up the boyfriend when he caught them fighting on his matrimonial bed... This happened in PH, Okporo police station.. I fear women die

ArchEnemy:
11. Too carefree
He believes whatever ll happen ll happen at its own time

True... I can be 40 and still get a child of my own, I don't neccessarily have to get married first before having a child... Girls will say "what about companionship?", to hell with that, some companions will take you to an early grave

Deejavuu:
Too scared of commitment...

We ain't scared of commitment, we are scared of what the modern day woman turn to after marriage

I rep No. 1, but I don't use and dump

They are getting wiser by the day. Why get married just for the so called wifey to still sleep with her "ex" and many others....

AyokunleRuth:
Not all are selfish but nobody wants to be poor.

Must she get rich by proxy? Can't she work for her own money? This mentality of our girls need to stop...

AyokunleRuth:
the gal may be sincere now.
he just have to tell her his mind and how her attitude is affecting his job.
Trust me once she hear the acc balance is dropping she will reduce it.

@bolded, that means women only care about themselves and money... God help us

AyokunleRuth:
she might go extra mile to revenge.

i fear people that are too emotional oooo

Then he should leave her, let her go find/look for someone who has more time for cuddling.