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AyokunleRuth:
what happened?

Which danger?

hifaif:
I have told her countless times that I find it childish and irritating. She threatened to leave me for a man who cares but has not done so. Seriously, it is so irritating. I wish I could just have some space. It is enough distraction having her chatter while I am trying to gather my thoughts. It is making writing difficult for me.

Tell her you will only rock her when you are through with your work. If she insist or threaten you, have the mind to call her bluff, if she make good her threat, thank God for you. Though you will/might be down at first, but with time you will bounce back... Stand firm on your resolve don't be cowered because of her threat to leave you for another man..

I did Number 5. From PH to Aba, though I wasn't looking for a date or girl friend... We are good friends and she's a NLander also.. Infact, we met here

gabbidonb:
I can say the exact reason why she dumped him,but when we first met they were in a relationship she told me, but shortly after we started dating like a month she dumped him ,her reason was that she prefers me to him and would like to be with me forever.All I know they were in a relationship for four years.

You knew she was in a relationship yet you still dated her? Una two no dey trustworthy at all... Relationships of nowadays eh, e dn get k-leg pass Amaechi gubernetorial ambition of 2007

Tinubu:
"He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor from God"
( Proverbs 18:22)

Since you already find her so amazing, please do go ahead and marry her because You might not be lucky enough to find someone like her again


An amazing woman is one of the scarcest things to find on this earth right now.... They are almost extinct.... So please don't let go of the one you have found... Whether you know her ex or not is irrelevant at this point


GOD BLESS YOU

@bolded, that was how the other guy(s) thought they had found a good thing and obtaineth favour in the sight of God, then she dumped them... @op, what made you think she won't dump you also? Mayb she's holding onto you till she meet an upgraded version of husband material, maybe you ticked 4 of her 24 husband material qualities, what do you think she will do to you when/if she meet someone that will tick 6?

You chop?...

AyokunleRuth:
hmmmmm the gal is in love with you. Don't ever break her heart for these reasons :
she's the emotional type. it could lead to suicide

your life could be in danger if you do that

Abeggggii

herald9:
Awwww... you've what others are looking for...

Play her Owl City's lonely lullaby et fireflies and she'll fall asleep ASAP


Or if you think she's irritating... another guy will show you she's not

Not what others are looking for o, is it everyday? Who then will pet/rock the guy to sleep? Some female eh, op, if she keeps accusing you and you know you can't take it anymore, let her know, if she like she can go and D!. Which kind village witch be that sef? After if you start writting less and the cash flow reduces just because you are busy rocking a full fledge adult to sleep she'd be the one to dump your brokeass... Know your way, no be curse o...

What!.

Maamin:
At bolded, you DONT use those words together..its grammatically wrong

Nice post your head dey there

Thank you for the correction, will correct it immediately

It si VERY important... It cannot be ignored... Some girls have had sex more than some married couples

googleTALK:
bin dating her for some times now, no mater how she won't let me in i'm kinda frustrated and confused rit now

How long is "for some time now".

That's mean

Office

pretydiva:
Hmmm..d choice is urs.pls also try n improve in ur writing

Improve "on" your "writting"...

@op, don't accept her back... It pains me when an ex (either male or female) comes back begging after a disagreement with their partner.

Should I shave/wax

No, leave the bush let it grow

Timbuktou:
Yeah, she wants marriage with the responsibility. Selfitch skank. Na so dem dey maga boys up and down.

I thought the girls in the U.S of A don't think marriage?

Timbuktou:
Can you see that line about him not letting her live with them, classic shiit test. He should dump her trifling bum and move on. This is how they trap men and still be forming independent. Why can't she rent her own place?

Independent my left balls... They just run their mouth... She isn't looking for marriage, but what's below marriage... After moving in she'd start talking about marriage.. Run dude.


BTW, this happened in 2013

Chai... Why I no comment first before I read?, now e dn enter 2nd page

Thinkr:
All those men with the policy of "I
don't beat women" yall are missing oooh... The
sensation you get from slapping a troublesome woman is like
that of when you cum, sooo sweet and relaxing
to know she's kept quiet. True story Biliky
lemme oooo. "Piam piam piam paim piam piam"
Biliki I dey warn you o "piam piam piam piam
piam" biliki last warning(I was already angry)
but for where Biliki no gree "piam piam piam
piam piam" na so I land her one Towaaaai for
face na so biliki fall for ground oh begin roll.
Biliki are you alright? I asked. I begin fear. As I look
Biliki left eye don swell sha see gobe. Na so
biliki mama carry biliki come my house that
moment come meet my papa say I must marry
biliki oh. Na so my papa and mama begin beg
biliki mama. Biliki mama say no *choi* na so we beg beg beg beg beg sote she kan gree sha. Dem con carry her go clinic the left
eye kan dey ok back. But that's 8years ago
though Prrrraaaaaise tha Looooorrrd.

Halleluyah

Nneka123:
I don't see it as a compliment

You look beautiful, you're beautiful, you're pretty, you look pretty... Now those are compliments one can tell any girl, but that "Sexy" part, I just can't and won't try it.. I love my face as it is, before one obanje possesed birdy rearranged it for mua

You are either loaded or extra handsome for a Nigerian girl to toast you... We lack such luxuries of life.. The brokeness can be fixed with time and determination but that physical appearance own eh, it's just stamped to us like a postage stamp

This is super story

odunkha:
A friend of mine (a lady) want to dump her 3 yrs marriage, the reason been that her guy as a low sperm count.....
Pls she need a very candid advise.....

Let her quit it... If the faul was from her, will he still have wanted her to stay?

LaurelP:
I know you've been shining too much teeth with her.
If not she can't insult u. There are proper ways of relating with a girl and avoid insult, even if you're wooing her.

That's the thing... Over familiarity with most girls breeds insult, especially when you guys are no longer on speaking term anymore.

mirexxx:
op u tried 2 hit a girl?

You missed the part where she pushed him from the seat...

ifex370:
love ,sex and relationship's are just overly exaggerated abeg

As in eh, no b small exaggeration

Which kind talk b this?.

Rapsodee:
Here are the 6 important things girls notice about guys when they see guys,with just a scan from your head to your toe they have detected a lot about you,a lot should have experienced such,so stay cool and go through the points.....

Physical appearance
Your physique or physical build is the primary
feature that any girl notices within a few
seconds of seeing you. This includes everything
such as how tall you are,your hairstyle,your face and more,and don't forget about personal grooming too like keeping your hands and nails clean.

I didn't create myself, they should have known that by now...

Rapsodee:
Style sense
In next few seconds, your fashion and style sense is on her scanning radar. The way you dress up speaks a lot about your personality. This doesn't mean that you have to look like a movie star all the time, but avoid making silly fashion mistakes like
wearing sport shoes on a suit,You may not know, but she will notice all these things and more.

I only wear what I can buy with my available resources... I dress to my taste, not for any person.

Rapsodee:
Confidence
Girls love bold, upfront and confident men who have opinion and views. During initial
conversation, she tries to know how confident you are and how you approach things, positively or
negatively. Accordingly, they get positive or negative vibes from you. Be positive and humble
while talking to a girl and put forward your point too. However, don't try to lead a conversation, have a conversation with her. Don't try to act smart.

So the shy ones like I, because of our condition the girls will not agree to date us?

Rapsodee:
Communication
Girls label you boring if you can't keep up the conversation. So, leave those one-liners, hold her
attention and make the session lively. The more you communicate, the more she will know about you. She might notice your communication skills, so be yourself and avoid arrogance.

No love for a stamerer?

Rapsodee:
Sense of humour
Girls love guys who have a good sense of humour and who can make them laugh. They are
quite popular with women and they feel comfortable and candid with such men. Start the first conversation on a light and funny note to churn out the positive results. Avoid dirty jokes
during first conversation and earn bonus points with healthy humour.

Am I a comedian that I will be the one to humour her?, if she want's to listen to jokes let her purchase any Okon movie or Night of A Thousand Laugh... Even Bovi wife don't laugh all day.

Rapsodee:
How loaded you are
What i mean by "how loaded" is "how rich" you are,when they scan you from head to the toe they use the quality of clothes, wrist watch and most especially your shoe to gauge how loaded you are which is wrong sometimes because not every rich put much value on put-ons but they can't but still notice that.

How loaded are the girls? Guys be living a life just to impress lazy girls, yet they don't get appreciated.

Rapsodee:
feel free to add yours

Rapsodee wish you all a Happy Sunday

Live for yourself, not because you want a girl or some girls to want you..

mirexxx:
dey naturally have big butts...Kris,kourtney and Kim buh she added sumfin 2 hers sha. Khloe go it from her mom too. she looks like her dad facially.

Eminem knew... That's why he called her "the ugly Kardashian"

wunmi590:
Hmmm, I hear u 000

Gaskiya