This was helpful AreaFada2: Dude, there is a FP topic of a pregnant lady caught by her hubby in bed with a pastor.
Even if you live in the same house with your wife, nothing is guaranteed. Around 35% of first born kids and 25% of all kids belong to a man outside. So the kids millions of men are rearing don't belong to them.
The risk of cheating is probably not bigger if she went to Canada than in 9ja. In fact sexual harassment fear (men are afraid to hit on women anyhow) reduces chances of women cheating at work abroad than the regular way bosses bang married women in 9ja. With her sponsorship, she won't need to marry a guy to get her papers in Canada. This exigency is a major reason why people ditch 9ja hubby/wife to marry to get papers abroad. Survival.
Unless you are quite wealthy and she has enough money, the only risky angle is established 9ja guys dangling support and money. Because money can be very tight as a newbie. Developed countries are quite expensive. Especially Canada, UK, Australia, Switzerland and Scandinavia. Some US cities like NYC, LA, DC, Boston and San Francisco too.
In all, don't worry too much but try and join her as soon as possible. Hustling together is much better. |