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purples25:
Don't let them disturb you dear. You can ignore if you keep getting mentioned. That's just the way a lot of our men think.

Thank you so much for caring about me!
I appreciate you!

I just confusing
Seems like not good for talking about love.

I can't ignore If I ignore, not rude?
I have time today! So I can have time for discussion!
Always good to me for hearing other person's opinion. I can learn

But I'm sorry if I'm disturbing your topic too much.
I'm apologies you.

I just didn't know that talking about love and money is maybe not good.
I learned! I maybe better to talk about that only on my diary.

In fact, most of times I don't talk about or discussion about love in my real life.
Because I know some peoples laugh at me or think about I'm a childish.

If believing love made me childish, I'm gladly be childish

bigpicture001:
Which heart does women have...? You guyz post love everywhere u go,but men actually show d love d most,woman are all about money...quote me anywhere

What is meaning which heart?
Women are also human. I have heart, emotions, feeling etc.
I'm not robot.

You think giving money is showing love?
To me, relationship is not all about money.
I know money is very important.
But love and money is different things to me.
Not always money first.

How I wished I can explain about my opinion very well in English.

Please, if someone believe love, is it something wrong in Nigeria?
Someone who can't think money is first, is that something wrong?
Must think like money first?

I'm very confusing.

crackhaus:
I just read a subsequent comment of yours.
You are not Nigerian, or perhaps you are but just not based in Nigeria.

Either way, please disregard my previous comment to you.
However, it remains true and factual for a Nigerian woman in Nigeria, trust me.

I'm Japanese.
Nice to meet you from Japan!

Disregard meaning ignore?

I'm learning! Having discussion with peoples is always good to me
So I appreciate you! You shared your opinion to me.
Thank you so much!

Please forgive me to writing my opinion again to you.

I maybe still don't know about Nigeria very well.
But I think every where have that kind of women including my country.

That kind of women are only following men's money.
I think that's not love. Something like business.
Whenever his money is no more or before no more, they can easily to leave him.
I should say dump him?

So, I don't think money can buy someone's heart or love.
To me, follow him or stay with him because of only his money doesn't mean he could get her heart or love.
That kind of women can pretend like if she loves him. But no, there is no love.
They don't love him.

Some men knows about that.
They are also don't love that kind of women.
She is like one of their toy or something like accessory.

This is my opinion!
I'm sorry for long long writing.

purples25:
Thanks! I'm glad you love my art! You have inspired me. I'll continue to practice my art.

Take care of yourself too, dear.

You are welcome!
I really love your art!! I love to see your art again(о´∀`о)

Thank you so much! I will.
I really appreciate you!!

purples25:
Good to know life is going well.

I hope corona virus goes away soon.

Nigeria is very hot . But we shall survive.

Thank you so much!

I really hope so too!
This virus is too much.

Oh! Nigeria is very hot now?! Like summer?
In Japan, after Spring is summer and really really hot!

Please always take good care of yourself and stay safe!

And I always wanted to tell you that your drawing is amazing!!
I love it! I saw it when I read your diary.
How I wished I can drawing like you! If I could drawing like you when I was a student, I never disturbed my art teacher

purples25:
You are welcome dear.

To be insecure means to lack confidence.

How is life in Japan?

Thank you so much!
I really appreciate you!!

Japan is good season now!
Spring! Not too hot or too cold. Very nice weather!
Coming soon cherry blossoms will start to bloom.

But corona virus is disturbing us.

What about Nigeria? Your place?
Hot? or cold?

crackhaus:
Don't kid yourself please, money has been buying hearts and love and it will continue to do so till the end of time.

The only reason why girls like you love to preach about how money can't buy you, is simply because you are yet to meet any man who will throw millions of naira at you just to have you.

Even you talking here, the day any man offers you like 5 million or gets you a brand new car out of the blues just to be with you, you will quickly forget this your sermon.

You will end up convincing yourself that the man really loves you for him to want to spend so much on you.

I'm not toy.
Nobody can buy me or my heart.

Please, how do you know if I have never met rich guy who offered me to spend big money?

I maybe not rich person.
But my heart can't be poor. Never!

I can understand that is your opinion.
But I'm also have my opinion.
So Please don't look down on other peoples opinion.
We are all same human. But different person.
Everybody have own opinion, own believe, own thinking

Anyway, Thank you for taking your time!
I appreciate you!

dermmy:
But that's what you ladies have made them to believe. An average Nigerian lady would always go for the highest bidder. Money is a big factor when considering your suitors. That is the message you ladies keep passing to guys out there so I don't blame those guys for coming back to woo her after they have made some change. Even if the Op did not give them that impression that money is what she's going after I am very sure those guys have had experience with some ladies in the past where they got that impression that the financial status of the guy is what you ladies would first consider which would determine your Yes/No which is always the case in a class society like Nigeria.

You know this so don't pretend... Can you date or marry a broke guy? Can you start your life with a guy who has little or nothing? No, you ladies want a ready made guy so don't blame those guys, that's the impression the ladies in the polity have given them.

Oh.... Sorry, this is very difficult to me
I need take time for understand very well.

Ladys made men to believe money can buy love?
You think women force men to have money and buy their love?

To me, money can't buy love. Money can't buy someone's heart.
Relationship is not all about money.
Love, respect, trust, understand etc.

I didn't blame anybody. But to me, seems like some peoples attacking her.
Everybody have own thinking, own opinion etc.
So don't need to attack her. She has her opinion. I have my opinion. You have your opinion

Broke guy?
If I'm not misunderstand, that meaning is someone who don't have enough money or something like that?
What wrong with it? If there had love between borke guy and lady, what is wrong about it?
They can make it together! Make money, make more strong love, make more strong bond etc.
That's soooo sweet! Very beautiful love!

Me and my husband started our relationship about 16years or 17years ago.
Both of us were not rich. Still now, we are not rich person. But still together.
Of course, sometimes really had hard time about money. We had very bad experience.
But still together! Because we know our relationship, our marriage is not all about money.

Sorry, if I'm misunderstanding you and if I wrote strange things.
I maybe didn't understand well.
I'm sorry.

I will read your comment again and try to understand what you wrote very well.
Thank you for taking your time!
I appreciate you!

purples25:
Thanks Sister. They are insecure.

Insecure?
I think this is new English! Thank you so much! I learned!
I appreciate you!!

Some Nigerian men believe money can buy love?
Money can get everything what they want including women and their love?
Some peoples believe like that?
Why some peoples seems like attacking her? Because she said no to men before?

Or am I misunderstanding?

I like purples25!
I like what you write! I should say what you wrote?

To me, of course money is very important for life.
But not everything money, money, money.
Money can't buy everything especially someone's heart