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jaszplus12:
Thank you too for your response.
I'm sure others may have told you that in Nigeria and most parts of Africa the husband usually pays the rent and provide money for the house needs like food and clothing and hospital needs etc. But of course if the wife is working she can also contribute... it's up to them both to decide that.
Anyway, it's good he's warming up to you by showing you some pictures of his family... maybe as time goes on he will also bring you to visit his family in Nigeria.
Cheers.

Thank you so much!
I learned again. I appreciate you!!

I will visit Nigeria one day!
I don't mind if I can't see his family.
If he doesn't want me to see his family, it's ok.
I just wanna visit Nigeria

jaszplus12:
Hi
I followed your situation up to a point but I will love to know if he's now willing to take you to visit his family in Nigeria.
Then, is he now living with you and taking care of you as a husband should?
Please you are at liberty not to answer....cheers and best wishes.

Hi
Sorry, I don't know if he is willing to take me to Nigeria or not.
But I told him many many times about I wanna visit Nigeria one day.
I really don't know if he wants me to see his family or not.
I stopped to think about or expect about see his family anymore.
That's always making me feel sad.
So I stopped to think about it.

Few months ago, he showed me some his family pictures.
This is first time. I was really happy!
But I know this is very strange.

We are still not living together.
He still working and living in another prefecture.

He is paying house rent where I'm living.
Here is our house! Most of times I'm living alone.
But he is paying. I think this is his care for me and I really appreciate him.

Sorry, I don't know what is meaning husband should?
What is common in Nigeria?
My husband paying our house rent, Is this strange? or common?

Anyway, Thank you so much for asking!
I appreciate you!!

Tellemall:
Long time no see.
How did it go with your husband? Was there a reconcilation?

Yes!
We are good now. Very calm now!
I'm a problem person. Not my husband.
Sometimes I'm confusing, weak etc.
I'm a trouble person.
Very very confusing person.

When I got calm down, I told him what I was thinking about.
He listened my talk. He is a really good person!

I'm always bothering him, disturbing him, annoying him etc.
But he is a super man!
He still allowing me like this. Super husband!

I must always appreciate him.
He is still with me. We are still laughing together!

I still have chance to trying to be a good wife!
Of course, I'm not perfect. Sometimes I'm still making mistake.
Sometimes still making him feel bad, angry etc.
But he still giving me a chance!

I still have something worry about.
Sometimes I'm still trying to tell him.
About a week ago, maybe.
We discussed about it on the phone. I could tell him my opinion and he also told me about his opinion.
We were very calm. Not quarrel.

I really want him to think about his life and happy is first and priority.

Thank you so much for asking about us!
I appreciate you!!

I hope you are good and stay safe!!

4everEdward:
yes i think thats what he or she mean

Ok! Thank you so much!

I think tourist visa is call Short-Term Stay in Japan.

From Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Japan information,

"Short-Term Stay
A stay of up to 90 days for tourism, business, visiting friends or relatives, etc, that does not include remunerative activities."

So if come to Japan with Short-Term Stay visa and working with pay, that's illegal.

Duchessitua:
good day everyone here,
please, I am an English teacher and i seek a teaching job in china, japan or south Korea?
but i need to get a tourist visa so i can get there first, what are my chances of getting visa?
what do i need to do?
please, help me. my resume is attached here, if you can help me with a job.

You wanna come to Japan with tourist visa first, then you wanna work like English teacher in Japan?

thebosstrevor1:
Lol...no.

My point is japanese women on porn is not a reflection of how the average japanese women behave on bed, Porn is just business so they will produce crazy contents to make cash.

Japanese culture is stiĺl conservative, the average Japanese women also tend to be conservative, dating a foreigner lets say black is still frowned upon in most japanese cities, in the country side, it is a laughing matter.

Lets start with you.

Rate yourself from 1 to 10 in terms sexual openness and trying new things

Ok!
But I don't know how most Japanese women or average Japanese women behave on bed.
Only few, maybe 1 or 2 friends like to talk about that.
Nobody asking them. But they start talking

About country side, I have heard some country side peoples are not even welcome for same Japanese from other place.
So not only foreigners. But also Japanese.

Oh! I can't rate myself.
Only my husband can rate about me!
Only he can judge me
To me, sex is one of important thing in marriage.
I should say important communication?
So nothing wrong if we talk about sex, trying to new things etc.
We must having fun together!

thebosstrevor1:
So na only through porn dem dey know about Japanese women.

I don't watch porn like that, except if it is amateur and that is once a while. My best amateur is ebony masturbation orgasm on pornhub try it out and i love ebony women naked on nightie

Let me be very realistic with you, Japanese porn and Japanese people in real life are 2 different things.

Japanese porn is just fetish porn, most Japanese women are very conservative on bed when compared to Western women.

Wow!!

You had sex with most Japanese women?