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My story goes like this. I will be truthful with everything I will say. My marriage is 12 years with 3 children. I left my home last year. My husband is very abusive I mean verbal abuse. I uses everything to insult me. I work but I have never given my parents anything since I got married. He holds my ATM card, and withdrawal money at will.
When ever my salary does not come on time, he insult the living day light out of me. I don't eat in his presence because of insult. Before I left he always tells me to go that he is tried of me he tells me this everyday, he body shame me and all that. He never believe I could leave. when left, he kept calling to insult me, he always insult my family especially my mother. The abuse has made me lose my self worth and confidence. I have no clothes to wear and I work, I have just one shoes. Why am here is to seek for advice, I don't want to go back to him. I can take care of my children he has never paid there school fees but my problem is my mother she wants me to go back because of what people are saying. Please I need advice.