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@kashini, true talk my dear. i mean the pains can not be so much when compare with childbirth pains from the vagina. Pray to God and see Him do it 4 u!!

Please dont allow that cos u might have good intentions for those ur husband cousins while they have theirs. Am a victim of such with my husband little niece but thank God for answering my prayers because those her insolent behaviours she displays on me, she is now displaying them on her uncle who couldnt help but have decided to send back to her parents and he is now forced to start making peace with me and working out our marriage, I REPEAT< DONT ALLOW THEM STAY WITH U GUYS!!!

I dont expect the post to make sence 2 u if u really know where ur coming from!!!!!

Lol, A married woman like u should be proud to say u are from ur husbands place cos he owns u now unless u got some fishy things ur upto,

how will u react when a total stranger come to statswith u , and thats the first time both of u are meeting since ur married into the family, she wakes up the day after her arrival, without thinking of any other thing, went outside with 2 of her cloths to wash that morning with the view of staying away from sweeping the house??/

being her first time in that area, she staets entering into neighbours apartment to chat , NOTE; this is people that she dont know and have not seen have not me or the uncle in close contact with the neighbours before??

Ok, she enters house and u serve her food only for her to ask u silly questions of what u gave her?? In all u were just washung and taking them to be childish character until when the 11 years old girl walk up to u to warn u to stop asking her to do anything for u. All this was happening within a space of 1-2weeks of her stay with us.

My husband noticing all this at first react, and wants to send her back only to complain to her elder sister thru phone and the story changes since then. Even if the girl is insulting me, he wil pretend as if he is not aware and when i tell him, he will say she is just a child and am complaining alot.

Ok this continue and 4 peace to reign, i try to accommodate her for more than a year, but it happen that we went for XMAS at villa, this girl was doing all the house chores for her parents without even been told of what to do till all the time we spend in the village that my husband was very surprise, telling me that if anybody will tell him that that her niece will work like this from morninh till night, he will not believe it, so that means all this while she knows what she ia doing. SO when we are returning back, we decided to left her behind with the parent, but for her school expenses we will cater for them.

Now coming back, both me and my husband where managing ourselves untill when that her elder sister called again inquiring him to go and bring back the girl to stay with us, and this is where everything started. My hubby now turn back against me that i have not embrace his people, am this am that, he is going to bring back the girl. Before i knew it, she was back to stay with us and it looks like her troubles tripled since then that no day passes we dont quarrel because of this girl.

Tell me, how will u be housing someone,feeding and catering for, and training a person that is not ready to take up little house chores for you. Before she does any, it must cause trouble in the house.

But if its to talk, eat, apply my husband or mine perfume and cream, tell neighbours around of how fairer she wants to get and other bizarre attitudes that u dont expect from an 11years old child, she will come out and show u that she knows them very well.

I think i have tolerated her enough and that got to stop before she pass her rudeness to my little boy.

IF NA YOU, WHAT WILL U BE THINKING OF DOING?

Pls house,this my husbands niece was put in one of the most expensive school in the area. My hubby is very much aware of her insolent behaviors but he overlooks them, waiting 4 me to come and talk. 11 years old girl that acts and behaves more like a 34 years woman. i think it will cut me cost and stress if we send her back cos her mind has already been polluted by her parents against my hubby the first day she came over to stay with us. Although i have tried to manage her, but it looks as if the more i tried, the less respect and approval i gets from her. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!

Ok, i have this my husband niece come stay with us so we can assist in training her but since her arrival in the house, things are begining to fall apart. She will always look for a way to upset me either by not running the house errand for me or causing me to talk too much. Seriously, it is turning me into wat i dont know and my husband always seems to remain adamant as if nothing is wrong. PLease i need the way out of this cause already the girl is in school. NOTE: this is an 11 years old girl but she behave and acts more than her age. SOMEBODY HELP!!!