My Broda while i feel for you,i am also sad that you failed to some extent to play a fatherly role otherwise your Daughter will not leave you and run to her mother.Her running to her Mum feels she is more comfortable with her mother and the other way round you may be too strict with her, I guess you have to search on the internet their a lot of books that has to do with he bringing up adolescence like your Daughter you may want to read and see her you can be a better Dad, you don`t have to fight with your EX to get your Daughter back but you have to win your Daughters love, I wish you the best.

SegzyJoe: I am surprised at your write up.When you make a post you should allow people to express their right to freedom of speech.El-Rufai participated in the Obasanjo administration that failed this country so bad.He was also an ardent supporter of Yaradua until "what goes around comes around" has come upon him, This is no time for him to start blabbing, Dont be surprise few years from now our on Dora Akinyuli or whatever she is called will also start blabbing about the administration she so served and participated passionately, May God forgive each and every one of us and continue to give us his grace.