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Kasimaramma2:
just clocked 16.
If you tell a guy you are going to his house,he may start plannig how to drug you or commit attrocites.And also it was good so if he had another girl at her back in the house,she would catch dem.D touching did not start when she visited.he raped her,she didnt consent to anything at all,he forced her and she cried and tried fighting

So obviously she likes him very well coz he spends else of coz if atleast u keep quiet abt an abuse,u should be so pissed that u let go of the guy atleast he dint dis virgin her.
N what she was trying to avoid(druging etc) turned out on her even without plans
Besides does this guy stay alone that she was able to go comfortably to his house and he abused her yet she fought and screamed bt Noone could help nt even his frnds or perhaps neighbour's.

My opinion ;the guy is a very good liar and a serial cheat and that line of "u look like some1 I know" is obviously used on many girls he comes across.i wouldn't be the one to advice her if she should stay in the relationship or not coz she is the know that knows what she is getting from it,i would just advice she be more careful
No1.u dnt bomb on a guy anyhow(uninvited),everyone needs their privacy and for ur own security reasons as well,she is in her parents house doing this so obviously if she is in school she will even move in with the guy just to be sure he doesn't have a bitchh or side chick that's too dangerous I remember a girl in ogun state (my cousins frnd) who went to her boy frnds place uninvited they had been dating for a years unknown to her that the guy is an armed robber so she went to the guys house uninvited,duplicated his keys unknown to him just to meet him and his friends sharing the money they got from their operations with guns on d table.their standing rule was nobody must know what they do not even their girl frnds and the consequence is death,the guy pleaded and all bt he was even d one who made d rule so they killed her and dumped her body somewhere close to her house thanks to people who knew her movement and a frnd that dropped her, what of the lady in abuja here gwags who went to see her boy frnd in the middle of the day I tell u not knowing he was a cultist and had clash with another group they attacked him and as they were on it she came in and they all raped her,these real life stories go on and on its reali good to be careful with guys coz u dnt know.them 100% it's what they say u believe and judge from the attitudes they pull off out of pretense. guys would always be guys some cheat bt know where their heart belongs,you don't have to body guard him or monitor his movement at the risk of ur sanity coz ho.estly if u find out anything it's u that would be hurt and crying.
What if she was gang raped U need to talk sense into this ur frnd.if there was no visiting involved he wouldn't have taken advantage of her and am so damn sure they have been having constant sex afterwards.

Are u effing kidding me,this is the advice u give a 16 year old girl??
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Kasimaramma2:
I brought this to Nl because i know we have matured minds that would be of help.please this doesnt call for abuses,please.All that is needed is advice,and nothing more.God bless as you read what uche sent to me.

A guy approached me telling me his name is VICTOR,and i looked exactly like his classmate so that was why he approached me,he apologised for the mistake n we exchanged contacts.We started to chat,he told me he was 20 but trust me he looked 17 or 16.we decided to meet n later he asked me out.i went to his place without telling him only for who his friends called his brother to tell me no victor stays there,but Ibrahim(not real name).when he came n met me,i confronted him,he said that he was a muslim n his name is Ibrahim,and he belonged to the tribe people refer to as DEADLIEST.He told me that he lied because he was hurt in d past n wanted to find out if i would truly love him.he said he was 23 not 20 n he tld me 20 bkus he was afraid that i would reject him thinking he is too old for me.i asked him of the girl that he mistook me for d first day we met n he said she never existed that he just said that to get my attention dat day.I asked him of the boy dey said was his brother n he said he is not his brother but friend.our relationship was two days old n he started asking for sex,he is super lascivicious,very flirty.everytime sex,sex,sex.He raped me on the fifth day into our relationship but pleaded with me not to leave him.He told me he had a gf before meeting me,he later told me that he was just kidding.i nagged then he told me that he had left her before meeting me because a cultist threatened to kill him.today he told me that he has been dating both of us at the same time.
I later found out that the boy they said was his brother whom he told me was only his friend,was a friend that betrayed him alot by snatching his girl,painting him black with false rumours n organising guys to beat him up almost half dead.

He has some good qualities i admire:he is very gracious,very neat and organised n he is a spend thrift.But the bad outways the good,m confused

Plz how old are you
Seriously I need ur reply before I say somethings
U went to his house unannounced no1.
No2. Obviously u kept visiting n d touching started
No3. WHats ur definition of rape?? Coz obviously am sure u consented to it bt perhaps not fully

Am nt going to insult or judge coz I can see ur very young and naive and i could have u as a sister. So answer my qustn before we proceed,if u dnt want to discuss it here mail me @ mzkomsy@gmail.com

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crystalgem:
I am married for two year nw with a baby girl, though marriages ave up and down but the one am going through ryt nw,that makes my body aches is the house chores, I do virtually al the work with no help, starting from sweeping the verandah, to the mopping the sitting room,kitchen, and the passage, to clearing the dishes,fetching water and serious u nid to see our well it's rily so deep,i fills the kitchen and toilet with water, wash the toilet, cook den take care of the baby while my husband sit al tru pressing his fone. Av discussed this with him several tyms but no change. I dnt no wot else to do as this is killing me. I alwaz wonder if he love me cos I dnt no ow u ll claim to love ur wife but stil watch her go through stress without you helping ha.....pls advice

I do feel ur pains and see myself in you,when u have a partner that eats only fresh cooked food and is a clean freak but knt do anything but ping and laugh and play games,chill out with frnds,doesnt want a maid yet expect u to always be looking gud,have the house clean and all yet this African man mentality of its a wife's duty to do everything and am a man has eaten deep into his head,u ask for help politely bt get nagging and complains.hmmm some people here don't just get it coz they haven't been in that shoes and as a woman u knt sit and watch ur house go dirty or afford to lazy around.the lord is ur strength. as someone said perhaps u should act sick,faint or something so he knows the work load is much on u,and u need help either he helps or gets u external help coz am sure he wouldn't wana loose u,thats the tactics I use most of d time atleast I get to be cared for and pampered for days *winks*

amtheone:
Well, from all indications it appears that there no project at the moment because when I asked her if the project her dad is talking about is real, her answer was not valid. She is of the opinion that her dad is surprised by such amount(5m) as he may not have thought that the Governor will give them 5m and as such wants to get a part of it by all means.

Her major concern is that her dad's action has portrayed him as a greedy person before her fiance.

The 2m has been sent to his account already.

Of course He is greedy is there a worse word than greedy??

Naughtysite:
Do not ever try it..

He will fight you later and you cannot control him like other staff of yours. His attitude will always be, " are we not friends " ?

Rather give him N500,000. Guide him to start his own business and if he fails, it won't be your fault..

[size=13] Settle your friends, keep them out of your home and business [/size]

This guy is 100% right

[quote author=stellytwinkle post=35206543]Is he a graduate Or is he working

People re saying let him give her money do u know if he Is capable enough,if he works or something.

Babe's sobbing ain't gonna change the fact that ur preggy,truth be told u bleeped up big time but at the same time it can happen to anyone,i wouldn't reali advice u to embrace marriage so quickly coz ur man friend who u think u know so well can change at anytime and might see it as perhaps plans to hook him down and most of all u won't enjoy it if he isn't financially stable coz every little thing will irritate him and he would get paranoid which can result in abuse and it would be too late for u coz ur legally married already.

I am totally against abortion,u neva can tell f dat is d child dat will make u proud.i would like to take u guys tru sum memory lane
1.a teenage girl gets pregnant weeks to her weddn nt even knowing who was responsible aldoe she was a virgin bt who would belive,f Mary d mother of Jesus had felt so bad abt her pregnancy n aborted him DO U THINK Jesus WOULD AV BEEN BORN?
2.There is a preacher and wife who are very, very poor. They already have 14 kids. Now she finds out she is pregnant with her 15th. They are living in tremendous poverty. Considering their poverty and the excessive world population, would you consider recommending abortion? Dat is today's john Wesley who is d founder of methodist.
3.The father is sick with sniffles, the mother has TB. They have 4 children. The first is blind, the second is dead. The third is deaf and the fourth has TB. The mother finds she is pregnant again. Given the extreme situation, would you recommend abortion?u could have killed beethoven
4.A man raped a 13 year old black girl and she got pregnant. If you were her parents, would you consider recommending abortion?
you would have killed Ethel Waters, the great black gospel singer.
5.pope john Paul d 2nd was almost killed(abortion)
6.justin bieber.
7.celine dion.
8.nick cannon
9. I personally could have been aborted coz my grandparents were never in support of my parents union(my mom's parents are rich and dad's side re poor),they felt getting each other pregnant would make their parents change their mind but it never did instead my mums parents and sisters insisted on an abortion,they gave her drugs,poisoned her drinks all unknown to her but it never worked. My parents had to both run away and after years they finally agreed coz they saw how great my dad had become. etc.d long list goes on and on
If these people dint kill their babies despite the terrible situations they were facing why should u
When there is life there is hope,no condition is permanent,the badmouthing will definitely stop after months or highest a year and that's all,you have ur life back.be strong.
I hope this keeps u going for a while,if u ever need someone to talk to direct message me.

@thebeadslady

fphumie:
[img]jus got my machine , I am super excited!!!![img][/img]

Plz where and how much did u get it

Samchelsea:
Congrats to them but I can't find his wife because during Jonathan's tenure, he was always side by side with his during church service......Interestingly my friend just told me women always stays at the back row during Muslim prayers and that I don't seem to understand why, are women now less important during prayers?

If ur praying nd a lady kneels (d way dey pray)@ ur front with her ass at ur face u could get distracted and start imagine how she will be while doing doggy.some might even wear transparent cloths
Nt everyone is strong at heart and can be focused so it's better women pray on der own nd men,in some churches where women sit is different from men just to avoid distraction.

manee2:
This lady, a neighbor to my girlfriend though they aren't rich but am sure they family isn't poor either. Sometime within last week she called me and pleaded for certain amount of money for a Favour with promise i shouldn't tell my girlfriend and i did exactly as she said, during the weekend when she saw me she started saying some stuffs like she's sorry that she hasn't refunded me back yet but she will, as a guy i am i told her to forget about it. To my surprise she texted me this week with the excuse that they have nothing at home i should assist her with some money again. is she using me? because she knows am working. The truth is that part of the money i have is for school purpose. please advice me.

Just be wise,how do u think ur babe will feel if she hears uv been giving her neighbor money without her consent,you don't even know if the babe in qustn is trying to set u up or use it to spite ur babe or if she mistakenly tells someone u give her money (which of course ur nice gestures could be taken advantage of and starts telling people ur asking her out n u take good care of her) and ur babe hears about it.
She might reali need the money at the same time but this babe is gonna take advantage of you and magalize you as someone earlier said coz she has seen ur a father Christmas.
The fact that the money is even budgeted makes it unavailable so simply tell her you dnt have or she should related her needs to ur woman. And I advice u tell ur woman before she hears outside.@manee2

exthar87:
She has a clothing line nd oda endorsement

She is also a range rover ambassador

freshdude99:
haba bros, funke is still a starter nau. You yourself, tell who be funke mate for that list or who no surpose dey der

Starter keh Do u know how long she has been in d industry And in that industry it isn't always about how long but how well.those days acting wasn't so lucrative.
Dint you watch I need to know??

This girl in question knows ur weak and u would belive whatever whatever she tells u, I would advice u find out whatever is reali between she and this guy,perhaps ur the side guy coz for her to be sending him money,she does love him and if reali he was d one who disflowered her forget it,we all know how girls re with who gets der first.

I know there is no advice anyone here would give you that u would take coz it's ur heart involved,just be wise and study this girl more.she has proven to be a liar (it flows smoothly)and a cheat.
love with ur head not ur heart

dinachi:
Op I think pickabeau advice is spot on! I am glad you are seeing through her chicanery. Most sons are easily deceived by their mothers but your Dad is lucky to have a son like you. If she calls you go to her meetings but at the end your contribution should always be that she should settle her issues with your Dad as she did not seek your consent before marrying him! Be gentle with her though and laugh off her fears. Also tell her that it is better to seek marital advice from older couples and maybe your church pastor that her kids. Tell her jokingly, which advice can you being kids give to her who is your mother.
In all be closer to your Dad. That man might have a heavy burden on his chest and without consolation may collapse one day.

I support this

Teeworld13:
That's my machine

Pl zz how much did u get it n where??

Modified

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prettymina:
thank u pls where do u think I can get it.cus I want to get it b4 goin for service,tnx

lincoln08541:
A forty year old acting like a kid. Av u seen otedola or adenuga do sometin like dis b4. Atleast there are many billionaires in niger-delta that are twice as rich as he is,that u wnt even hear a shit frm them. Money talks bro,no nid for publicity

It wasn't ayiri himself that posted it but his brother and it was the caption that had the message that yet they claim Nigeria currency is useless how about the lebanese currency,plz read before you conclude.

Charly68:
With his arrant display of wealth I think this man needs psychiatric examination abi what could be causing this sorts of publicity in this season of austerity measures ? Only drug peddlars spend money foolishly as he is doing..the man is a sure suspect.

lincoln08541:
A forty year old acting like a kid. Av u seen otedola or adenuga do sometin like dis b4. Atleast there are many billionaires in niger-delta that are twice as rich as he is,that u wnt even hear a shit frm them. Money talks bro,no nid for publicity

It wasn't ayiri himself that posted it but his brother and it was the caption that had the message that yet they claim Nigeria currency is useless how about the lebanese currency,plz read before you conclude.

bigfrancis21:
Sent. I sent both of them.

Thanks a lot just got them.


Besides is that u on ur dp If it is then Hmmm you indeed chose a young and very cute body

bigfrancis21:
I understand perfectly where you're coming from. I have had uncountable deja vus in life.

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Rexxie:
bulshiit...take ur barbaric and medieval bulshiit u call tradition to hades,nobodyssinterested..theres absolutely nothing to be proud of in giving away helpless childsters to ppl old enough to be their granddadas,thats gross abuse..aisha couldnt've had it gud with bh if bh didnt get to power and wealth thru da barrel of the gun..u parasites are known for that...rich thru lopsided and unfair govt patronage...and what do u tapeworms give da country in return?u give da country beggars,deceased ppl,talakawas,yandabas,and of cos,the ever murderous almajiris...how about the little mothers married away at tender ages and suffering from vvf? every year the govt budget and spend huge amount of money on a ppl ever backward and unprogressing,retrogressives and hete u fuckn are shamelessly beating ur chest and talking about tradition! tradition my arsse. curses upon lugard..its a curse to be classified with u parasites as nigerians...again if u give away all da lil' girls in ur family to become concubines to alhajis and livr a lifetime of treating vvf,then bon voyage and bien venu?only keep ur medieval and barbaric tradition to ur miserable selves..

It's bad to know that people still live with hate for other people's tradition,yet we blame oba akinolu,southafrican's etc for racism,discrimination and apartheid ,this is pure regional discrimination and it is so unfair and just nt right,these are human beings ur talking about not animals,they are humans like you and I dnt think they should be addressed the way u just did. Like it or not I keep saying and would always keep saying hausa's are the best people u can live/be friends with,they are just,nt hypocritical, they care for their neighbour's, give an hausa's man a small kiosk before u know what they have developed it,brought their brother,who will bring another brother and they build the empire and expand,they are not as corrupt as other ethnic groups,they are contented,they do not convert people's properties,they are hardly greedy,go to the market and just tell the mallam "sanu" the way he will greet and sell to u ehen.THEY ARE THE MOST HARDWORKING.am sure you haven't been to the north before yet u degrade your fellow humans and cAll them names,if only men were god am sure u would wipe them out.no race or ethnicity doesn't have its own issues coupled with religion but u shouldn't judge by the little you know,they are wealthy hausa's there and even educated ones.
As for sisters getting married at 18 that was an instance.you said they should be kept to ourselves which has been so why are you so pained Was ur sister given out Ur just so insensitive and judgmental.
Your iq is obviously too low for this conversation.
DO NOT MENTION ME AGAIN.
FOR YOUR INFO AM A TYPICAL YORUBA LADY.

Rexxie:
i bet an almost 50yr old man marrying and putting an 18yr old girl in da family way something u fantasize,cherrish and wish for all da females in ur family...smh

You can't compare the tradition of the west to the north.
In the north immediately a child is born or as she grows she is betrothed to someone,once she starts to mature at 13+ she goes to her husband's house,although sometimes they don't get intimate till she is emotionally mature,its their tradition there couldn't you see senator yerima fighting for child marriage,in as much as it is wrong we should understand that that's their tradition,go to the north and see many child marriages till date,he isn't the only one who has done it so why blame him alone.besides that was decades ago,westernisation hadn't eaten deep then.and at 18 according to the Constitution she becomes an adult so wtf are you saying Clear the log in your eyes before you complain abt others atleast while in her husband's house she was able to achieve more than single girls who even stayed with their parents.am sure she is enjoying her husband's house or did she complain to you otherwise?? Many girls out there today even living under their parents roof from age 13 are already having sex(how much more a legally married 18yr old woman)
Let it be noted that Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration perpetrated against a person without that person's consent..

You involving my family in an argument just shows how less intelligent you are,why not bring ur points to make us understand rather than insult individuals you do not know.well in my family we are exposed with fast education,if anyone graduates from school before 18 and wishes to get married what's the big deal

Rexxie:
excuse me,common, i aint victimising or judging her for anything,get that clear,am on talkin'bout da goddamm rapist and child molester and lean arsse ex dictator of a 70yr old+bh u guys have brought into power,thats my focus...aisha is a pretty woman n i got no problem with her...

Go and do ur research well contrary to what u might have heard buhari married her at 18 and she is presently 45