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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Immigration Service 2020 Recruitment by PHARVICK(m): 11:26pm On Mar 03, 2021
Nasirubusman117:
Good news latest next week or this week weekend
Please people, I received invitation for CBAT on their site ( which they initially said won't be there, any) to hold by weekend...
Venue: NIS zonal command,.

My confusion is with the venue, please someone put me through.

Infact, I've been facing difficulties paying for the FIRS tax clearance on the page.. anybody facing the same?
PoliticsRe: Adamu Garba: Cows Shouldn’t Be Roaming About In 21st Century by PHARVICK(m): 8:24pm On Jan 24, 2021
But am I the only one observing that this is not particularly the problem the Yorubas are pointing at??
Enough killing, damn it!

They can be forced to stay in there ruga and they'd still be perpetrating their evils

I'm sure not every fulani in the west are here herding primarily., They want to capture everywhere.
RomanceRe: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by PHARVICK(m): 12:38pm On Dec 17, 2020
Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks
Don't be hasty in your judgement; have in mind our ladies are one unique species, understand them. I think she might have given you that response because she wants you to appreciate her more if she ends up assisting you [b]
Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks
Don't be hasty in your judgement; have in mind our ladies are one unique species, understand them. I think she might have given you that response because she wants you to appreciate her more if she ends up assisting you [/b]
Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks
Don't be hasty in your judgement; have in mind our ladies are one unique species, understand them. I think she might have given you that response because she wants you to over-appreciate her more if she ends up assisting you with anything, maybe for men to think they are doing something not initially alloted for them to do. most of them think that way, its reasonable for their level tho'.
My advice is that a man should work hard, invest in yourself very well to be perfectly capable, and you won't have to really need her support in materials rather than in prayers; and if she later does more, its going to feel great.
But paradventure, she means what she says, it only points out irresponsibility, immaturity and uncared attitude in the lady, and it nothing but a discredit to the virtuous woman.
Forum GamesRe: Similarities & Differences ( S & D ) by PHARVICK(m): 9:20pm On Jul 12, 2018
S : both have same number of alphabets 'a' and also 'k'
D : one is a single,complex word and its a name of a food , while the other has two words and its a name of a person





scene and tumour
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m): 12:48am On Apr 28, 2018
@Nickigold, October is here again o, where u at?
EducationRe: Being Lazy Is A Sign Of Intelligence, Scientists Claim by PHARVICK(m): 1:19pm On Apr 05, 2018
I even feel too tired to read d article, lol...
Forum GamesRe: Similarities & Differences ( S & D ) by PHARVICK(m): 1:51pm On Nov 02, 2017
S They are both sensed by organ of sight
D One is five-lettered, the other is 8-lettered





Life and death
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m):
endurance333:
Mine is oct 25th.
oookkk
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m): 12:14am On Oct 02, 2017
Hey month mates,are u a lady? ,do u stay around ibadan poly? , add up 07011606532 let' s hangout and celebrate
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m): 9:48am On Sep 22, 2017
pretili:
really scarce. Birthday mate grin[color=#006600][/color]
so scarce,
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m): 9:48am On Sep 22, 2017
pretili:
Hi birthday mate. we rock! grin
, yeah, we do
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: October Born Ladies And Gents, Let's Hook Up Here by PHARVICK(m): 9:45am On Sep 22, 2017
i thought i have bn alone
Jerryolumide:
same here
...oct 24!
PhonesRe: The New Infinix Hot Complaint Thread by PHARVICK(m): 1:14pm On Sep 13, 2015
I can't find in-built storage on my file explorer BT it tells me I have 9Gigs remaining in settings.If I remove SD card and I connect to computer, nothing would happen or show on the computer...plzz kindly help....08131288368.
PhonesRe: The New Infinix Hot Complaint Thread by PHARVICK(m): 2:05am On Sep 11, 2015
my infinix hot2 'has problem with phone storage....plzz what can I do?

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